View Poll Results: Have you ever cheated?

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  • Nope.. never have never will

    54 41.86%
  • Guilty has charged!

    36 27.91%
  • Recovering cheater

    32 24.81%
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    ghostinpa
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    I was just curious how many of us on SW are admitted cheaters? Are you guilty? What are your thoughts on cheating?

    I guess I should lead the way. In my last relationship I admittedly cheated all the time. I wasn't really guilty I was just paranoid. I was always scared that when someone called his phone that would be it for me. He probably would have killed me.
    In my present relationship I cheated one time (I didn't even like it) and felt very guilty for it. I never told him because I was scared of his reaction and I made my self a promise that instead of cheating I would just have the balls to tell him I wanted to fuck someone else. Almost three years later I haven't broke my promise to myself.
    My thoughts on cheating are fucked up. I hate the slogan once a cheater always a cheater but it rings pretty true for me. This has been the first time in my life where I have managed to go more than 6 months without straying. Now that I am older I think it's a maturity thing. I'm actually considering someone else's feelings. I would always do me fuck you!

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    Default Re: Attention Cheaters!

    I can't vote. I'd say Nope, but I can't say I never will.

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    Default Re: Attention Cheaters!

    I'm a cheater. But so is my boyfriend. He just is the only one who gets caught... But I also dont freak out when I find out. Its more of a "wow, you're stupid, learn to cover your tracks better"

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    Never have, maybe will..

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    eh..... does it count if you were "separated" at the time but still living in the same house?

    and you told him right after it happened?

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    I cheated on my husband with my ex. Stupid I told him about it afterwards.

    Then again I cheated on the ex with HIM - thats how we got together so how can he be so mad? He knew.

    Ive cheated on every single guy Ive ever dated. I guess I was always looking for greener pastures.... Id like to say it will never happen again but you just never know.
    Last edited by AudreyLeigh; 03-30-2008 at 03:51 PM.

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    I don't cheat. If i wanted to be with someone else, i'd just break up with him first and spare everyone the drama
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    Cheating was how I ended up with the Hubby. Now I won't cheat because we're open, so all I have to do is talk about it with him first and get his approval. Which takes all the pressure off me that led me to want to cheat to begin with! Win!


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    Default Re: Attention Cheaters!

    Quote Originally Posted by Pretty_Penny View Post
    eh..... does it count if you were "separated" at the time but still living in the same house?
    same question here

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    Quote Originally Posted by saphire123456 View Post
    I don't cheat. If i wanted to be with someone else, i'd just break up with him first and spare everyone the drama
    Ditto. I would hope anyone I date does me the same courtesy.

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    I've always broken off with the person I've been seeing before moving on to a new guy. I figured that if I was tempted then there must have been something wrong with the relationship. Otherwise I wouldn't want to get with someone new.


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    Quote Originally Posted by SundayMorning View Post
    Now I won't cheat because we're open, so all I have to do is talk about it with him first and get his approval. Which takes all the pressure off me that led me to want to cheat to begin with! Win!
    Yep here too. I've cheated before, but theres no reason or inclination to now.

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    Quote Originally Posted by SundayMorning View Post
    Cheating was how I ended up with the Hubby. Now I won't cheat because we're open, so all I have to do is talk about it with him first and get his approval. Which takes all the pressure off me that led me to want to cheat to begin with! Win!
    Couldn't have said it better. I cheated on my then-husband with K, then K went home but the marriage was still miserable, so I left. Few years and some weirdness later, I fell in love with K and now we're happy and open so there's no need to cheat. If I want to get a little takeout, I just tell him about it and there's no problem... so I'm still not monogamous, but I'm not a cheater.

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    Quote Originally Posted by saphire123456 View Post
    I don't cheat. If i wanted to be with someone else, i'd just break up with him first and spare everyone the drama
    Same here .

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    Default Re: Attention Cheaters!

    Admitted cheater. It was a hard habit to break.

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    Well, one of my exes would swear I cheated on him. We were young and he didn't want to be in a "relationship," so we didn't call each other gf & bf.

    We were together all the time though, so I shouldn't have been dating someone else. Aaron (bf #1) didn't like to do things like dinner and movies, so I had John (bf #2) to do those things with. A really just liked to hang out and party. I did know all his friends though and I knew he would be upset but did it anyway. He was at my house in the middle of the night when the other guy called and left a message on the machine. It was turned up really loud and the message left no doubt that we were more than friends.

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    Never cheated, never will.

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    I would rather just break up with the person I'm with, than cheat on them.

    I wouldn't consider dating anyone who also didn't live by that policy.

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    I cheated on almost everyone I ever dated too. However I hurt one of my exs so badly I decided to never do it again. In more recent years my relationships have been open and I dont see myself doing anything behind anyones back again.

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    Honestly my current boyfriend is the only person I have never cheated on. And don't want to cheat on.

    I never felt bad about cheating before cause I really think sex is sex, and doesn't mean anything...but it sort of DOES mean something with my boyfriend now. I don't have that urge to cheat that I always used to....

    It is also probably because my cheating ruined my relationship and I don't want to make that mistake again....
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    Default Re: Attention Cheaters!

    Nope, never cheated. I voted the first choice cuz I think if I was ever in a relationship, and really wanted to pursue something else, I'd either break up, or just tell the person what i was going to do.

    I think my next serious relationship will be an open one. I've never done it and I'd like to try it. But we'll see.

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    I cheated on my ex with C. My ex, we shall call him Captain Idiot, knew I was unhappy with him and told me that if I ever left him it would destroy him. Well, I didn't want to destroy him, but I was not about to sacrifice my happiness for someone who continuously treated me like shit. So I cheated. Then he found out and I left him for C. I realized that Captain Idiot is responsible for his own actions, not me. At first Captain Idiot tried to make me feel bad about it, but now that I realize what a douche my ex is, I really feel that he deserved it. No regrets here. He used me for a selfish purpose and it came back to bite him in the ass. Boo fucking hoo.

    I do not have and will never have the desire to cheat on C. He's the love of my life and I cherish what we have.
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    Are you trying to justify your cheating by showing similarity to the behavior of others? If so, you are just kidding yourself. If you are cheating, it's you that took on the behavior, the behavior of others is no justification. If there is any justification, it must be your own to accept.
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    Quote Originally Posted by threlayer View Post
    Are you trying to justify your cheating by showing similarity to the behavior of others? If so, you are just kidding yourself. If you are cheating, it's you that took on the behavior, the behavior of others is no justification. If there is any justification, it must be your own to accept.
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    i cheated back when i was young and foolish, but now i know way better. if i didn't want him, i'd peace out and spare him the drama.

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