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    This is a 2 part post. LOL.

    Part 1- Last night, I didn't do very well at work. Don't get me wrong, I'm very grateful for the money that I made ($130). But I didn't feel like working last night. I know that I waited too long and let the other 23 girls working that night get to the customers before I did. So I wasn't expecting to bank or anything. BUT, I'd sold a whopping 2 dollar dances from 6pm to 11:30pm. There were about 20 college students there, but it was a swim team initiation, so more than half of them had no money because they were blind folded, driven to a field, forced to put on pink female t-shirts, blind folded again and driven to the club. (Fun for them, not so much for the ladies working). So finally, I started selling a bunch of dollar dances and I got my first VIP dance, a guy actually grabbed me and told me he wanted to buy his brother a dance and his brother requested me. So he took me to the bartender, paid the $20 for the dance and immediately, pulled $40 out of his pocket, handed it to me and told me to treat his brother well. (It was his birthday) So I did that dance and the guy I danced for of course asked for my number. I gave him my stripper phone number (a phone I don't answer calls on.) and thanked him for requesting me. Then immediately after leaving VIP with him, another guy grabbed me for VIP. I went back with him and during the entire dance, he's bugging me to spend the night with him and telling me that my dance is wack because I'm not "treating him special". Dance over, I ask for my tip...this cheap bastard flips through $680, whips out a $20 and asks me for change. We're going back and forth and he's trying to run out and "get change" before I get my top back on. (bullshit, he wanted to leave) but my dumbass happens to realize I never punched out and I'd have to let the club keep the entire $20 for the dance if I didn't get him to buy another one. So I get desperate and tell the cheap bastard to give me the $20 for another dance and he won't have to tip me. (since he'd been adamant about not wanting another one anyway) As I'm leaving VIP with him, a Mexican guy flags me down for a dance. He pays and follows me back. The SECOND I bend over in front of him, he licks my ass crack! I turn around and tell him that he cannot do that and if he does it again, the dance is over. He agrees to obey. And instead starts trying to offer me money for sex; no matter how many times I tell him no. So he's good for the next 2 mins, then he's simultaneously trying to lick my nipples and touch my pussy. I get up and end the dance and tell him to tip me. He leans in and tries to kiss me. He is ridiculously drunk and waving his half full beer bottle around my face. I told him again that he needs to tip me and he starts screaming "I don't care, I don't care. Fuck you." So I just grab his shoulder and push him out of the VIP room....while simultaneously pick pocketing him. (He only had $5) So that's 3 total dances that I wasn't tipped for. Grrrr. I mentioned that he was Mexican because all the girls told me afterwards to NEVER dance for a Mexican. (No offense to any Mexicans on this site)

    Part 2- Okay, I have a girl willing to show me some stage work; and I have another girl that feeds me lines to get dances and she's also going to teach me how to get a tip up front before a dance etc. But the girl willing to teach me a better lap dance technique gives guys blow jobs over their clothes in VIP. (I've seen her do this) So my question is, what do you do during a $20 lap dance? I saw one girl making out with a guy in VIP. I shake my ass in their face, take off my top and slide down their body, I'll rub the top of my head on their crotch for 3 seconds, then slide up and down their crotch (titty fuck over the clothes) then straddle them and grind on them for a while and sit in their lap and grind on them. What else can I do? Or is that normal?

    P.S. I'm really sorry for the super long post. Just had to share with the site.
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    But the girl willing to teach me a better lap dance technique gives guys blow jobs over their clothes in VIP.
    WHA! No thats not normal and gross too. I really wouldn't let her "teach" you anything else. Besides, being a stripper is like being a saleswoman except your half naked most of the time. No need to give in to nasty LD techniques to sell dances.

    The SECOND I bend over in front of him, he licks my ass crack! I turn around and tell him that he cannot do that and if he does it again, the dance is over.
    No the dance is over right then and there. He gets no second chance after the ass crack licking. I don't advocate assaulting someone but it would have been so hard for me not to after the crack licking.

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    Quote Originally Posted by sparkleeyz View Post
    I shake my ass in their face, take off my top and slide down their body, I'll rub the top of my head on their crotch for 3 seconds, then slide up and down their crotch (titty fuck over the clothes) then straddle them and grind on them for a while and sit in their lap and grind on them. What else can I do? Or is that normal?
    OK, I think you're giving up too much too soon in your dances. Spend some time getting your clothes off. Brush your hair against their faces. Dance a bit with your boobs right at their eye level. Tease them by backing away and running your hands over your body out of their grabbing range. Take your time going into the straddle, one leg at a time, sloooowly. Don't get to the good part until the song is about halfway over, and even then, mix the hard stuff up with the flirty/teasey stuff. The point is to get the guy to buy another one, not to give him what HE thinks is his money's worth right out of the gate. His money's worth is what YOU say it is.

    The propositions are pretty much all in a night's work. They're not going to stop. My best advice is to tell you to prolong the part where the guy feels comfortable enough with you to think that he actually has a shot. Not giving up too much too soon is psychological, too... don't waste your energy emotionally bonding with some dude who's only going to give you $20. You'll pick up on which guys are which soon. Just keep your eyes open, pay attention to who gives you money and for what.

    Also... pickpocketing... NOT A GOOD LOOK! It's not only unethical, it's dangerous and could very easily get you into trouble. If not with the club management, then with some drunk guy who is mad enough not to care that you're a woman when he takes a swing. He punches you, the club kicks him out... and you're out of a job for a week while your face heals. And that's IF management is sympathetic, which they really don't have to be considering that you DID steal from a customer. I'm not trying to be personally judgmental here, either... I'm telling you this because in this environment you really have to take care of yourself and accurately assess the risks of your behavior weighed against what they're worth. And I'm sure you'd agree that no five bucks in the universe is worth that kind of risk.
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    i keep hearing you talk about dollar dances in your posts. what? seriously a dollar? how long is this dance, i hope not a full song for a dollar. do your club have vip that cost more than 20? a champagne room or something because vip is usually 300. sorry for threadjack, but your club is starting to make me mad.
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    I'd say most guys never tip for lapdances. They figure the price is enough. You can't really expect lapdance tips, with rare exceptions, even if you're giving the best lapdance EVER.

    I agree with red red red that it sounds like you're giving away too much too fast. You want guys to get addicted to you, to buy another and another and another dance. That's the way you make money - when other guys see you staying in back a long time they will want to know what's up and buy from you also.

    Red red red has good suggestions on ways to improve your lapdances to sell more. You don't have to get dirty to do a hot lapdance that will keep guys coming back. I would NOT follow the lead of some girl who does BJs (either over the clothes or under) during laps - she is obviously a poor businesswoman and doesn't REALLY know how to make money. One can always make some money getting dirty, but the big money is made by teasing and selling, not giving away the farm for cheap.

    Read through red red red's lapdance suggestions again. And to her advice I would add: You can do lots of little things to make guys feel good and get them hooked without being nasty. Think sensual. Run your nails up and down their arms and chest, run your fingers through their hair, softly rub the back of their necks then run your hands down their shoulders and run your nails down the arms. You can do these things while sitting on one of his thighs and just barely grinding (and I mean BARELY!). You can also do some of this stuff while just leaning over him with your boobs right at eye level, then slowly move your body to slide down on him. Eye contact! When you turn your back to him, always turn so you can look back at him sexily. When facing him, look at his mouth for a few seconds then slowly bring your gaze to his eyes then back down again. This is very flirtatious and a subconscious turn-on.

    These are the kinds of things you can do to fuck a guy's mind, and that is what gets more into his wallet. I can't tell you how many guys have told me I gave them the best dance of their lives, or one of the best, or that I had turned them on more than they had been in years, and I hadn't really done much of anything. Sex is mostly mental and if you can get into that sexual mental mode while doing lapdances your are golden


    Oh and I second the no pickpocketing thing. Geez, guys think strippers are shady and worthless enough without girls doing shit to prove them right! I don't give a shit if he is Mexican, Indian, or fucking alien. You don't steal from customers! Bad karma and it WILL come back to bite you in the ass. Also not tipping you is NO reason to steal from him.

    Remember: the money is always HIS until you convince him to give it to you. The idea is to learn to convince guys to hand you their money willingly - THAT is what makes a good and successful stripper.

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    I second what bridgette said about the sensual lap dancing style- it will keep them interested much longer. However, can you clarify one thing for me? During your post, you refer to your lap dance "tip". Are you talking about the upfront fee for the dance ie (the dance *costs* 20 dollars) or are you talking about tips on top of the dance price? For some reason it sounded to me like you were saying you didn't get PAID for those dances.
    Also-where are your bouncers during all the ass licking madness?

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    One thing you might want to try that works for me is that after I finish a lap dance, I push my cleavage together and I say, "You can tip me right in here," in a sultry voice, in a tone that suggests I'm doing the customer a favor. It works. They always tip me at least $2, sometimes as much as $20. If you don't have enough cleavage or don't want to do that, you can do the same thing using your garter. Just caress the garter and finger the string in a sexy way as you say it. That works too.
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    ^^I'm really confused by this 'lap dance tip' thing too. Totally get your dance money up front (I know if you're in PA that's not the way they like to do it, but try!), but the only places I've seen where you try to get a extra tip up front is a extras/rip off club. Are you telling them it's $20 for the good dance/$30 (or whatev) for the great dance? That's a bit more kosher.

    Are the other girl's dances so intense? I've worked at places like that and it sucks and is tiring! Unless the guy is one of those who just want booty-popping, I agree with the other girls-go slow, slowly slide off your top,bottoms,dress, etc. Look into their eyes (or just above). Make it hot, not just dirty. Even if they do want a bouncy-butt/grindy ld, mix it up. Be silly, for a sec, then hot again.

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    Rose, I'm not clear on what the OP's situation is, but I'm talking about a situation where the customer already paid for the dance up front and after you give the dance you want to get a tip.
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    Beware what other girls tell you. I would stay far, far away from BJ girl. Definitely ignore what they say about race too. While I will admit I often seem to have more shit to put up with from Mexicans, I've had plenty of well behaved well paying ones too (not to mention cheap grabby nasty white/black/asian guys) and while my club is probably 90% white, I make almost half my money off of Mexicans. They seem to like me, whatever. Black white or purple, you can always get money upfront and end the dance if they misbehave.

    I wouldn't push the tip too much either. Sweetly hint, but don't make a stink over it.
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    hmm..I understand you a new dancer and are still learning the ropes, but I fear your learning the wrong techniques.

    This is the second post you've made claiming to steal from a customer. That's just not cool at all.

    I'm also confused on your tip thing, but if you are truly just asking for a tip on top of being paid for the dance and not actually paid for the dance,. please remember that a tip is a gratuity to show appriciation for a job well done, it's not required. You should appriciate it when a customer tips you, and certainly not rip them off and steal from them when they don't tip you. You can ask sweety for a tip, but never demand one or be bitchy about it....not the kind of reputation you want to build if you want any hope of repeat customers.

    Now, if it's the dance your not getting paid for..a much better technique I learned on here is to take something of theirs and hold it as collateral to force them to pay you. For example, if their car kjeys are on the table, pick thse up and tell the guy you aren't giving them back until you get paid. Usually they will pay up real quick after that.
    But please..don't steal or pickpocket. that is so uncool and can really get you into trouble when you get caught.

    The idea is to learn to convince guys to hand you their money willingly - THAT is what makes a good and successful stripper.
    Very true.

    Good luck, sweetie. Maybe you need to try a different club....this one sounds shady, and not a good place to start learning how to be a dancer.

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    Okay, I should've been more clear about a few things:

    1- My club offers only dollar dances (yup, seriously $1 for about half a song....nobody wants to buy any from me because I only dance for about half a minute and I don't do the heavy grinding that other girls do during the dollar dance) and $20 VIP

    2- The customer pays the bartender $20 for the VIP dance, then we go back, dance and ask for tip. Now considering that last week was my first week of work, I initially realized that the tip was the customers CHOICE and I would ask them to tip me if they "think I deserve it", but once other dancers, the dj and bartender found out about that; they all informed me that I need to DEMAND my tip and not let them leave until I get it; which has me worried because I don't want to get beat up trying to be a hard ass when I'm not....but literally EVERYONE at the club keeps telling me to be more aggressive and tells me to do these things.

    3- When I say I pick pocketed him, I took the $5 out of his left hand....but to me, it's the same thing, pick pocketing, snatching money, picking up money that you saw someone drop without telling them....it's all stealing. I totally understand where the concern is coming from with this one too as I was scared shitless while doing it because I've never done something like that in my life until the past 2 nights at the club; and the first post where I mentioned taking money from a customers hand, I only did that because he was stealing money from ME......and about 4 other girls as I came to find out saturday night. The guy that I just now took the $5 from pissed me off because I was being disgustingly harrassed. I normally don't touch what isn't mine, but I keep getting feedback to do so from "vets" (not on this site, at my club...see why I need this site?) It makes me feel funny, that's why I check in with you all to get proper feedback.

    4- Thank you so much for the dance tips! I will work on that. But as Roseleigh mentioned/ the biggest problem is that the other girls at the club give away SO MUCH during their dances. They start right out the gate, topless and grinding. It sucks for me because the VIP is nothing but doorless booths with a chair in it; so as I'm doing my dance, the guy can look into another booth and watch a more intense/dirty dance and tells me that my dance sucks (happened twice already)

    5- Let me explain the club fees etc. Okay if we get in on time (6pm during the week/ 2pm on saturday) we pay $15 club fee, 10 mins late $30, 30 mins late $50 etc. VIP dances- $20- dancer gets $10. We have a minimum $20 tip out to the dj and we have to tip the bartender. 90% of the customers are regulars and only spend money on their girls, other than sliding you $1 during each of your stage sets (about 5 per night). The other 10% of customers are either "not into black girls", want "more than a dance" or don't tip. So every night, unless I'm doing some HEAVY grinding, I'm barely making club fee and tip out. The club was pretty busy this weekend and I made about $11 each stage set.

    So I'm having a lot of problems here. I'm being misinformed by staff at the club, including the bartender, whose job it is to instruct new girls on what exactly to do/not to do etc. according to the owner. So when everyone is telling me "make SURE they tip you, don't let them leave without tipping you. If they pull out anything less than a $20, let them know that the minimum tip for VIP is $20, you have to be more aggressive, get your tip BEFORE you dance that way it's guaranteed money, if the money is in his hand and he's hesitating to give it to you just talk fast and take that shit...etc." what do I do? I ALWAYS thought that a tip was a gratuity for a job well done; don't get me wrong....I'm NOT trying to put the blame on anyone else; I'm just a bit confused on how to make money at this club when these are the typical things that go on.

    I'm so frustrated, I could cry right now. I don't want to be touched on my vajayjay, licked on ANY part of my body, I'm sick of being begged to prostitute myself and I'm tired of custies telling other custies that my dances suck because I don't want to kiss them or give them head or a hand job. I'm just so confused. I knew that I'd have to take on another persona when dancing, but I'm not liking this person. It's like....if I do what I would normally do then everybody at work tells me that I'm doing wrong, but if I do what they say to do, I don't feel right.
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    I should add that it is not anything you ladies say/reccommend/criticize that makes me feel bad; I appreciate it A LOT. Its when I'm at work, I approach every guy and dance a bit and lift my garter for my dollar, but I didn't do as much as other girls, so they don't want to pay me. Then they want me on their lap while we have a convo, but don't want to tip me as time passes and don't want to do VIP. So if I sit for too long, the DJ yells at me (over the mic sometimes). Then if you aren't selling dances, the owner/manager brings you into the office and yells at you (I can't FORCE the guys to buy dances; especially when there are 24 girls working one night in a club so small there is only 1 stage.) If I'm polite to customers, I'm told that I'm not aggressive enough and I should do this, this and this. If I give him the option to tip me, I'm told I have to MAKE him tip me. It's like at this club, you either have to be a hooker or a thief to make money and I'm neither. I feel like I'm taking my clothes off for nothing. I'm sure it's all part of the learning process, but jeez, somethings gotta give.
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    Get Your Tip Up Front At The Grandview Sparkle!!!!!!!!!! Don't Listen To What Anyone Says.....just Get It Up Front !

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    Alrite I posted that last post because I was frantic LOL. But seriously....the fuckers going into that club KNOW that they have to pay $40 a dance. Its CUSTOMARY there to receive a $20 for a $20 lapdance, because they know we only get $10.

    Next time someone licks your ass or something else creepy, scare them. "You need to give me all the money in your wallet before I get your sorry ass kicked out"


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    ^^Ahh, that makes more sense then. Sparkly, maybe you need to try a new club though. This club sounds shady. Guys in Philly often want 'more than a dance' as well, but there are low contact places (search on Creekside, or Daydreams) as well as clean (ish) places and the love the hell out of black girls here! $1 for a grinding dance is madness!

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    Yeah, reading over this, it sounds like it's the club and not you. I'd start shopping for a new club. But meanwhile, look for a stripper mentor. There are a few in every club, girls who get paid without doing much in the way of a "good" dance. They'll probably be low key, and they're probably not so quick to offer up advice to a newbie. Pay attention to what the other girls are doing... chances are you'll be able to find someone who has what you want going on and you can watch and figure out how she does it in there. Don't tell her she's your stripper mentor, just watch and learn.

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    I agree with red red red, think about lookin for a new club as the one your in doesn't seem to have high earning potential.
    These days we all have to deal with the fact that there are other girls willing to do much more for much less money. As Bridgette said, there is some money to be made
    there but the real money is with teasing and making the guy want more.

    I have the same problem with open dance rooms. Your doing your best to give a great dance and guy looks across the booth and sees a girl with a custys hands all over her. Immediately he's thinking thats what he should be getting. The thing that will help you here is eye contact. Keep looking the guy in the face, no matter what your doing you should be looking him in the eye, this no.1 makes him feel like your really into him and no.2 stops his eyes from straying to other booths.

    For girls that give it all away too soon, they will never be high earners, once you've given it all away theres nothing else left to give. I always keep my first dance very teasing and suggestive and just as its hotting up I say, "Shall we have one more?" or words to that effect, it nearly always works. I keep this dance slightly hotter than the last then repeat, this means the guys thinking the more money he spends the more he's gonna get. If I was to give it all away on my first dance this technique couldn't work.



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    One other thing... Do NOT tell the customers that a dance is "$20 + tip". Tell the customer the dance is "$40". If they ask why it's $40 when someone else is charging $20, just say, "It's $20 to the club and $20 for me."

    Even though it is technically a "tip", when you say "tip", it makes it sound optional. Just tell them it's $40 and leave it at that.

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    Your club/DJ/management sound shady and they put you under pressure to the point where you feel that you have to do illegal/bad things to make money. Find a new club. Nobody should be cracking the whip on you but you.

    Also---please don't be influenced by other dancers in the club. Mind your own business and play by the rules. Some girl may tell you to give BJ-through-the-clothes- dances to get you into trouble and get you fired. The girls don't always welcome new competition and will sometimes trick you into doing things that will get you fired. You really can't trust anyone, and that is where your intuition and brain comes into play.

    Find new club, play by the rules, and don't listen to anyone but yourself.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Bridgette View Post
    I'd say most guys never tip for lapdances. They figure the price is enough. You can't really expect lapdance tips . . .
    Glad you said this - I wasn't clear around expectations.
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    I agree with all the advice here. Find a new club ASAP!

    And that BJ through the pants thing? It makes me gag thinking about it really. I think it's more like blowing hot air through the crotch of the pants making it all warm, which I have seen a lot of girls do in LA. So many guys drip pee on their pants when they go to the bathroom. That's just gross.

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    I've actually seen girls biting guys through their trousers. Not only is it that hygenic but I can't imagin it feel all that good either.



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    Quote Originally Posted by Polekitten View Post
    I agree with red red red, think about lookin for a new club as the one your in doesn't seem to have high earning potential.
    These days we all have to deal with the fact that there are other girls willing to do much more for much less money. As Bridgette said, there is some money to be made there but the real money is with teasing and making the guy want more.

    I have the same problem with open dance rooms. Your doing your best to give a great dance and guy looks across the booth and sees a girl with a custys hands all over her. Immediately he's thinking thats what he should be getting. The thing that will help you here is eye contact. Keep looking the guy in the face, no matter what your doing you should be looking him in the eye, this no.1 makes him feel like your really into him and no.2 stops his eyes from straying to other booths.

    For girls that give it all away too soon, they will never be high earners, once you've given it all away theres nothing else left to give. I always keep my first dance very teasing and suggestive and just as its hotting up I say, "Shall we have one more?" or words to that effect, it nearly always works. I keep this dance slightly hotter than the last then repeat, this means the guys thinking the more money he spends the more he's gonna get. If I was to give it all away on my first dance this technique couldn't work.
    Exactly what I was going to say. I'm by no means the flashiest, most acrobatic (or most coordinated for that matter) dancer at my club. But almost every single person I dance for buys strings and tells me they're some of the best they've ever gotten, because I look them in the eyes and hold them there. They aren't looking around the room, they aren't watching what kind of dances the other girls are doing, and they don't feel the loss. I know that sort of rapport is kind of hard to establish in a 1 min dance (ouch suck and yes I'd say scout around for another club) but once they're there, they're yours.


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    OK, I think you're giving up too much too soon in your dances. Spend some time getting your clothes off. Brush your hair against their faces. Dance a bit with your boobs right at their eye level. Tease them by backing away and running your hands over your body out of their grabbing range. Take your time going into the straddle, one leg at a time, sloooowly. Don't get to the good part until the song is about halfway over, and even then, mix the hard stuff up with the flirty/teasey stuff. The point is to get the guy to buy another one, not to give him what HE thinks is his money's worth right out of the gate. His money's worth is what YOU say it is.
    I agree totally with your message and great info for me i had to take foot notes!!!

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