I'm new to this site, and new to strip clubs in general. I have spent several hours reading over the site looking for a similar post that would help my situation, but have yet to find one. (If there is one, I do apologize.)
I am a 22/f, "soft butch" lesbian (NOT the big scary trucker women; I just have short hair, a strong jawline, and a muscular/athletic body). Recently, I won a VIP Party (Scheduled for Arpil 12th) at an upscale Gentleman's Club in Dallas,TX and had some questions about what is appropriate behavior.
The last time I was at the club (my first time) I was with a large group of veteran club-goers. Although I had recently dated a dancer, I had never had a lap dance or had really spent much time in a club before, so the whole experience was a bit overwhelming. I personally pride myself with being VERY respectful of everyone, especially women; and although you do not have to believe me I would never intentionally cross any lines. Jaw-dropped and mildly inebriated during my last visit, I did my best to look every lady in the eyes and had absolutely no trouble keeping my hands to myself. I'm not there to make anyone uncomfortable, just have a good time with my friends. As most other customers, I (rather easily) picked out my favorite dancer and was forced (okay, it was more of a nudge) by my friends to go tip her, ALOT. (I am VERY, VERY shy.) Eventually they bought me a dance, mostly for their own amusement; afterwards she asked if I would like her to come back and I said yes. She came back and danced for me again, only this time she removed my hands that were firmly clamped to the arms of the chair and placed them on her body, and eventaully kissed me a few times. In our conversation she made it relatively clear she was also at least "bi" (but I'm pretty sure she was a lesbian) and like any good dancer asked me to come back and see her again sometime, I tipped accordingly a the end of the evening.
Being a student, I don't make alot of money, but I have saved the last month in order to bring $200 of my own money to spend, and the friends I am bringing will have roughly the same amount of cash. Is this a fair amount of cash to bring to a nice club with the intentions of staying most of the evening and having a really great time? And, is what happened with the dancer on my last visit a regular occurrence, or something special? My physical appearance, although well-dressed and professional, does give a pretty good indication to my sexual orientation; is that a negative for most dancers? If so, is there any way I can present myself in a less offensive/threatening manner? (Like I said, I try to be respectful and I don't want the ladies who work there to be uncomfortable with my presence.)
In advance, I thank you all for your advice.
Sincerely,
NTraining


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