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    Ok I have only been in one strip club but I want to dance. I am not strong enough to do those cool pole tricks but I give a mean lap dance. My questions are....

    * What do you do when you're on your period? Do you still dance or take the week off?

    * When you get a guy who wants a lap dance, do you just keep dancing then ask him for $20 times how many songs you danced to or do you ask him how many dances he wants?

    * Is there a running rate for inviting a guy into the VIP area? Meaning, if they say yes, does that mean they owe you x amount of money or do you have to wait until you're in there and you have danced for him? How does that work?

    * I've only messed around with a pole a few times but when I did, it really pulled my skin and hurt the insides of my legs. Is that normal? I 'spun' around the pole and it made this dragging noise and it hurt!

    * What are the best shoes to wear for someone my height? I am super tall... (5'10 1/2) Will I look ridiculous in huge shoes?

    * Where do I get no slip pads for the bottom of my shoes?

    * If the club has no lockers, where do I stash my money?

    * Do all men know that they need to pay you for sitting there talking to them? If so how much do I 'charge'?

    * How do I hint to men that I need cash for my time without being a bitch?

    Any help is greatly appreciated!!!

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    Oh one more thing, I have two mean scars, one on my arm that's about 7' and a 4' one on my back.. are those going to hurt my business?

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    A lot of your questions have been answered many times, try using the search function

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    ok ask the club u r working in all the questions relating to the $$$ side of things as every club is different. if u get your period put a tampon in cut the string short and tuck it up inside u-ur not having sex so noone will no!!as for the pole just hold onto it and dance around it in the meantime. u could ask the other dancers if they will show u a few moves or get professional lessons. wear shoes u r confident in if u r super tall get the lower heel stripper shoes. carry i purse for ur $$$ and keep it on u at all times. u dont charge guys for sitting and talking with them this is selling a dance. if u cant sell a dance to a guy within 2 or 3 songs MOVE ON!! good luck

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    Oh ok, thank you. I have a friend who dances and she says that some guys just want her to sit and chat with them so she charges them. Is that not a common thing?

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    It happens, but it's not exactly common, and you really need to have the gift of the gab.
    The world's most uncoordinated stripper

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    Quote Originally Posted by Skylar Fawn View Post
    * When you get a guy who wants a lap dance, do you just keep dancing then ask him for $20 times how many songs you danced to or do you ask him how many dances he wants?
    Definitely go to Hustle Hut for this question. There are so many ideas of how to do this. But I definitely wouldn't just dance from the first song to the second song without letting a person know they're in a new song.

    Quote Originally Posted by Skylar Fawn View Post
    * Is there a running rate for inviting a guy into the VIP area? Meaning, if they say yes, does that mean they owe you x amount of money or do you have to wait until you're in there and you have danced for him? How does that work?
    I don't know your club, but I wouldn't start charging/timing any session until you actually INSIDE of the VIP area.

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    * I've only messed around with a pole a few times but when I did, it really pulled my skin and hurt the insides of my legs. Is that normal? I 'spun' around the pole and it made this dragging noise and it hurt!
    Your technique might be off, so that's why. I find that most things don't hurt, but some things will always pull at my skin, and it just takes getting used to. There are some pole instructors on this site that you could ask about that.

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    * Where do I get no slip pads for the bottom of my shoes?
    Drug store, foot care section.

    Good luck!

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    the others touched on most of your ?s so I'll go for the one about your scars.... You'll be fine, they shouldn't hurt your business. I had a breast reduction when I was 17=anchor shaped scar that runs along the underside of my boob, up the center and all the way around the areola. No one has ever said one word, not even when I'm all up close and personal in their face.... there you go, no worries

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    Quote Originally Posted by Skylar Fawn View Post
    Oh ok, thank you. I have a friend who dances and she says that some guys just want her to sit and chat with them so she charges them. Is that not a common thing?
    wow ur friend must be a great talker!! well if u dont sell a dance within 2 or 3 songs excuse urself and tell them u need to mingle. if they want u to stay and talk tell them they will have to pay for ur time since that is what ur there for in the first place - TO MAKE $$$

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    Ya she's a bad ass stripper making well over 100k a year. She's drop-dead gorgeous, asian, petite, and just smoking hot. She's the biggest hustler ever.

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    Along the same "weird ?s" list, does anyone have the link to the post where everyone lists the must-haves ("criticals" lol) to bring with you? ...An what about the clothes that you bring in a suitcase& makeup..even if theres a locker, that ish prolly won't fit..so what do you do with it?

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    Um its in the sticky Newbie FAQ at the top of the newbie section^^

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jayde81 View Post
    u dont charge guys for sitting and talking with them this is selling a dance. if u cant sell a dance to a guy within 2 or 3 songs MOVE ON!! good luck
    Not necessarily true..I make the most off guys who want to sit and chat. After a few songs..tell them you have to get back to work and make money..OR..they can pay you x amount and you'll be able to stay with them without management bitching at you.

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    I used to charge for talk - for sure. Not a dance rate but either a flat or half a dance rate.
    Secondly scars are no big deal.
    Thirdly - I never kept ALL my cash in a purse as was suggested - MANY MANY MANY purses have been snagged and u will never see that $$$ again.
    I kept it in my boot, or my shoe - continually trading up the small bills for big ones at the bar to keep down the bulk.
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