I'm going to miscarry again. I'm so numb.
I think we're going to wait to try again till after i'm unsured, so i can do testing first.
I'm going to miscarry again. I'm so numb.
I think we're going to wait to try again till after i'm unsured, so i can do testing first.





Im sorry sweetie. What happened?![]()
My thoughts are with you. One of my best friends had to have an induced miscarriage because the fetus had severe birth defects. This was at 4 months.
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Oh Lola, oh honey my heart is hurting for you. I am so sorry.
Oh Lola I'm so sorry to hear this. If there's anyyyyything I can do let me know. This is probably especially rough for you and I send my condolences. This happened with my aunt twice in a row, then she waited and had twins the third try. I'm sure it will happen for you, and you'll smile and be more thankful the day it does.





I'm so sorry, Lola.
i took a digital pregnancy test, b/c I've only taken line tests so far. I got a bfn on the digi, so I took a frer. (first responce early results). I didn't even get a line. That means there isn't enough pregnancy hormone for it to detect. that test detects 25miu. I took a test that detects 50 the other day, and got a definate positive.
levels dropping means a loss.
so.... that's how i know.
This makes me want to cry.
I don't think you should be accepting this hypothesis quite yet...please wait until you see a doctor.![]()
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ya, I'm going to go to the doctor for a blood test. But there is something wrong, regardless. my hcg should be high enough to pass a pregnancy test no problem.
^ You had previously tested pos. and now it's neg?
No spotting?
Or have you not tested, but were going by your chart?
Your about 17 DPO, right? Your levels should be between 17-429, which means there is a chance that they could possibly be to low to test pos. yet. If you haven't already gotten a pos. test.
If you go to the doc for a blood test, they will need to do it twice, 2 days apart. One hcg lvel means nothing, it's the rate it doubles that's important, but my experience was that during the 2 days wait in between, if somethign is gona happen, you'll already know it without needing the test to confirm.
I've gotten a bunch of positives.
i got:
2 on cbe blue dye +/- (25 miu)
2 answers (25)
1 cvs cassette test (50)
2 frer (12.5 -25)
the tests I took today are CBE digi- (50) and a frer (12.5-25)
no spotting, but I've been cramping, which wasn't worrying me too much untill now.
hmm...
Fingers are crossed....
I hope it's not a missed m/c.





Aww, so sorry honey. My thoughts are with you. Take care of yourself.
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*hugs*
Theres no sense crying over every mistake,
you just keep on trying till you run out of cake
Ohh No !! Not again !! I feel so sorry !!
well, we have a gameplan. if i need to, I'll go to the er, but it'll be a while before I'm unsured, so I'd rather not do that.
Most plans take 3 months before they'll cover maternity care, so it looks like we may have to wait for tests.
Rob is at work, and the kids are here, so I'm trying to keep it together. But he's doing research into their maternity coverage, what they'll pay, what tests they'll cover. it looks like we won't have to pay much oop. Thank G-d.
It doesn't feel real now.... I'm praying it's not, but all evidence points elsewhere.
I'm so glad I have other things to think about, and distract myself about.
Aww..I'm so sorry honey. But you know your baby is waiting for you to be its mommy...it just wasnt ready yet.
rob just called and said i'll be covered from our wedding, so at least there is some good news.
i hope its not. I'm so sorry!
bummer babe. Hope all is well. Maybe a faulty test? Have you took another since that one?![]()
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no. i took two different tests, two different brands. both of them were good.
With my last kid I had three negatives after I had two positives.
...keeping my fingers crossed for you.





honey, did you go to a doctor this time to assure you were pregnant? i don't remember if you posted the details or not... but is it possible that you just had enough hormone "left over" from the last pregnancy that you tested positive this time?
*and an edit*
btw, my good friend's sister had 5 miscarriages in a row before giving birth to a perfectly healthy child. so, there is hope!
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