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    My bf tells me the other night that this guy he dances with told him that this girl I dance with downstairs gave him Chlamydia. Well I said that he could be lying until my bf mentioned that a waiter she just slept with has it now too. Shit happens, but I don't want her rubbing her infected twat all over the things the other girls do. I work in a smaller club so it won't be hard to figure out who told on her. Should I be the one who drops the ax?? I don't like drama but I also don't want an STD.

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    Why hasn't he told her he has the clap? Everyone needs to be informed, that shit is very contagious and VERY easily cured. I don't know how long it would last on a pole (a few seconds?) but if your club is as, ahem, social as it is, more people will get infected.

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    why dont you just take her aside and mention the rumors. And tell her that a single dose of antibiotics will get rid of it in a few days.

    I wouldnt call out someone based on a rumor.....

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    What exactly are you doing at work that would put you at risk for chlamydia? If you're not fucking her, you're not at risk. It's not an airborne bacterium.

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    ^What she said. I don't think you have to be all that worried about it, hon, unless you're doing her.

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    well couldnt you get it if you did a double nude dance w/her, or did a nude dance for someone right after she did? I dunno, id mention it and the antibiotic.

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    wash your hands alot. I assume you're not rubbing your bits all over the pole, are you?

    I'd mention it to her, and say howeasy it is to get a free 'script to fix it at the health dept.

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    I would pull her aside and tell her what's being said and that a simple antibiotic will cure it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by AvanaLaya View Post
    well couldnt you get it if you did a double nude dance w/her, or did a nude dance for someone right after she did? I dunno, id mention it and the antibiotic.
    No, you can't get it that way unless you're actually taking her vaginal fluid into your body (licking it, fingering her pussy and then fingering your own, etc). Definitely tell her discreetly about the rumors and the antibiotic solution, but I wouldn't make a huge production out of it because it's not possible for normal strippers to transmit chlamydia at work.

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    Default Re: She has Chlamydia should I tell on her?

    Thanks guys! And no I'm not doing her! I don't know much about chlamydia. I do know that we are a nude club that does nude dances and if we got the same guy in a row (and I didn't realize) and I rub myself on her juices, eh I don't know. I guess I'm not good with pulling someone aside and saying something like that. I guess I could do the whole "I heard a rumor.." bit.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Yekhefah View Post
    No, you can't get it that way unless you're actually taking her vaginal fluid into your body (licking it, fingering her pussy and then fingering your own, etc). Definitely tell her discreetly about the rumors and the antibiotic solution, but I wouldn't make a huge production out of it because it's not possible for normal strippers to transmit chlamydia at work.


    Good. I don't dislike her, I just didn't want any risks.

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    Again, your boyfriend should have his friend tell the girl who might have infected him. And who knows, it might not even be her. Some years ago, a guy I slept with called me and told me I gave him the clap. I went and immediately got tested and went through painful antibiotic treatment. Its painful to me because they really hurt my stomach, not to most. I was negative. Turns out he never even had it, they just told him that he MIGHT have gotten it at the clinic when he had some similar symptoms.

    Its important that everyone be informed so they can get tested and treated before long-term damage occurs from the infection.

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    a wierd and funny side story, when i was 14, I had my 1st ovarian cyst, and went to the hospital for it. They MISdiagnosed me with that, and I'd never even so much as kissed someone!

    i was super embarassed, and my mom never believed me.

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    ya, thru mia.

    I'd start caring a towel around with you, and make sure you always keep the correct side up!

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    Quote Originally Posted by kaiarose View Post
    Thanks guys! And no I'm not doing her! I don't know much about chlamydia. I do know that we are a nude club that does nude dances and if we got the same guy in a row (and I didn't realize) and I rub myself on her juices, eh I don't know. I guess I'm not good with pulling someone aside and saying something like that. I guess I could do the whole "I heard a rumor.." bit.
    ^^^ that would do it. if you work in a club where girls leave 'wet spots' on customers, toilets or furniture, then it's possible.
    it's the STD equivalent of someone getting pregnant from anal sex where semen dribbled down. tiny risk, but it happens every day.

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    In Maryland at least, the board of health would always be notified when someone had an STD like that and made a big deal about the person having to tell whoever infected them that they had an STD.

    If you had Chlamydia, wouldn't you want to know? Obviously, I would want to hear it from my partner before anyone but if they had their head up to high in their ass to be a man about it and tell me, then at least I'm finding out somehow before it ruins my body.

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    Quote Originally Posted by miabella View Post
    ^^^ that would do it. if you work in a club where girls leave 'wet spots' on customers, toilets or furniture, then it's possible.
    it's the STD equivalent of someone getting pregnant from anal sex where semen dribbled down. tiny risk, but it happens every day.
    Good LAWD!!! For the umpteenth millionth time!!! YOU CANNOT GET STDS FROM A TOILET SEAT!!! IT IS IMPOSSIBLE, well unless you're rubbing your twat all over the seat where someone just did the same or some guy just jizzed, and it has to be IMMEDIATELY afterward. And who does that??

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    i would definately tell her. i would want to know. that shit can make you infertile.
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    Chlamydia is easily tested for and even more easily curable. I've had it and it's not a huge deal if you catch it right away. You have nothing to worry about because theres no way you can catch it from her unless you are borrowing her used panties of fucking the same guy... but if you are really concerned, go get tested. Many clinics do it for free, and I think everyone should get tested for that shit anyway. And I would tell the girl about the rumors. Who knows, maybe she doesn't even know she has it. Maybe she doesn't have it and people are just spreading shit. But she deserves to know and make her own decisions.
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    Tell her for her own sake, I didn't know I had it until my fallopian tubes were nearly destroyed from the infection, I had to have surgery to take one out and was lucky enough to have this little angel on my lap right now. It's fucking ridiculous that they dont check for it when they do a pap IMO, its SO easy to cure and so devastating on your body.

    ETA: or maybe I was ridiculous for having unprotected sex *smacks younger irresponsible self!*
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    I think a lot of people are misreading the title. The op said "should I tell ON her?" I think the answer is no, you should not tell on another dancer to the mangers because she may have chlamydia. How innapropriate! She may already know and be having treatment for it right now. It's really none of your business, since you can't get it from just...working around her.
    If you feel like you MUST do something, maybe you should take her aside and tell her there is a rumor going around about her.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Glamazon View Post
    Good LAWD!!! For the umpteenth millionth time!!! YOU CANNOT GET STDS FROM A TOILET SEAT!!! IT IS IMPOSSIBLE, well unless you're rubbing your twat all over the seat where someone just did the same or some guy just jizzed, and it has to be IMMEDIATELY afterward. And who does that??
    iv heard u can get crabs from a toilet seat is that true?? if so im never sitting on a public toilet seat ever again!!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Starfire View Post
    I think a lot of people are misreading the title. The op said "should I tell ON her?" I think the answer is no, you should not tell on another dancer to the mangers because she may have chlamydia. How innapropriate! She may already know and be having treatment for it right now. It's really none of your business, since you can't get it from just...working around her.
    If you feel like you MUST do something, maybe you should take her aside and tell her there is a rumor going around about her.
    Oh lol true!! No I definitely don't think you should "tell on her" based on something your boyfriends waiters sisters friend said... How does your bf know that the bloke in question didn't have it for years? It is practically symptom-less in males.

    But if she is a normal reasonable person I think a pleasant word in her ear would be an effective way of dealing with it. Then if it's true she can get herself tested, if she already knows then you can tell her how easy it is to fix it up. It's not like aids or anything, it's only harmful if it goes undetected for a long time. You don't need to brand her with a scarlet STD sign or anything like that!
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    Quote Originally Posted by sexysunny View Post
    i would definately tell her. i would want to know. that shit can make you infertile.
    Yea. This is what caused the scaring on my tube and caused my ectopic late last year. Id tell her... just tell her - not for your safety but for her own. I think the "I heard a rumor" approach would be best.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jayde81 View Post
    iv heard u can get crabs from a toilet seat is that true?? if so im never sitting on a public toilet seat ever again!!!
    I wanna know who the fuck is pissing with one leg in the toilet so that their twat is on the seat, if you ask me.


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