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    Default How to handle customer waiting for you picks another girl?

    For instance he promised to wait for you in the back after a couple dances then u have to go on stage and you realize he's got another girl on his lap. Do you approach him again or just be like ok whatever hes got another girl now...?

    This happened to me yesterday and normally I say fuck it he found another girl...Im nervous to approach and cause any tension. But this time the girl he was with annoys the hell out of me (yeah she lets guys finger her and lick her pussy as well as tits during dances as well as handjobs all right out in the open like it aint no thing!!) so with a bitchy attitude I was like "EXCUSE ME I thought you were WAINTING for me?" this made him pretty uncomfortable as well as the stupid bitch taht couldnt even LOOK at me...then he was like "ummm...come back in a little while"

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    What dwelling on it gets you = Nothing.
    What moving on gets you = $$$


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    yeah i normally move on...(i was/am pmsing) i just thought id see what happened b/c if im in that position and another girl is like "hey im bakc"or whatever i get up and go! this girl wouldnt get up and started rubbing his nipples and all lol. keep in mind im in houston im competing with girls that steal your customers by whispering in their ears about free blow jobs etc...

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    i would walk pass him slowly try to make a eye contact with the costumer, then smile. if he wants me to stay, he would say so, other wise just move on.

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    I normally just wait until he is done with her and then approach him. I don't approach like "do you still want a dance?" but like "Well you said we'd do some dances so let's go!" I've learned that guys often get dances from 2+ girls and it certainly doesn't mean he doesn't still intend to take you........

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    Default Re: How to handle customer waiting for you picks another girl?

    It depends. Was it a busy night?

    Sometimes, if a night gets real busy, I'll just figure out who the girl is who might be free for a private and get one with her.

    I make a point of always getting at least one private before I leave. So, if I'm aiming to leave and the lady I'd prefer is still doing something else, I just find someone I liked a little less and go with her.

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    Sometimes the guy really is waiting for you, but is too polite or too clueless to ask the girl to leave. I go back with a friendly attitude to see if this is the case. Usually if the guy WANTS you back, he'll say something apologetic to the girl and signal that she should go. Or he'll hurry up and get a couple of dances from her and get rid of her. If this seems like what he wants to do, and I like the girl he's with at all, I'll encourage him. "Oh you have to get at least one dance from Fantasy! She's awwwwesome!" This should keep good feeling between the girl and me, none of that "you stole my customer" stuff.

    If he wants you to go, he'll make it clear by making NO signal to the other girl about getting up or moving on. He'll probably look a little sheepish and might apologize. Be sweet and tell him you'll come back later. Getting pissy isn't going to help your cause with the other dancer OR the customer.

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    I always come back and linger for a couple of moments to gauge the customers reaction. The majority of the time he gets rid of the other girl.

    Once in a while I get paid to go away. Double win!

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    ^^ Bitch you stole my customer!!
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    I like them large and cut. Sort of like strawberries.

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    Default Re: How to handle customer waiting for you picks another girl?

    Well when a customer is waiting for me for dances I have a couple ways of making sure I get ma money!!



    First off on busy nights I usually get deposits. If a guy says he want to get dances from me but I have to go on stage I'll try (in a nice way) to get some money upfront. I'll tell them because it's so busy and I"m in demand so he may loose his place! On busy nights this works.



    Secondly since I mostly worked in gogo bars I circulate the bar for tips so every now and then I chat up my guy who is waiting so he won't forget me. And I will gently remind him to wait for me and don't let any other girls steal him away wink smile sexy dances get my tip and hot tail it back to him.



    After my set I would go back over and finish the drink I got grab him for a dance. If a girl is there I will make eye contact with the guy give him a big flirty hug and ask him point blank if he is ready to go. I would say the direct approach always works best. If he has lost interest I will move on but go back later.

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    Default Re: How to handle customer waiting for you picks another girl?

    Quote Originally Posted by Lysondra View Post
    What dwelling on it gets you = Nothing.
    What moving on gets you = $$$
    I like this lysondra! I'm going to have to print it out and put it in my locker for motivation!

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    Default Re: How to handle customer waiting for you picks another girl?

    I'd still go back to the customer and ask him if he's ready for dances. If I'm sitting with a customer and a dancer comes over because she was already there and I didn't realize it, I'll leave right away and I think any decent dancer would do this as well so if she doesn't move, I'm not going to show her respect when she didn't show me any. If he doesn't get dances with me right away, I'm not going to waste anymore of my time.

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