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    Default OMG I'm gonna kill a bitch! *long*

    My boyfriend's best friend just got engaged. None of us like this girl, she is certified CRAZY! But, we all love the guy, so we're putting up with his woman.

    Problem - she's propositioning my man!
    Been sending texts about we should get to sleep together, blah blah blah. Asking about can he keep secrets and all KINDS of bullshit. My boyfriend's responses have all been very appropriate. This is a one-sided problem. And damn this girl is persistent!

    I kept quiet for as long as possible, until yesterday. Finally sent her some texts. I mustered up every ounce of civility I had and politely but firmly told her I was not okay with her behavior and she needed to stop.
    She meekly pushed out a "sorry."

    They all work in the mall together and I guess today she stopped to talked to him, and then pulled the whole "well I guess I should go I'm not supposed to be talking to you," yeah, that whole I'm a diva line.

    Of course I texted her again, (I was too angry not to) and said drama was not appreciated and she should cut it out. Wasn't as polite today but still not rude. Got another I'm sorry.

    I hate drama but I swear I am about to throw down! I've never been in a fight, I would lose But I really, really don't want to have this get any where near that level.

    GRRRRR!!!!!! Next time it happens I may just confront her man. I don't even know. And my stupid boyfriend is just sitting back and watching. I wish I was a guy....






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    If she won't cut the shit I'd go to her man. Especially if he's a friend. Do you really think he deserves this crazy girl! I'll come to Kansas and kick her ass for you...I could take her (once the boobs heal...so hold off till then..k?) LOL

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    Default Re: OMG I'm gonna kill a bitch! *long*

    That situation sucks. I've had similar situations happen and I never knew if I should tell or not. Can you gauge how the friend might react if told? I was in a similar situation (but I was the one being propositioned) and I didn't know if she was going to get jealous, not believe me, or hate me as a friend.

    Can your man just show her fiance the texts? Its his best friend and something that might be more easily handled if kept between guys. I think they would handle it differently than if you were to talk to him. Or will your guy not tell? I'm usually reluctant to get involved in other peoples business if they are cheaters but she has made this you and your guys business.

    On the other hand, does she really think the two of you wouldn't say something to him? Shes not being discreet by a long shot about this.

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    Why are you waiting to tell her man?

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    Default Re: OMG I'm gonna kill a bitch! *long*

    Show her guy the texts..... Or better yet, make sure they are pulled up on your guys phone and he "accidentally" sees them.

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    Default Re: OMG I'm gonna kill a bitch! *long*

    It's his responsibility to make her stop by either telling her boyfriend or ignoring/blocking her calls. If she continues then it's harrassment.

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    yea show the friend her text

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    Default Re: OMG I'm gonna kill a bitch! *long*

    hey darlin', i'll be in town tomorrow. we'll have to go pay her a visit.

    *nods*

    i'm pretty sure i can help you take care of this. i may be small, but i'm a phucking force of nature!

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    Default Re: OMG I'm gonna kill a bitch! *long*

    I'm definitely saying something to her man if anything happens again. In the way of, "You know your girl want's in ***'s pants right?"
    He really deserves so much better, but would never admit to it.

    Blayze - Are you kidding me? You've got looks that can kill, not gonna lie I was a little scared of you when I met you. But then you talked, you sweetie...

    Glamazon - I was waiting because my boyfriend is extremely trustworthy and I know he would never let anything actually happen. I was trying to be civil and just let it blow over. Apparently that won't work with this girl, however.






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    Default Re: OMG I'm gonna kill a bitch! *long*

    i'd tell her boyfriend regardless of if she stops or not. it's terribly unfair to him. also, it's not so great of your boyfriend to not tell his best friend that his chick is trying to fuck him. it's also not so great that your boyfriend won't tell her to stop, himself. you shouldn't have to be the one in control of the situation.

    and btw, after the FIRST time, i would have told her to absolutely stop. then i would have told her boyfriend. if it happened again i would cease all communication with her and i would expect my boyfriend to do the same.

    i am about 125% anti-drama and i don't appreciate people who try to bring it to my table.

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    Default Re: OMG I'm gonna kill a bitch! *long*

    i agree with pretty penny. like as much as i'd love to help you put the beat down on her, 1-she's not physically coming on to him in front of you, just talking shit about you, and not stopping like you'd like.
    2-i know you say you trust your bf, but guys can be weird and even if they have no intention whatsoever of going along with the proposition, he could be appreciating the ego boost maybe? let him know that it is NOT ok with you, and because it is between him and her he needs to put a stop to it if he wants to maintain a good healthy relationship with you.
    3-definitaly tell the buddy. you ALL deserve better than that in this situation! this is the girl he plans on marrying! and she's puttin' the moves on his best friend, he probably would like to know before she actually does find a friend of his that WILL screw her.
    4-finally, if all that doesnt work and she starts openly flirting with him, call her out. while she's doing it, in front of everyone. texts are not effective as a form of communication when it comes to these kinds of things, its much harder to ignore someone when they're confronting you face to face with peers surrounding. if anything, she'll be completely mortified OR she'll be a drama-ho and start a fight, in which case, you have my number. holla and me and my fists of fury will be there in a dash.

    and just a thought- if your man isn't putting a stop to it on his own, and he KNOWS that it bothers you, this is an issue that needs to be addressed as well. if he's not protecting your relationship with pressure from you, then what is he doing about situations you don't know about? i'm not trying to create doubt in your relationship at all, just giving you something to think about.

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    Telling your friend would have been the FIRST thing I would have done. Your friend needs to know what she's like. Even if she drops the drama with YOUR bf, who knows what she's doing with guys you don't even know of. Definately tell him all about it... WITH your bf and show the guy the texts.
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    Default Re: OMG I'm gonna kill a bitch! *long*

    Yeah, I don't understand it when people say it's "not their business". If I found out I'd been totally snowed by a guy/girl and my friends stood by watching, do you have any idea how angry I'd be? I'd drop those "friends" immediately.

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