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    So I danced for a couple Sunday night...professional types looking to get wild, a little goofy but very generous. The wife was very complimentary, said she wasn't normally attracted to girls, but seemed to take a shine to me. She asked me if I would give her private lessons. I'm not sure in what, exactly...she just said "teach me to be sexy."

    I'm totally not a pole dancer or anything, and not a flashy stage dancer, but I have a good presence...sexy walk, sexy lapdance moves, etc. I figure I could teach her some bellydance warm-up moves, a little bit of floorwork/ab and butt excercizes, and maybe give her some lapdance pointers. No idea what to charge for this. What do you think???

    She also asked if I could teach at a bachelorette party she is hosting later in the spring. I actually think this could be really fun. If it goes well, I might even consider doing it more, maybe advertising for clients, and starting a little side business. Again, I'm not sure what to charge. Not really sure what to do, either. Anybody done anything like this? Got any tips?

    I though again, I'd do some basic bellydance warm-ups and moves, like hips isolations and boob shimmies. Little bit of floorwork, cause it's fun and easy. I also have some silly costumes I could bring, like french-maid, nurse, bunny, in case any of the ladies wanted to dress up. Other creative things to make it fun?

    I'm really interested in making this work. I've taught yoga classes before, and been a bellydance student for a couple of years, and I'm a sexy dancer, so I think I can blend this all together into something pretty cool. I have the "S Factor" book, too. It's what I taught myself to dance from, and it's sort of geared toward an excercize class format.

    Excited!!! I really hope this works out!

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    I used to teach bellydance classes, and even perform at bridal showers, baby showers, and even bachelorette parties (where I knew the women, so there would be no issue.)

    Teaching an individual will be a bit different than teaching a group. But definately dress conservatively, play comfortable music, and stress the femininity of what you're doing rather than the overt sexuality. You know this of course.

    It could be a lot of fun, but be warned if you do it for a group...at some point you WILL run into some bitch that brings down the party. Be prepared to control damage.

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    Grace:

    This sounds like some of the Pole dancing or Passion Parties I've heard of. Why not do a sexy education party! That sounds fabulous. Just charge them around $150 an hour....that's at least going rate here. I think that's fabulous...if that works out for you, you can advertise on places like Party Pop and such.

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    Cool! I wasn't even aware of Party Pop...thanks for posting. I checked it out, and it looks like there are a few peeps doing "passion parties" and the like in my area already...but none of them have websites or look like they have their shit together that well. I bet I could still carve out a niche.

    If it works out, I might even consider getting business cards printed up and handing them out to the ladies who come to the club on weekends. Not ALL of them are haters...some might like to get in on the fun.

    Eh. I get so excited about stuff like this...I'm a mad planner.

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    Sounds like an idea! It might be fun to distribute them at sex shops and whatnot (the cute kinds). Also, it might be a good idea to distribute them to the alpha males that lead bachelor parties (NOT the bachelor, he's too wasted, but the guy that is usually more sober & in charge)... during wedding season, people know lots of couples getting married!

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    Quote Originally Posted by anomar View Post
    Sounds like an idea! It might be fun to distribute them at sex shops and whatnot (the cute kinds). Also, it might be a good idea to distribute them to the alpha males that lead bachelor parties (NOT the bachelor, he's too wasted, but the guy that is usually more sober & in charge)... during wedding season, people know lots of couples getting married!
    Cool ideas. I especially like the idea of leaving cards at sex shops. There are several cool, girl-friendly shops in town, and that's always one of the first steps bachelorette party planners seem to make. Gotta get those penis-shaped lollipops somewhere.

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    That sounds like fun! I would show them a lot of floorwork moves that could be done at home in the bedroom (I practice most of my moves on my bed on the floor in front of mirrors and it drives my boyfriend crazy in a good way) and also have them practice sexy lapdance moves on each other!

    I know you said you're not much for the pole, but it'd be really awesome if for a bachelorette party someone rented out a space with a bunch of poles so you could show them a few tricks, or at least have them dance around the pole a bit. Fun!
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    I think $150-200 seems right for your part of the country. You could sell them some sexy stripper clothes, too.



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    Quote Originally Posted by noelle View Post
    and also have them practice sexy lapdance moves on each other!
    I though of that at first, and now I'm debating whether that's a good idea. Do you think some women would feel uncomfortable lapdancing for each other? I have a hard time gauging what weird other people out, cause I'm such a weirdo myself.

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    I know you said you're not much for the pole, but it'd be really awesome if for a bachelorette party someone rented out a space with a bunch of poles so you could show them a few tricks, or at least have them dance around the pole a bit. Fun!
    I would be cool, but at this point, I'm thinking no pole for a couple of reasons. (1) I suck at pole (2) Adds to the complications of arranging the party -- finding a space to rent, getting everybody to sign waivers in case of injury, eesh (3) I have a good friend in town who teaches pole-dancing to bachelorettes, and I don't want to cut into her business (4) I really want to teach people stuff that they can do at home for their partners, and not everybody has a pole at home (5) Did I mention I suck at pole?

    Quote Originally Posted by Lena View Post
    I think $150-200 seems right for your part of the country. You could sell them some sexy stripper clothes, too.
    That's about the price range I was thinking. Cool idea on the clothes...anybody know where to get cool dance clothes cheap, maybe for wholesale rates?

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    Also, what about this whole "teach me to be sexy" business? What is she talking about? What does one charge for this service? When I teach private yoga lessons, I usually shoot for $45-60/hr. Does that seem right?

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    I think 50-75$ an hour is a good rate for a one on one lesson. For the bachelorette party, I'd find out how many guests are going to be there, and charge per guest. you can get wholesale stuff at
    lingirie4wholesale.com

    they have lots of costumes- leg avenue mostly.

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    Also Grace, we have a lady int he Seattle area that provides portable poles, and does BASIC pole work. You could work up to that. She does fabulous. Earns lots of money for each party. I did a combined Passion Event with some great vendors. I like organizing events. I did Passion Parties for a while and large psychic fairs I used to lump them all together, and attract a huge crowd of different people. It was GREAT fun.

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    I know of a girl at my club who got a similar offer, more for pole stuff though. I think this would be a lot of fun, especially bachelorette type stuff.
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    Grace, that's a good point. Some women would not be cool with practicing moves on each other. I forget that anyone is sexually conservative sometimes I guess you'd have to just feel out the situation and gauge how comfortable they feel? Maybe they could just do a little air dance? I would imagine if they are at least open minded enough to take sexy lessons from you, they could handle practicing some mild lapdance moves on each other. But you'd have to just see how the situation progressed I guess.
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    That sounds like so much fun! I don't have anything useful to say, but I'd definetely do it

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