Good thread idea X. I would disagree though, my best dance ever was the last one I had. It was AWESOME.
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Good thread idea X. I would disagree though, my best dance ever was the last one I had. It was AWESOME.
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Well this may be true to some extent but the bottom line is that it is not the dancer's job to worry about which customer knows better and which one doesn't. Her job is to make a living and, as we all know, in a strip club you do that by getting guys to spend money on you.
Actually, the first dance I ever received was terrible.
The easiest preemptive measure is to go to the club only with the amount of money you're comfortable spending and never use plastic. There are times I've regretted HOW I spent my money at the club but never that it was spent at all.





Maxing out credit cards may mean he's not realistic at managing his finances. Putting money onto CC's is like living in never-never land - its got to be paid back at some point. He may be spending money he *can't* really afford and will spend years paying back.
That said - caveat emptor. He's a grown man who's presumably capable of reading his credit card statements and realising that he may be spending beyond his immediate ability to repay.
Caveat emptor indeed. But as long as there's no deliberate attempt to mislead (and from Desirre's post I don't think there is) then the guy is making his own decisions. He has the choice *not* to spend and thus the debt is down to him and not Desiree.
Phil.




No regrets as to what I spend. If I couldn't afford to spend it I wouldn't. I have only gone to the plastic three times, so I maintain control of my "habits."
I walk into a club with money that I intend to spend. I feel more regret for a wasted evening if I walk out with too much left. Means I didn't have a good time.
Don't feel guilty. We are all big boys and need to be responsible for our own behavior and actions.
I have yes a couple of times been a little ticked of at my own stupidity.... Usually in Myrtle Beach, usually involved drinking and always involved using plastic. Not obscene amounts, just more than I would normally spend and I hate using plastic at clubs. But each time, I had a blast so I dont obsess over it .... No worse really than spending in some other venue - like gambling losses at a casinos or going to Kevin Costner movies etc... I put it in that context.
I figure the club in Myrtle will one day name a VIP room in my honor![]()




Fortunately, my clubbing is restricted to out of state venues, mainly Vegas. Money budgeted for Vegas trips is not expected to come home regardless if it's spent in restaurants, on shows, in the casino, or at the SC (although it's nice when I am able to bring more home than I take).
I always bring 25% more than I plan on spending cuz ya never know who you will stumble upon when the ATF leaves. The rest stays in the room safe. Only had to use plastic once, when I spilled a glass of wine on my last check and had taken a beating in the casino earlier, which left me with only $300 in cash. In Vegas, that's barely cab fare, cover, and bar tab.![]()





Thanks for all the great responses.
I just wanted to clarify something esp afer reading Cameron's post. I def do not trick anyone or lead them into thinking they will get something. I offer a fully nude lap dance. Guys in Melbourne generally know what the deal is - no touching, so they usually aren't expecting that.
The experience that lead to this thread was a young guy came into the club and took a real liking to me and ended up spending big. He went to the atm and withdrew more money (I didn't ask him to).
We dont have VIP so this was $50 at a time dances and he just kept asking me to continue.
He has now come to the club on two further occasions each time spending more. He got a dance of some other girls too.
Then he told me that this would be his last time coz it costs him too much money.
He didn't ask me otc either, he just really liked the dances.
There are many stereotypes about the industry that I work in. Sometimes they can be true but human beings are very diverse creatures and cannot be pigeon-holed into one category.
Some of the most effortlessly beautiful, kind, intelligent, successful, motivated, driven and ridiculously hilarious women that I have ever met have been dancers. I've met the best friends that I've ever had in this industry.
I take with me to the club the amount I have decided to spend for that evening. The bills are paid and the groceries bought before I do this. I usually spend it all, but sometimes I leave with a bit left. I never regret, but often I wish I could have afforded more.
That said, for everything that exists, there are people who will overdo it. Some drink too much, some get addicted to drugs, some overeat, etc. I even know one person who is addicted to giving money to people because it makes her feel so good to be able to help. People know she is a soft touch and take advantage of her generous nature.
So certainly there will be some who spend on you more than they can afford. But unless you run a credit check on your customers before dancing for them, you will have to leave this decision up to them, unless they are obviously incompetent, like the retarded adult about twenty years ago who spent over a thousand dollars in the adult shoeshine parlor. (No, I am not making that up.)

1. Congrats. You bled him dry. Fuck 'im if he can't pace himself.
2. I reiterate my sustainable logging theory from earlier.
3. OTC does not seem inherently linked to money, IME. I've seen guys that spent ten bucks and asked. And I've seen guys spend up to a thousand and walk away from the club like it was just a stop on their list of places to go before heading home. Grocery store. Gas station. Strippers. Return DVD to Ted. Go home.
You know, when I feel bad is when I watch a dancer who couldn't hustle to save her damned life.
I remember a girl last weekend who kept forgetting to collect her stage tips from me. I keep the wad sitting right there, and I tip steadily as long as I am at the rail. I'm the ideal stage customer -- I keep paying, and rarely leave except to piss. But, she kept dancing and then moving to the next guy!!





^^^^ As Cold as ICE!
The one thing you agreed on is that it was good that she bled him dry...wow...
Then, I saw you were from new jersey..so go figure...
PABLO SPEAKS THE TRUTH...![]()





Moral of the story - Stay away from Plastic and there will be no regets.
PABLO SPEAKS THE TRUTH...![]()





Plastic? Are you in credit card debt?




Jaiz...your concern shows good character and that is pretty cool in my book. Thing is you provided the service you offerred for a price. He bought it. Nothing done wrong on your part.
Having been a young guy once I am willing to bet that his only regret is that he cannot afford more dances...![]()





I never said a dancer shouldn't sell as many dances as possible, merely that if some sort of trickery were involved, there might be a reason to feel guilty. Wiping out the money in a guy's pocket in one night is one thing. That is their job, more or less. Wiping out the money in his savings account over a period of time ( especially if deception is involved ) is quite another.
"never trust a big butt and a smile"-- Bell Biv DeVoe
If you're in your twenties and aren't a liberal, you have no heart. If you're in you're forties and aren't a conservative, you have no brain - Winston Churchill
My only regret is seeing the disappointment on a girls face when I tell her my SC visit is over and I am leaving.
Every SC visit it never fails that a young, attractive dancer falls in lust with my middle-aged, pudgy and balding self.
I just hope she gets over me.
OK, in reality, my only regret is not having more money in my entertainment budget to spend.
Don't feel guilty, you're doing your job. Milk us for all you can.




Only the few times I've gotten drunk in a SC have I "regretted" the money stuff later... But that has more to do with the night was probably fuzzy as much as anything else.
I like some of the comment about not feeling sorry... In some many other industries the feelings would be so totally reversed.





For sure.
I've been picking up three dancers from assorted venues several times a month for about 5 years now, and I've gradually got to notice that each venue has its hard core of familiar faces. Those faces tend to have favourites among the girls whom they come to see.
Some of these guys are, I suspect, a bit isolated in their normal social lives, so the weekly conversation with their favourites is probably of considerable importance to them. And of course, to get that conversation, they have to spend.
Other guys seem to buy into the 'fantasy' image they have of a dancer and remain convinced that when the dancer dances for *them* she gets an erotic charge - irrespective of what she thinks of the other customers. I've seen this category of customer drop considerable sums of money pursuing this illusion.
And yes, some guys seem to have a straight forward addiction to nudity - they'll sit in a venue for hours, seeming never bored with watching the same dancer time after time. They always remind me of a kid in a sweetshop - and I have to say I've noticed a fair number of dancers quite like dancing for the polite ones. (Must be a bit of an ego boost to know a custie is addicted to looking at you).
Some guys are addicted to mileage - and will buy lots of dances from the high mileage girls. I was in one venue recently and watched one (very) high mileage girl take customer after customer off for private dances. (In that case I do wonder what the attraction is in letting your hands wander all over a dancer who's probably been felt by half the guys in the place).
Like any addiction the above come with a price - if you want to watch the pretty naked ladies, you have to put yourhand in your pocket. Question is whether the addicts know when to stop.
Phil.
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