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    Sad Owner yelled at me last night....

    Last night was amateur night at the club. So the club was PACKED. I was literally downstairs for the entire night when I wasn't on stage, trying to sell dances. By the end of the night, I'd only sold 1 dance. I kept getting "I don't like women of color, but thanks anyway.", or I'd get a flat out "no"; or I'd get waved off when I approached a guy (even before I got the chance to speak) or, my favorite, a large group of young guys, sitting in a row, one grabs my arm and says "I'm a pimp ma, u gotta get on the stroll and turn these tricks, start from him (points at friend) and work your way down." I hesitate because I don't like his demeanor or the way he's speaking to me and I need to sell VIP's not 6 dollar dances. Guy-"Hurry the fuck up ho! U see this bitch know where it's at!" (Points at another dancer who is dry humping one of his friends and had been doing so for a song and a half. (he only handed her a dollar) I told him I could do that for him in VIP...ALL of them start shaking their heads and waving their hands. Guy- "nah, fuck that VIP shit, you need 2 bend over right here, aint nobody paying $20 for that shit." I smile, tell him I'll be right back and walk off.

    Not an hour after this incident does the owner call me into the front office. I go in and he says to me "I see you're a sitter." I give him a confused look. He says "You're a sitter, you like to sit on your ass all night and not work." He continues "You only sold 1 dance and there are 200 people out there. (HUGE exaggeration, there were less than 100) I don't give a fuck if you make money on stage, you need to sell VIP's, otherwise how am I making money off of you?" Ummmm.......nevermind the fact that I pay you a house fee every night and you took half of the ONE dance I was able to sell. Dickwad. I really felt like I was a $2 ho being reprimanded by my pimp. I'm really upset about it because I tried HARD to sell dances last night. I don't know what I'm doing wrong. I need to find a club that sells liquor, that way they don't take half of all the money I make. I'm naked every night with men trying to solicit me for sex, but that moment in the office is the first time I've felt degraded.
    "I Can Sell Raid To A Bug. i'm A Hustler I Can Sell Salt To A Slug" -Cassidy

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    You need to find another club Sweetheart .That club just sounds like a big fucking mess, you shouldn't have to do all this shit just for a dollar!Start looking in SCL or TUSCL for a diffrent club in your area.

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    This club is shit, ma. Every post you make confirms it. You are hot and you know how to hustle--it sure as hell ain't you. You should NOT feel degraded by your management under any circumstances. You deserve way, way better than that and I hope you look around and find it.


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    I agree...that club sucks ass. get out while you still can.before it sucks your soul dry. Dont go back there ever again...no money, girls giving shit away for free, management and custies who treat you like shit..there not ONE redeeming quality. If I were you.,I'd never set foot in there again.

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    Yeah. I don't know what else to say. You should NOT be dealing with customers who talk to you that way, dancers who do so much for so little, or owners who yell at you for sticking with your own comfort levels. You are way better than this and you just need to find another place to work.
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    Yep, already time to find a new club!!

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    Yeah, that club sounds like an ugly ghetto mess. It's not any manager's job to scrutinize every dance you sell and how much you make. I would get out of there asap.

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    Get out ASAP. Your hot, you've got hustle, and noone there is appreciating it. Get a new club, and don't waste ANY time.

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    The OWNER told you that?!? Um, fuck him and his crappy club. You can do MUCH better sweetie.

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    Get out. That's a bunch of bullshit. Listen to the experienced ladies here. Get away.

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    There are a ton of clubs everywhere. Don't be afraid to find one that fits you. Pack those heels and get out of this one.
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    you can only survive by clinging onto trees
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    Aww, babe.....you haven't had a positive post about that place since I have seen you on SW. That should say something....
    When owners/managers talk down to you and verbally abuse you, that is a huge red flag to get the fuck out a.s.a.p. Yes, most owners and managers are dicks but clubs do exist where they are not, or are at least more respectful when scolding you about something they don't like. There is a professional way to handle things, alot of them forget that. I never thought I'd find a club with respectful management, but I did. If can find one in my crappy litle town, I know you can too.
    Good luck!

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    Quote Originally Posted by BohemianSiren View Post
    Memorize these words:

    I pay you. You work for me.
    This merits repeating.

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    As a customer, I stay away from clubs like that. If I want to watch some asshole threaten a woman needlessly I'll go the bar!!

    The owner himself should be ashamed. If patrons are acting like that, they need to get the fuck out. The bouncers should never allow that to go on. It's threatening, it's cheap, it's shitty and it creates a hostile environment not only for the dancer, but for the patrons.

    I hate places like that. I got to a SC to let off steam. The last thing that helps me let off steam is watching assholes trash a girl for any reason -- expectations, race, weight, the usual shit.

    Although, in fairness, I'm a white boy with a real weakness for nice black girls. Especially the ones that have the really ethnic features (the big cheek bones that women from Africa have! uh!).

    All that said, it's up to the owner to maintain a safe and profitable environment.

    Right now you have no profit incentive. Get out.

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    Like the others have said, find a new club. No one should have to put up with that BS.

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    i agree; find a new club ASAP!

    honestly this is why I hate working in BYOB or no-alcohol clubs...if the managers can't make an obscene amount of money on cover and drinks, they'll turn pimp and gouge it from the dancers instead. Better to work at a club with a bar and not get bled quite so dry.

    One BYOB I worked at charged custies $25 for a dance, and the girl only kept HALF! Hell no. Obviously I never went back after the first night. Management is usually a little less pimp-ish when they can rake in $$ on liquor.

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    Yeah, your club sucks big cock and sweaty balls. I'm almost choking just thinking about it....

    Lol. Seriously, you could make three times the money with one third of the hassle in a Milwaukee club, and you are in NYC!! Something about this is not right...
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    What everybody else said. I just wanted to offer some support and my sincere apologies that you have to put up with crap like that. You're much better, get out of there

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    OMG-that owner think's he's a pimp. RUN! Even though Philly blows goats, but it's way better than that, hon! Or PM one of the NEPA girls-I know there are other clubs up there.

    You don't need to even talk to guys who call you ho or tell you to turn tricks. Screw that.

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    It sounds to me like the club is losing money and the owner is taking it out on the dancers.

    Move on to greener$$ pastures. It is not likely to get any better where you are until the owners distances himself.

    So sorry you had to deal with that shite.


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    that sucks. but i'm a little surprised that everyone is so shocked. you know how we dont give a shit if we make the club money? they dont give a shit if the club makes us money. it's the same thing. and he just said it out loud.

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    I know everyone else already said this, but please do not ever go back to that club. Find a new one. Drive somewhere else, maybe like an hour away if you have to-plenty of girls do. But you don't deserve to be treated like that, and not make money. Seriously. Get out of there!!!!

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    Just the fact that they keep half and still charge house and all that would make me leave after a night. All the other shit? FORGET IT.

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    I wouldn't work at any club where the owner disrespects me- sorry. We can have disagreements and that is fine, but I won't be yelled at for something that isn't my fault. Please find another club.
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    You are so much better than that place. Move on!

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