For moms, hypothetical moms, and crusty custies -
how would you feel if your daughter became a stripper?
how would you feel if your son was a regular SC customer?


For moms, hypothetical moms, and crusty custies -
how would you feel if your daughter became a stripper?
how would you feel if your son was a regular SC customer?




I don't have children, so hypothetically...
If my daughter wanted to be a stripper, I would try to educated her on the potential pitfalls, get her to a financial planner, and have her read hustle hut.
As long as my son wasn't Sweatpants Boner Man, I wouldn't mind.
^^^ Agreed.
If my son grew up to be Sweatpants Boner Man, I'd castrate him myself.
I don't know why you aske this but ill go ahead and answer. I would be okay with my girls becoming dancers provied they come and talk to me about it and are not nasty extras girls. I would much rather them make 500 a nite doing something fun then earn 500 a paycheck at a crummy fast food joint. I don't think being a stripper is a shameful thing as long as you handle yourself right.
Now as for my son beign a strip club reglar i doubt he would caus i would make him fully aware that it is just a fantasy and I would make sure he knew all about hustleing. And no this is not a doubel stanard I want my girls to make money and want my sons to be resposiable with there money.



im not a mother yet but i wouldnt have a problem with either of those senarios personally. my boyfriend hates me stripping so he would have a fit if his hypothetical daughter became a stripper!!!
Jealous of a stripping daughter. J/K.
My 13 year old stepson already talks about strippers and strip clubs like any other entertainment one might partake in. He's got no preconceived notions about hookers, either. He's matter-of-fact about those professions. It is like any other service that a person does, like getting a haircut or massage or auto body repair.
I have a feeling that sex work is going to come out of the shadows in a couple of generations.
Promote yourself and earn more money! This is a business that is owned by strippers for strippers. Let's make that money!





No problem, son or daughter. I would be concerned about safety and advise accordingly.
Daughter wouldn't be allowed to work at my favourite club though.![]()


For fun (it's the lounge), and I was just thinking about this myself - it's not a profession without some controversy and pitfalls (and obvious bonuses). But honestly, one could ask a similar question from anyone in a that profession (ask of a doctor, how would you feel if your son/daughter became a doctor...) and it would be interesting to hear the answer, because it says a lot about how people view their profession. Although the custie is a little different![]()





I've gotten a bunch of different girls into stripping and seen it affect each of them in different ways. So my only concerns would be whether or not she was cut out for the job. I would fully support her if she chose to do so. I would hope that she would come to me about it and that's why as soon as she (my potential daughter) is old enough I'd let her now about my job/former job.





If I had a daughter, I'd have an issue with her dancing.
Not with the dancing itself - I've long learned not to take that too seriously - but because of the f*cking morons it brings you into contact with.
I've known several dancers well (inside and outside of work) for several years and I've seen dealing with said morons day in and day out take a toll on them. They certainly have a more jaundiced view of the male of the species due to dancing for them - I'd be worried my (hypothetical) daughter make have similar problems.
Phil.
There is no such thing as silence...





Like anything else, it depends on why. Following what Paris said, I think sex work is going to come out of the woodwork in the next few decades, too.
Not that I'm ever going to have children...
Because there ain't no tits on the radio
I would not be cool with it. Good thing I'm not having kids because I'd be strict as hell. That's not the life I want them to live, dealing with bad parts of the business.. sleazy customers asking for sex, drugs, pimps, etc. I would want to protect them from what I went through. Shit, there's enough out there in the real world that kids have to deal with growing up these days, the public school system, and everything is a total nightmare.
^ thank you. i was beginning to think everyone was full of shit.
seriously, no matter how much i justify this sometimes, one bad night is enough to make me never, ever, EVER wish that upon my child. i don't want stripping, or porn, or anything in the sex industry to ever even be considered by my child. she should be whatever she wants to be, but hopefully, she'll wanna be a scientist or something and NOT a professional cock grinder.




Sounds hypocritical, but I would have an issue with it too. My only reason being is that while dancing, I saw more girls get caught up in the bad stuff (drugs, extras, prostitution, etc) than I did regular girls who actually had a goal, accomplished it, stayed clean, and got the hell out of the biz. I drank a lot when I was dancing and ended up with a DUI.Not the road I'd want my kid to follow.





I was talking with a friend about this the other day.
If my daughter wanted to dance I'd sit her down and have long talk about the good/bad, ups/downs. The only thing that I'd worry about is what the club scene will be like at that time. In my area it's just not getting any better, I can only imagine what it would be like 18 years from now.
I would be perfectly OK with my son going to SC's if he realized that dancers are human, with feelings, not objects and only if he treated them with respect.
Holy hell, I'd have so much paranoia about sending my kids off to public schools that I can't even imagine the strip club. Many parents have to worry about bullies, bad crowds, teen depression & suicide, self harm, school shootings, and so on. That's enough problems already without the adult business. I would go nuts if I had to think about some scum of the earth being grabby and abusive towards my baby in the vip room, falling prey to pimps, and a whole lot of other shit. That's just the tip of the iceberg. The total opposite direction of where I'd want their life to go. If I had kids, they're gonna be listening to what I say for the 18 years that they'd be under my roof.
Wait... so like, if I strip, that means I never want to/will be a scientist? Everyone on stripperweb [as a whole] always contradicts themselves.
If my daughter became a stripper, I'd be ok with it but I'd make sure she knew what she was getting into, and I'd warn her to NOT make any semi-permanent financial plans based around stripper income like I did, lest she figures out she doesn't like doing it on a regular basis, like I did.
I'm damn resilient, and I've been so for quite a few years, so I think I could trust and honor my daughter to make her own choices.
^^^ Exactly. If she wanted to be a career stripper that'd be different though. I'd be proud as hell to give birth to a baby Bridgette!
What I WOULDN'T approve of would be if she was floating around, stripping, partying, getting with losers, with hazy at best plans for the future.
I'd drag her out of there so fast she wouldn't know what hit her. Hypocritical? Not really. I wouldn't expect my parents to be happy about me stripping, and I couldn't imagine being happy if I found out my daughter, sister, or any other female I cared about was dancing. It's too late for me, and I had to learn how rough it is the hard way. Hopefully they will be smarter than I have been.
I would want to whoop her ass.





I'd rather my daughter be a stripper and hustle nerds than have a son who was tricking in strip clubs.
I'd probably hang myself if my son was posting on an internet message board bragging about all the money he spent "making it rain in the club" or some such nonsense.
Since there is a good chance my child's mother will be at least an ex-stripper, and since the proclivity to strip is genetic, it's just going to be something I have to prepare for.
You can't love something you think is flawless - me





i don't have kids, but i imagine that if i DID have a daughter, i wouldn't want her stripping. i mean, to be totally honest.
i wouldn't be -mad- at her or -dissapointed- in her. i would respect her choice. i just wouldn't want her to.
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