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    Default Re: How would you feel if your daughter became a stripper?

    I agree with some of the posters on here. I don't think I would want my daughter to be a stripper. First off I would worry about the type of person she was. Maybe she wouldn't be able to be thick skinned enough to deal with the assholes who come in and get off on trying to put us down. Maybe she would become vexed and start to hate men.
    Maybe she would have a drug or alcohol problem that I wasn't aware of and the temptation's of the job and the environment would drag her down. Maybe she wouldn't be a good judge of character and hang out with the wrong girl's at work. Maybe she would waste all her money on shoes and clothes and shit like that.
    There are just so many things that I would worry about. I would want more for her. Honestly dancing pays my bills and sometimes my Mom's so I can't knock it.

    she'll wanna be a scientist or something and NOT a professional cock grinder.
    TOTALLY

    Like I said stripping has kept me a float but there are just some things I never needed to know. It's like Pandora's box for me.

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    If i had a daughter I wouldnt want her to be a stripper. MAYBE for a year...to sow her wild oats and ONLY after I gave her the run down of all the good AND bad about the biz.

    But I would hope my daughter would finish school(and I would give her the means to so she didnt have to find a way to pay for it herself like me) adn go on to a career that doesnt dissolve on you when you reach a certain age.

    Plus..I really wouldnt want to see her go through the things we go through...guys talking shit to you,treating you like dirt,sexually assaulting you..managers doing the same...drugs,prostitution...having your self worth feel like it is linked to how much you made that night...stalkers...

    I wouldnt want her to be in my position..almost 35 and still stripping when I'd rather do something else. Just because I couldnt afford to get my masters right away...


    A son...sure he can go. NO problem. I'd shove it into his head what behavior is acceptable and what isnt and how strip clubs operate so he isnt taken for his lifes savings.Hell..I'll go in with him to show it to him!

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    I'm not planning to have children, so my opinion is worth whatever fractional share of a parent or prospective parent's opinion...

    But I have a little sister, and my little sister knows I have taken assorted drugs, and now she is in college (first year!) and asking me for advice on them.

    My sister has body image issues and a self-destructive streak that I lack. But she's a smart young woman, savvy on the way to wise. She's the one who'd make sure high school friends would drink enough water during drinking binges, keep everyone safe and alive.

    So I give her the advice that suits her nature. I warn her away from speed because I think she could have a problem with it, but I also know she's going to experiment with a little of everything -- and being an experimenter myself, I understand very well that telling her not to will just put her in danger. We're absolutely too strong-willed in my family to take no for an answer. :-)

    When my sister asks me for advice, I tell her about the risks and benefits of everything, and emphasize, over and over again, that she must set boundaries.

    If she ever decides to do any kind of sex work, my advice will be the same.

    And that's the approach I'd take if I ever had a daughter.

    Lilah29's remark about doctors asking the same question reminds me of this very affecting blog post, in which a doctor does ask that question, and comes to a disturbing lack of easy answers:

    http://thelastpsychiatrist.com/2007/...sing_kids.html
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    i think people like going to parties and clubs and looking like douchebags.

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    I tried to think about this hypothetically but I can't. Guess you dont know how u would feel unless u were an actual parent.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Samba View Post
    As long as my son wasn't Sweatpants Boner Man, I wouldn't mind.
    LMAO!!!!! OMG too funny....
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    Quote Originally Posted by Susan-Va View Post
    If my daughter wanted to dance I'd sit her down and have long talk about the good/bad, ups/downs. The only thing that I'd worry about is what the club scene will be like at that time.

    I would be perfectly OK with my son going to SC's if he realized that dancers are human, with feelings, not objects and only if he treated them with respect.
    I feel very similar to this.

    Honestly, I would worry about my daughter (if I had one). I'd hope that she would have the strength, the street smarts, the common sense, and the intuition to handle this job, simply because there are so many crackpots/temptations out there. I would seriously pray to God every night for her protection.

    For my son...he is a smart, intuitive kid. The other day I asked him "What is the most important thing in life?" He responded, "To be nice, kind and loving". That's my boy! I told him that if he chooses to live that way, he will live a joyful life. Glad that, at 6, he gets it already. At any rate, I pray to God every night to guard, guide, and protect my little boy.

    And of course I'd tell him to tip (but budget) well, to enjoy the FANTASY, and please...no sweatpants. Seriously. No gym shorts either. Good God...
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    I'd be down with it as long as she was enjoying it. That's really the litmus test for me, what makes the difference between cool and degrading. But I would probably hope she was chasing other ambitions as well. Whatever she wanted to have lining up in her life, passions or plans, art or career.
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    ^Pssssttttt, your stripper is showing.

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    imeveryones daughter!

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    It would depend on the reasons why she wanted to be a dancer. If she was career minded, monye motivated and saw dancing as a means to an end, a way to make good cash at a young age to be able o move on to bigger and better things...if she were a responsible adult that didn't use drugs or drink excessivly, and if she knew how to stay out of trouble..sure, I'd support her.

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    Well, if I had a daughter old enough to start dancing now, I wouldn't have a problem with her doing so but I would be very concerned about her starting in THESE times. It's so hard now compared to the way things were when I started.

    I wouldn't try to stop her but I would tell her the pros and cons, and if she still wanted to go for it I'd give her as much help and info as possible. I'd want her to have the benefit of my experience and knowledge to help her stay out of trouble and maximize her potential.

    There is no way I could really try to discourage my daughter from stripping if that's what she really wanted to do. I still do it and like it, and I'm not so hypocritical to say I can but she shouldn't.


    As for a son being a custy, why the hell not? Again, how hypocritical would I be if I were to disapprove of my offspring participating in something I've spent 13 years in myself?? LOL

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kaylinn View Post
    It would depend on the reasons why she wanted to be a dancer. If she was career minded, monye motivated and saw dancing as a means to an end, a way to make good cash at a young age to be able o move on to bigger and better things...if she were a responsible adult that didn't use drugs or drink excessivly, and if she knew how to stay out of trouble..sure, I'd support her.
    Complete agree. Totally.
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    My girls aren't old enough for me to even think about this yet. Ask me in 7 years when my oldest is 18...

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    If she became a dancer I would support her. Who am I to be a hypocrite and tell her she can't? I would of course make sure to tell her every horrible thing that could happen and hope that would deter her on her own.

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    Kaylinn is right on the money there....

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    i would love it for my daughter to be a dancer... only because i have a bad case of private school girl syndrome, and want my daughter to be as free as she wishes!

    My son? im like evryone else... as long as he isn't sweatpants man

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    I would be disappointed if my daughter wanted to be a scientist instead of a "professional cock grinder".

    Please.

    I'd like to think my daughter would be raised with a sense of ambition and my own financial outlook and that stripping would be a way for her to better herself. Shit. Maybe she'd use it to pay for "Scientist School".

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    I don't understand why most of you guys are saying you would not want her to dance? I mean seriously if it is so bad, why don't you quit then? I personally would be proud of her and buy her her first pair of heels. Forbidding her from stripping isn't going to shelter her from assholes/creeps/perverts. I come across them wayyy before I ever started stripping. As a women you have to deal with them anyway, might as well get paid for it right? I don't want a daughter who is delusional and thinks all men are wonderful loving creatures who never wish you harm and who never see you as a sex object. It's not good to be so trusting and naive.

    If my son were a regular though...I'd probably kill myself.

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    My little brothers have been to strip clubs and I could care less. If they ever got to the point where their social life revolved around the fantasy of a strip club, I'd strangle them.

    I'd be fine with my daughter being a stripper as long as she knew her limits, her goals, and what she wanted to do with her life.
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    when i have a daughter, i wouldn't mind if she went to the sex industry AT ALL.

    like others previously mentioned... i would educate her as well as i could.

    our daughters are going to be superstrippers!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Samba View Post
    I don't have children, so hypothetically...

    If my daughter wanted to be a stripper, I would try to educated her on the potential pitfalls, get her to a financial planner, and have her read hustle hut.

    As long as my son wasn't Sweatpants Boner Man, I wouldn't mind.
    This is what I'd agree with.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Yekhefah View Post
    ^^^ Agreed.

    If my son grew up to be Sweatpants Boner Man, I'd castrate him myself.
    I want to siggy this..LOL

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    Quote Originally Posted by Dottie Rebel View Post
    I would be disappointed if my daughter wanted to be a scientist instead of a "professional cock grinder".

    Please.

    I'd like to think my daughter would be raised with a sense of ambition and my own financial outlook and that stripping would be a way for her to better herself. Shit. Maybe she'd use it to pay for "Scientist School".
    I hope to be able to support my child enough to where she never has to worry about money, and she would never even consider stripping. Money should not be an issue (for my child, at least). I want her to do her best in high school, figure out what she wants to pursue, pursue it, and be happy. I don't forsee stripping, or any kind of sex work to be all that lucrative in 20-25 years from now.
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    Not many custies have chimed in, so I will. Keep in mind I have a son, but no daughter, so anything relating to a daughter is purely hypothetical.

    As far as my son becoming an SC customer. I am fine with that primarily because I can relate. I can help educate him on the good and the bad. I can give him advance warning of the potential pitfalls. I can in a sense offer him some level of "protection" in this area.

    As for my daughter becoming a stripper, well, I would be concerned. Not because I would look down on her, but because I have never been a female stripper. It can be a tough business and in no way can I relate to those experiences. I cannot educate her on all the potential pitfalls. In a sense I cannot offer her an adequate level of "protection" in this regard.

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    I'm so curious if there is any relationship between dancers who don't want their daughters to strip or don't want them to strip unless they are working towards other goals....and whether the poster has other career aspirations for the future? Guess it could go any way really, not wanting a daughter to dance because of personal regret, or because of finding it a hassle while working towards something else, or just wanting to protect them. Just wondering if there's some kind of connection.

    Personally, I started doing it to put myself through school. I have heard from many dancers that business used to be much better a few years ago, but it's still more money than I could make elsewhere, except perhaps as a bartender. I would be fine if my hypothetical daughter did it, but I would worry she'd fall prey to some of the pitfalls. Starting in my mid 20's probably made it easier for me to avoid them, so if she was starting at 18 or something then I'd be worried.

    I would die if my hypothetical son became a regular. It would certainly mean he wasn't being responsible with his money, or that he was a cheap regular, neither one is really good.

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    I wouldn't want her to simply because of the crap dancers have to deal with. A father is supposed to shield his daughter from that stuff. So, eh, nopers.

    Love her, yes. Be happy with the situation, no.

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