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    I was recently at a high-end strip club w/ a good friend who is a frequent customer that spends probably 1k-2k per visit and may visit as often as twice a month. When I go with him I normally try to buy my own dances, but generally he insists.

    Last time I went with him he bought a bottle and some girls came over and were drinking with us. One of them started talking to me and we ended up drinking together for more than an hour. I didn't get a dance from her and I ultimately gave her something like $50 because I was monopolizing her time (she didn't ask for it, she offered a dance a couple times). Ultimately, before leaving she game me her phone number and said I should call her. I should mention that I am 22 and probably not the typical gentlemen's club attendee.

    Is she hustling me? I don't really have any intention of calling her, I am more just wondering if it is completely out of line for her be giving a customer her cell phone number (I'm just wondering what strip club policies are, not making a statement about her conduct). She was a great girl and we got along fantastically, I am more wondering if this is common, if it was a hustle or if it is rare and she actually wants me to call her.

    I'm posting this more because I'm intrigued about strip club policies on this type of behavior and would like to hear your commentary.

    Thanks.

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    Hm, that's a new one. I don't think we've gotten this one in, what... five minutes? Maybe ten? It's been so long I can't even remember!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Yekhefah View Post
    Hm, that's a new one. I don't think we've gotten this one in, what... five minutes? Maybe ten? It's been so long I can't even remember!
    As you can see, this is my first post. I apologize if this question is repetitive. I don't think it's necessary to reply in the fashion you chose when a simple explanation would suffice. It isn't very welcoming. I thought my post was respectful, apparently that is meaningless.

    Again, I apologize if this is a bad thread.

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    Well, we do ask repeatedly all over the forum that men not post in Stripping General, especially threads like this. And if you had wandered over to Customer Conversation, the appropriate forum for you, then you would have seen about 367,892,461 threads asking the exact same question. Sorry if I'm rude (it's three in the morning and I'm very tired), but it's generally accepted etiquette to browse a forum for an answer and to see what the rules and customs are before you post.

    StripperWeb (and especially the Stripping General section) is a place where dancers come to relax and interact with each other. It's not a virtual strip club where we're all obligated to entertain you for free when we're not at work.

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    She loves you yeah, yeah, yeah

    It's almost 6:30 a.m. here, I have not slept yet either.

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    Fucking degenerates!


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    Quote Originally Posted by Zinaida View Post
    She loves you yeah, yeah, yeah
    And u know that cant be bad ...


    haha


    Actually dude these ladies are being very gentle ....

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    Ya I posted my first post in Stripper General on accident and got a not so nice welcome...A little crazy/ man hating attitude going on over there because some dbag pulled out his wang or some guy thinks his time is worth a bj.....shit like that.....

    That being said - Call her and find out.

    You will get your answer within the first few minutes of the convo.
    PABLO SPEAKS THE TRUTH...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lapaholic View Post
    And u know that cant be bad ...


    haha
    Yes she loves you, and you know you should be gla-ad. Woooh!

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    Quote Originally Posted by degenerate View Post
    Is she hustling me? I don't really have any intention of calling her, I am more just wondering if it is completely out of line for her be giving a customer her cell phone number (I'm just wondering what strip club policies are, not making a statement about her conduct).
    For the most part dancers are independent contractors who have some arrangement with the club, so it's really none of the club's business if she wants to give you a number to call. Think of it like having received a business card with a phone number. It's no different for all practical purposes, although giving it to you the way she did may make it seem more "intimate" in your mind, which leads into your question...

    As for is she "hustling you"? The odds are very high she is just trying to set up future business (i.e., encourage you to come back to the club and spend money on her).

    Pretty simple stuff really

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    Quote Originally Posted by degenerate View Post
    I'm posting this more because I'm intrigued about strip club policies on this type of behavior and would like to hear your commentary.
    Ah, the standard SW recipe.

    Take one mildy trollish customer, marinate in vitriol, roast over an open fire and serve up in small slices garnished by sarcasm.

    Phil.

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    Quote Originally Posted by degenerate View Post

    Is she hustling me?
    Really hard to say, since we don't know her. Yes, some dancers give out numbers all the time, as part of their sell. She may have been hoping you would pass the number on to your friend the Big Spender. Or she may have actually been interested in you (at least at the time).

    Quote Originally Posted by degenerate View Post

    I'm posting this more because I'm intrigued about strip club policies on this type of behavior and would like to hear your commentary.
    Some clubs do have policies that NO phone numbers are to be exchanged, but a lot of these don't watch too closely for it. Some are super-strict about it, and will fine or fire dancers caught giving out phone numbers. Policies regarding this, and how well they are or aren't enforced are really all over the board.

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    There is no standard policy on this whatsoever. (There is very little standard policy in this industry on anything.) Getting a phone number is not at all uncommon, and could mean anything. There is absolutely no way of knowing beyond calling her. So call her if you want...I mean, she did give you her number. Just don't be offended if you never to hear back from her, or to get another invitation to come to the club and spend more money. In general, any girl you meet at a strip club is AT WORK and everything she does is done the in the effort to maximize her money. Exceptions exist, but they are rare.

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    Quote Originally Posted by degenerate View Post
    I should mention that I am... probably not the typical gentlemen's club attendee.
    Rule #1: if you think you're "not the typical SC customer", you probably are. Every customer that thinks he's a unique snowflake and "not like all those other guys."

    Sounds like this girl saw your friend dropping $$ and mistakenly assumed you had money too.

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