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    Default Re: Asshole custy made me cry.

    Quote Originally Posted by Mr Hyde View Post

    Why are you letting a complete stranger make you feel this way? I'd have been laughing all the way to the bank as you say there letting him rack up minutes. In fact, I'd have agreed with him and tried to string him out for more money.
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    Quote Originally Posted by VegasPrincess View Post
    I don't know why you would let anything some weirdo who has to pay 1.95 a minute to jack off while saying creepy things bother you anyways....
    I always wonder why people ask why you LET something bother you. It was a deliberate attack. I don't see the mystery. If someone took a hammer to your toe it would hurt initially, no way around it. It's not really a matter of letting it or not letting it. Most people avoid others who are verbally abusive because no one spends their life on guard never letting others affect them.
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    Quote Originally Posted by cherry_sin View Post
    So then out of nowhere he starts berating me about how dumb I am, how utterly stupid, how I shouldn't be allowed to talk in adult words and I should talk like a two year old, etc.

    I kept hoping he'd actually try to start an ageplay scene cause then I'd tell him I didn't do that sort of stuff and he'd hang up. But no. No dice. I can't hang up, and there's no way I'm going to argue with this creep about whether or not I'm "too dumb to tie my own shoelaces". I'm ESPECIALLY not going to let him know he made me cry.
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    Sounds to me like he was trying to get you in to age play with the comment that you shouldn't be able to talk in adult words and should talk like a two year old.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mr Hyde View Post
    Why are you letting a complete stranger make you feel this way? I'd have been laughing all the way to the bank as you say there letting him rack up minutes. In fact, I'd have agreed with him and tried to string him out for more money.
    Quote Originally Posted by VegasPrincess View Post
    I don't know why you would let anything some weirdo who has to pay 1.95 a minute to jack off while saying creepy things bother you anyways....
    Perhaps NEITHER of you are cherry_sin...

    Quote Originally Posted by cherry_sin View Post
    Thanks, you guys.

    Like I said, this NEVER happens to me. I NEVER get emotionally or personally involved with a call. What happens when you let your guard down with a "nice" customer, I guess.

    I put up a postit on my PC screen that says "I'm in control!" and I feel better now. I think I'll actually log back in now.

    God, I love stripperweb.
    Thanks, cherry_sin!

    Following the progression of this thread reminded me that SW remains a source of support, information and inspiration to many.


    Quote Originally Posted by Optimist View Post
    I always wonder why people ask why you LET something bother you. It was a deliberate attack. I don't see the mystery. If someone took a hammer to your toe it would hurt initially, no way around it. It's not really a matter of letting it or not letting it. Most people avoid others who are verbally abusive because no one spends their life on guard never letting others affect them.
    True dat, O...

    According to certain theorists, the "hurt" you're referring to echoes from a time and place during our lives (childhood) when we lacked the words and reasoning to defend ourselves against such attacks.

    I continue to be amazed at how often people can find resolution on SW during instances of truly profound discomfort. IMO, SW succeeded by meeting cherry_sin's needs today while demonstrating classic group therapy processes...

    "A healing response is something a group member receives that redresses and heals the effects of a painful or dysfunctional relationship from childhood that caused a current problem or symptom. A healing response gives the client what she needed as a child or repairs the harmful effects of what she did receive. For example, if the original pain came from deprivation, then a healing response would be to give what was not given during childhood. If the original pain came from abuse or punishment, a healing response could include protection. Healing can come from another group member, the leader, the group-as-a-whole, or even from the client herself..."

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    YES you can hang up on him!!!!! And you will get paid, and if for some reason you didn't you would ring up customer service with the start and end time of the call and they will make sure you get paid.

    Underage stuff is not allowed on Niteflirt at all, so if a custie starts going there, tell them it is against the TOS and you will discontinue the call if they continue.

    If you dont want to speak to him ever again go to your customer list and "block" his pathetic self form ever calling yu again. If he is trying to do age play then contact NF customer dervice and they will ban his account.

    These guys prey on new girls (same as in a club) because they know they can push the boundaires.

    Now that said, doing PSO work, you really need to grow a thick skin, because if he wants to waste hundreds of dollars calling you names, just sit there and laugh at him and watch the money piling up. I am so sorry he upset you, and really encourage you never to take a call you dont want to, especially on NIteflirt - its YOUR business on NF, no one elses. BUT try to remember he isn't talking to you, he is talking to your character, yuo are an actress and that is your scene. There are some scenes that we cannot stomach, in which case we block them, but apart from that act.

    He obviously set it up from the beginning, he obviously got his jollies from humiliating you, which is no good if it's YOU he is humiliating, but if it is just the bimbo girl you are pretending to be then thats fine. Be a bimbo, whimper and say, oh my god you are right I am such a dumb tart. But if he briongs in the age stuff, cut him off because you can get your account on NF closed down and lose all your money if they find out.

    PM me if you need any help or advice on NF.
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    Default Re: Asshole custy made me cry.

    Thanks, Optimist and Budai, I really am glad someone else was in my corner on that one.

    Flick, thanks tons. I can stand lots of things but ageplay past a certain point (dirty coed, barely legal) I can't do.

    I feel soooo much better than I did when I posted this morning.

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    I'm so sorry that horrible excuse for a person chose you to call. He wasn't talking to you though, remember that. He was talking to someone (or maybe multiple someones) who makes him feel that stupid in his daily life, someone with so much power over him that he'll pay you good money to vent his frustration. That's all it was, so please take solace in that knowledge.

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    Ageplay makes me sick to, which is one of the things I like about Niteflirt
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    Quote Originally Posted by Optimist View Post
    I always wonder why people ask why you LET something bother you. It was a deliberate attack. I don't see the mystery. If someone took a hammer to your toe it would hurt initially, no way around it. It's not really a matter of letting it or not letting it. Most people avoid others who are verbally abusive because no one spends their life on guard never letting others affect them.
    If someone takes a hammer to your toe, it'll hurt. You can't NOT let that hurt you.

    If someone says you're an idiot, it only hurts if YOU let it.

    That simple.

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    I'd like you to wake up having a shit day, be minding your own business, and then all of a sudden have a casual acquaintance launch into a verbally abusive tirade out of nowhere and see if it doesn't bother you.

    And if it doesn't at least catch you off guard and disturb you, then, quite frankly, I'm happier being me than you.

    Next time you go into a thread where someone needs support you might try not being a dick. Or keeping your mouth shut. Either is more appropriate than the crap you're posting here.

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    Quote Originally Posted by cherry_sin View Post
    I'd like you to wake up having a shit day, be minding your own business, and then all of a sudden have a casual acquaintance launch into a verbally abusive tirade out of nowhere and see if it doesn't bother you.

    And if it doesn't at least catch you off guard and disturb you, then, quite frankly, I'm happier being me than you.

    Next time you go into a thread where someone needs support you might try not being a dick. Or keeping your mouth shut. Either is more appropriate than the crap you're posting here.
    Casual acquaintance is different than complete stranger. If I was working and some guy called me, asked me random questions about Cyprus and JFK, and then called me an idiot, I'd roll my eyes.

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    By the way Cherry, I AM supporting you. I'm trying to tell you to not let some random idiots bother you.

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    ^ I'm sorry if I got snappy with you. I just wish it was that easy. I felt for a moment like you were being dismissive.

    I appreciate your words, thank you.

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    I'm so sorry that this happened to you. If it's any consolation (& it prob. isn't) I go thru this pretty much on a daily basis where I live. All kinds of idiots around here, that don't mind their biz, make judgements about me & the way I live, bullying creepy mgt who have nothing better to do, etc.
    Ex.: next door neighbor, old guy who I've helped out a lot. "You look really old with your hair that long". This from a 90+ jerk w/no teeth, (who's in great health, btw, ulnike the person I caregive for) who complained to property mgt about some petty crap, among other stuff.


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    Aww, thanks, whirlerz.

    I get the hair stuff too - doesn't it suck? It's either "old" or "unstylish" or "Are you Pentecostal?" *commiserates*

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    Quote Originally Posted by cherry_sin View Post
    ^ I'm sorry if I got snappy with you. I just wish it was that easy. I felt for a moment like you were being dismissive.

    I appreciate your words, thank you.
    If he calls back, hook me in on a conference call and we can tag-team him with questions to make him look stupid.

    "How many pairs of shoes are sold in Utah each year? WHAT? YOU DON'T KNOW??? YOU IDIOT!"

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    *giggles* Definitely. Thanks. I needed the laugh today.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mr Hyde View Post
    If he calls back, hook me in on a conference call and we can tag-team him with questions to make him look stupid.

    "How many pairs of shoes are sold in Utah each year? WHAT? YOU DON'T KNOW??? YOU IDIOT!"
    4,523,982. Duh.
    I believe you Dottie and you have my support

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    I don't have much advice here to add, Cherry, but wanted to come on to support you. Certain things can be said in human discourse that can take your breath away--often, beyond just being abusive, it hits some button, and catches you unaware. I'm very sorry to hear this happened to you--your soul deserves better than this, and it is a shame this character with his darkness is doing this to people. I can go into a rage over such things. I'm so, so sorry to hear it happened to you.

    I hope you can spend some time with people you enjoy now, who can fill up your spirit. You take good care of yourself, Cherry.
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    Default Re: Asshole custy made me cry.

    The phone sex is a pretty new thing for you yet. It was bound to happen that a customer was going to go beyond what you are used to or comfortable with, and freak you out a little. Probably the same when you danced at the start...like the first time a dude said something really shitty about your looks or body or whatever.

    Now you've got that experience under your belt, you'll be fine...at least until the next fucked up whack job soils your phone line.

    Good luck and best wishes with your new excellent job.

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    Cherry,

    I believe the appropriate phrase to keep in mind is "laughing all the way to the bank".

    (a) This idiot is only ever going to "meet" you at the end of a telephone line.

    (b) He can't see what you're doing.

    So the next time this happens get a pad of paper and jot down $1, $2, $10 to show how much he's paying for the privilege of being rude to you. Feel free to add any cartoons or comments that might amuse you.

    Were it me, I would think that the best revenge I could have on an arseh*le like that would be to keep him on the phone as long as possible and inflict as much damage on his bank account as possible while simultaneously privately taking the p*ss out of him.

    He only wins if he browbeats you. If you sit there doodling in your pad, privately thinking what an idiot he is, and letting him add steadily to your bank account, you win.

    She who laughs last........

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    Cherry my first thought was I bet he was reading those questions off a trivia card .....I mean everyone knows random shit that other people dont know and some people , like myself know too much random stuff and not enough regular stuff . I dont remember who said it on here but someone posted that he wasnt talking to you , he was talking ot the people who make him feel bad about his own intelligence or what ever his issue is xooxx
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    Thanks, y'all. I'm so glad I have this place to go for support.

    HB, that really rings true with me - I've only done this two weeks now. The first time a guy was disparaging in a club the same thing happened. Took me a bit to put on my big girl panties and deal with it. I really appreciate you reminding me of that.

    You guys all rock so much. It really makes me happy to have so much help and support here.

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    Woah! someone made my Sweet Cherry cry? :cue the scene of The Exorcist where Linda Blair spins her head:

    GRRRRRRRRRRRRRR


    I'm sorry honey. Fucking ass! :big hug:

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    Hey cherry your link to phone sex cherry is not working... I'm a perv what can I say?
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    It almost sounds like he "warned" you with the 'I like age-play' comment...and his idea of age play was to yell at you and call you child-like?

    Maybe he gets off on it.

    Either way, that's creepy, and your company should give you the power to back out on anything that makes you uncomfortable like that. Your response seems perfectly valid to me!

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