Let me explain. I am putting my boyfriend through school, paying his tuition and supporting his living expenses while he gets his Fine Arts degree. In return, he is supposed to be my sexy houseboy for however long it takes him to graduate.
He does a pretty good job. He's learned to cook and do simple home repairs, and he is a much tidier person that I am, by nature. I do a pretty good job, too. His tuition bills are always paid on time, I buy him whatever supplies he needs, and we live well, for student/artists.
However, once in a while he just doesn't get around to getting shit done. I work at home. I am here all day. It would be damn easy for me to do just do all the housework myself. But I don't feel like I should. I feel like he and I have a bargain, and he should maintain his end of it.
Right now I'm pissed off because there's a sink full of dirty dishes and they've been there for two days. I worked at the club last night, and he was here by himself. I don't know the dishes didn't get done, but they didn't. Today he's working his one-day-a-week job at the record store. Since he's working, and I'm at home, maybe I'm the one who should do the dishes. It would take me, like, fifteen minutes. I don't know why I'm being such a cunt about it. I just don't want to do them. I want him to come home from his full day of work and THEN make me dinner and THEN wash the dishes. I know that's totally bitchy, but if he didn't want it that way, he should have done them last night.
By the way, if you actually read through this, thanks.



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I believe you Dottie and you have my support 






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