Last night was packed. I'm talking packed! There were 5 (count em....FIVE!) bachelor parties in the club all at once. I was downstairs "hustling" the whole night when I wasn't 2 girls away from stage. By 12 am, I had a whole $47. (not even enough to cover my house fee + tip out)
I made it a goal of mine for the night to approach as many people as I could. I approached this one guy and he said "A dance..from YOU? No. I don't want a dance from you." Another guy, as I walked over to him yells "Oh no! You picked the wrong guy. I'm a good 'ol country boy, you're black, we don't mix." Then periodically throughout the night he'd hand me $1 and turn to his friends and say "See, now you can't call me racist." Then at another point in the night he wraps his arm around my waist, makes all his friends look over and kisses my cheek and says "See! See!" (Basically, he was just trying to prove he wasn't "racist" by being "nice" to a woman of color....humiliating.) So after all of this, and constantly being turned down (one guy told me he PROMISED he'd buy a dance from me in a few minutes. I came back a few minutes later and he turned me down, only to go with another girl literally 5 seconds later.) I was depressed and frustrated and went to the dressing room as I could feel the tears welling up.
I went to the dressing room and just broke down. I couldn't hold it in. I was so embarrassed and frustrated. Every guy I approached told me no and then RIGHT after bought dances from other girls. I ended up getting 2 guys that bought dances.....but they grabbed me. The one guy only bought 1 dance, but he tipped me the normal $20, so I was happy and I was greatful. Then another guy bought a dance for me, tipped me $10, bought another dance, tipped me $40, then bought another dance and tipped me $10. (The club takes $30 and gives me $30, so I made $90 off of him) So thats $120 from both guys that bought dances from me.
I ended up going home with $160. The other girls' jaws DROPPED when they found out how little I'd made. The new girl (first night was friday night, second night was last night) went home with over $300. Everybody else went home with $900-$2000. I don't understand what I'm doing wrong. I've been told that I'm really good in the lap dance area, I know my stage show sucks though. But my hustle is non-existant it seems. My night was so bad, two other girls tried to sell dances FOR me.
The other girls were trying to cheer me up and tell me not to quit. They were telling me how long it took them to start selling the way they do. They told me I'm too nice and need to be more aggressive, but my problem is, I don't know how to be aggressive without being rude. Any suggestions? Also, they told me I have to be more confident; I start out that way, but it's hard to keep it up when I get shut down so rudely, also, I don't know how to outwardly exude confidence. I really don't want to quit dancing, but after these past two weeks, I'm wondering if this is for me.
Here is what I've made during my first two weeks:
Audition: $20
Day1: $93
Day2: $11
Day3: $213
Day4: $130
Day5: $12
Day6: $43
Day7: $113
Day8: $160
I know it's not a problem with the club being slow, I know for sure that I'M the problem.![]()



"I Can Sell Raid To A Bug. i'm A Hustler I Can Sell Salt To A Slug" -Cassidy 
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