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    How many warnings do you give a guy before you have him removed?

    The owner is CONSTANTLY at my club.

    I complained about a guy repeatedly grabbing me on podium, and being a filthy SOB (the things he was saying, Ewwww!) So when security goes to warn him (I was the second girl to complain) the owner steps in and says "nono, hes fine, dont be silly" (the guys was with a bucks party, the FATHER of the buck, and Im guessing friends with the owner)

    Alright, fine, I can deal with that.

    The NEXT week, we have a new girl come in and work. She was from another state where touching is allowed, plus was doing hardcore open leg work.

    She was taking guys numbers to call, and got rolling drunk before passing out.

    So the owner pulls ME over the next night and tells me that Id better not be doing any touching or open leg (which Im not of course) and that he will fire me etc when I get caught. (pretty sure he mixed me up with that other chick.)

    So since Im talking to him about this I asked "how many warnings do I give a guy thats trying to touch?"
    "One!" he says, "then you kick him out"

    So its ok for guys to full on grope me in PUBLIC where everyone might then think that touching is allowed?
    But if they even touch my leg etc in a LD, I have to get them kicked out?

    I kind of figure that they get one warning, then I just move away for the rest of the dance. Rather than kick them out, and lose money. (most of the grabby guys are with friends, so if you boot him, they leave = lost money. Plus Iget alot of guys say "Im sorry, come close again" "oh honey we're out of time. But you can have another dance and behave this time?"

    Whats your personal and club policy here?
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    Default Re: Warning Custies

    3 warnings:

    First one is actually at the start of the dance when I go over all the rules.

    Second one is either verbally or non-verbally (moving his hands to where he can touch or just moving away from the guy or moving his hands off me onto the chair etc).

    Third warning is final warning and can also still be verbal or non-verbal.


    No more warnings after the first initial warning (going over the rules) if they guy touches me between the legs. I finish the dance then and there.

    The majority of the time I only ever reach the second warning stage and the customer understands thus doesn't require any further warnings.


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    Quote Originally Posted by GoldCoastGirl View Post
    if the guy touches me between the legs. I finish the dance then and there.
    I'm exactly the same! Once they touch me like that, its all over.

    But I do tend to be more lenient when its the old 'accidentally' brush my leg etc. I say "uhuh, you be good now" as my first warning.
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    Depends on what he does. Often it would be 0 warnings for me if he would be completely out of line.

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    I don't get customers removed, I mean I have once but it was a blatant case of sexual assault against me. I warn them twice before I take my money and move on if it's a lapdance situation, or just walk away and ignore them if they're offensive to me.

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    If its something like crotch/titty/ass grabbing then shows over, I'm still paid and they are out the door.
    If he's reaching for any part then he gets a warning. If he does it then he as to leave.

    I've learned that giving them more than 2 chances to touch you they will take advantage of the 3rd and do it anyway just to do it.
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    I explain the rules (or ask if they've been in the back before because then I'll know if someone already explained it to them). If they touch once on the boob/butt it's a "no no -cute giggle- the bouncer will yell at you!" if they even consider going for the kitty, they get a very firm "You can't do that". The bouncers are quick to reprimand too. The second warning on boobs/butt is less cute and a reminder that one more time, the dance is over. There is no second chance on kitty grabbers.

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    I think he was giving you THAT answer since he had you confused with that other chick.

    Personally, I'll give them maybe two chances (depending on my mood and where they try to grab me). After that, I just drift further and further away and out of their grasp.
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    At my club the only thing guys can't touch is pussy, anything else is the dancer's discretion.
    I'm still very new and establishing my boundaries, but I just tell guys up front they can't touch my boobs or pussy. Most obey. The problem I have is from sick fucking bastards who like to grab me by the waist, hold me down in their lap, and attempt to hump me with their nasty boner from below. This happens A LOT, only from the dirty Mexican guys (sorry but it's true). I'm just giving one warning now and I'm not even nice about it. I rip his hands off me, slam them into the couch and say, "Don't do that." If he does it again, I put my top on and tell him he blew it. It's the least I can do to keep from kicking them in the face with my spike heel.

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    Default Re: Warning Custies

    If they touch boobs or butt i end the dance. they knnow the rules in melbourne plus they are reminded at the start of the dance.

    if they touch my leg or something i remind them no touching. do it again and im done.

    yeh im a fucking tight ass witht he touching LOL
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    Honestly it depends on my mood and the customer. Usually I explain the rules beforeI dance (I consider this first warning):

    If they kiss me on the neck or something, I'll give them a second warning - they do it again, they're out.

    If they go to kiss/lick my boobs I shove their head back really hard before they have a chance, and tell them I'll kick them out and kick their arse if they do it again. If they sucessfully manage to kiss/lick me, they're out the first time.

    Kitty touching - out the first time.

    If they keep sliding down in their chair, or try to dry hump me, 2 warnings and your out.

    If they're nice, but just really drunk and genuinly can't sit up straight, or keep doing quite innocent things like accidently graize my butt or "forgetting" they can't even give me a kiss on the cheek, I just keep gently reminding them. Especially if they're likely to keep extending.

    Of course sometimes I'm in a bad mood and all bets are off.
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    Wow. I think I'm starting to realize exactly HOW high-mileage my club is. Just. Wow.

    I get guys kissing on the cheek and neck and back EVERY NIGHT, and I just ignore it and wipe down with anti-bacterial wipes as soon as I'm done (and I DON'T kiss on the lips EVER). You girls are saying you don't even allow that. They always try to dry hump and slide down in their chair, and I never realized that was a no-no in some areas. Ass-grabbing is permitted but booby-touching isn't (not that that stops anybody but me--my boobies are too sensitive for some careless drunk to be messing with). I get a LOT that grab my hips or grab me around the waist. I also get a lot that pull hair and are constantly messing with my hair, and a lot that try to put their hands all over my face and even stick their fingers in my mouth (EWWWWWW! I never allow that.).

    Despite all this, in about nine months of dancing in this sort of environment, I've only taken the following actions:

    *Ended a dance early ONCE (for the guy licking my asshole when my back was turned)
    *Asked for a guy to be "cut off" (i.e., no more alcohol) TWICE (when I felt they were drunk enough to be dangerous)
    *Asked for a guy to be kicked off ONCE (for trying to pin me down on the couch in the LD room)

    Generally, we just move their hands and finish the dance in a way that they can't get anything, but we still finish the dance. I've only seen one other woman in the past nine months ever stop a dance early, and she did it when the LD room was PACKED and she had several other dancers stand up and threaten her customer if he didn't pay her and get out. The time I stopped a dance early, I didn't get paid, and when I had the guy kicked out, he only paid me $6 on a $20 LD.

    This is just so sad for me. I didn't realize how high-mileage my club really was.

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    My club is pretty low contact but pretty high in VIP. I'm okay with anything but nipple pinching (drives me fucking crazy) and obviously kitty touching in VIP.
    On the floor no touching but if they touch my leg I usually don't say anything. If they lick/touch the boob I slam their head back and say NO very aggressively, but continue being sweet and sexy after that. Usually my momentary anger freaks them out enough to not let it happen again. Butt I warn them once or twice and kitty it's a done deal.

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    Buuut... this can be a good way to upgrade to VIP.
    "No sweety touching isn't allowed. We have a VIP room if you want us to be closer and in a more private area without the bouncers staring us down. I personally would like it but mean bad bouncer won't let you down here on the floor (pouty face)"

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    Quote Originally Posted by Cassandra39 View Post
    Buuut... this can be a good way to upgrade to VIP.
    "No sweety touching isn't allowed. We have a VIP room if you want us to be closer and in a more private area without the bouncers staring us down. I personally would like it but mean bad bouncer won't let you down here on the floor (pouty face)"
    See, our VIP is so hard to sell because we can't do that. Touching is the same in VIP & in the lap dance area. Touching is allowed, but not boobs/butt/kitty.

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