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Thread: Seriously, does it all have to go wrong...

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    ajbaer
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    Default Seriously, does it all have to go wrong...

    Especially at once!
    I know in seperate threads I've listed shit, but honestly when does this stop!
    IN the past month:
    staph infection that left me outta work for 2 weeks. That's a huge financial loss for me
    my BA recovery was rough, and still isn't great
    My dog jumped on my new boobs 4 minutes after arriving home
    I get in a car accident
    I'm going to be out longer than anticipated...again another financial loss
    I'm bloated and fat looking
    I got my period 2 weeks early.
    My dog is injured and needs to see the vet. Minimum of $200
    I feel like crying at the spur of the moment from all this. It feels like a lot, and I'm sure that the surgery, and inability to exercise is making a difference. Also I was on valium, which helped with pain but I think it made me feel sad (which is a side effect)
    Don't get me wrong, I'm really grateful for things in my life, but I just needed to unload. It could be worse, I know and I hope I"m not coming off cunty. I just wanted someone to understand I'm having a rough time.

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    Default Re: Seriously, does it all have to go wrong...

    Okay...here's something that might help you feel better. Or it might not. But here goes. Your period was 2 weeks early, it could have been 2 weeks late! That would be nice and stressful too I presume!

    For real though? Bad shit happens all at the same time for me too. It loads itself all over my body and psyche and seems to wait for me to break. But if you keep on keepin on, one day you'll realize you made it through. That's the coolest feeling ever. Just don't give in to it.

    good luck. Oh and crying is one of the most naturally therapeutic things in the world. I've been crying a huge amount in the last week or so, then dust myself off and do what needs to be done. I view my crying jags as therapy sessions. But i'm a little weird....

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    ajbaer
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    Default Re: Seriously, does it all have to go wrong...

    Thanks

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    Default Re: Seriously, does it all have to go wrong...

    I hope you feel better soon Aj.

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    Default Re: Seriously, does it all have to go wrong...

    *sends-good-thoughts*

    every now and then life just seems to like to smack us upside the head. maybe just to keep us on our toes.

    post away imo, it does let you let out some of the "steam/stress" of life.

    hang in there and things will get better.

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    Thanks guys...it just felt nice to type it out.

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    Default Re: Seriously, does it all have to go wrong...

    We've all been there hon, sometimes life just gets on top of you. It won't be this way fot long, soon the boobies will be better, the dog will be fixed, there'll be no need for the valium and this bad time will make the good times seem even better. Also, I didn't realise you were in an accident,hope your ok. Keep smiling hon.

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    awwww so sweet. I love the singing. And one of my favorite songs..I can play it on the piano too.

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    I just want to say "this too will pass" sometimes when things don't work out for me or I'm having a bad moment. Many things in life aren't meant to drag you down for the rest of your life. You'll get things back on track again once you get back to work. Just sucks right now because its coming at you all at once.
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    you can only survive by clinging onto trees
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    I dont want to add to your stress but I cant help but to add this..
    please, please, please, please keep a very close eye on your staph infection in regards to your new ba. my good friend had a tummy tuck and reduction last year (may) and the infection started in her abdomen and traveled to her breasts. She was afraid to complain to her dr. She is STILL fighting the infection, has had three emergancy surgeries, been hospitalized for 2 1/2 months, and the troubles continue. She has terrible scarring and will never be able to dance again. Please be super super cautious.

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    Default Re: Seriously, does it all have to go wrong...

    On the bright side... you can serve as a mood lifter for anyone that thinks THEY had a bad month.



    But um, yeah, thanks.


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    Default Re: Seriously, does it all have to go wrong...

    Quote Originally Posted by Gabrielle MB View Post
    I dont want to add to your stress but I cant help but to add this..
    please, please, please, please keep a very close eye on your staph infection in regards to your new ba. my good friend had a tummy tuck and reduction last year (may) and the infection started in her abdomen and traveled to her breasts. She was afraid to complain to her dr. She is STILL fighting the infection, has had three emergancy surgeries, been hospitalized for 2 1/2 months, and the troubles continue. She has terrible scarring and will never be able to dance again. Please be super super cautious.
    I appreciate the concern. I did speak with my DR. about it. The infection was well cleared before any surgery was done. He saw no threat at that point, and SO far there are no complications.

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    ajbaer
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    Default Re: Seriously, does it all have to go wrong...

    Quote Originally Posted by Lysondra View Post
    On the bright side... you can serve as a mood lifter for anyone that thinks THEY had a bad month.



    But um, yeah, thanks.
    LOL
    on the bright side my electric bill went from1,600 dollars to $500 for this month. I guess people can't read meter numbers anymore.

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