I am not a big spender. I never will be, it is just not my nature. I am also not interested in playing make believe and hopeing that a dancer thinks I'm anything more special than just another customer.
If a dancer comes to my table I'll give her a buck or two, if I'm sitting at the stage I'll tip a buck a few times per dance. No amount of coersion is going to get me to buy a lap dance. No offense, but I'm not interested. I've come to look at the pretty ladies, and perhaps talk a little bit if it is a slow night.
I do _not_ want to interfere with a dancer moving on to a more profitable customer. I am aware this is a living, and earning a buck is hard work.
So, how can I be me - a frugal fellow - and not be the bane of the dancers for being too damn cheap. Frankly this is why I typically would rather not go to a SC. I'm not concerned about what someone thinks of me, it is what I think of myself, and I'm not there to mess with someone's income.
(BTW -- the answer for me is not "don't be so freaking cheap, spend more money" -- but it may be "stay the hell out of the clubs if you don't want to spend more."



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