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    I just can't make myself go to work.
    It's so hard for me. Money used to motivate me and now nothing can motivate me to go to work. I actually LOVE work when I'm there and I almost always make really realyl good amounts of money. but I get anxiety before going in and just am bummed. I need the money and need the work to make me feel useful but what is wrong with meeeeeee. Why am I so depressed about nothing. I have a good life a good job a nice apartment, but in order to keep this life i need to work!!!! and i just cant make myself go. If i don't go tonight I dont know what Ill do my savings is running very low.

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    It sounds like your anxiety lessens once you actually get TO work, but you feel anxious BEFORE you go in, right? So this is preventing you from going in, but you need to work to live.
    Do you have any work buddies that live near you that perhaps you can carpool with? If they are expecting you to get them and give them a ride or are coming to your house to give you a ride then you sort of HAVE to go. Maybe that can be a strategy to actually get you to work, since you are fine once you get there.

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    yeah my work buddy just had a kid and is very slow to lose her baby weight, plus she was flaky. I don't know. I have buddies AT work but none that live nearby. I don't know why I just don't care about going. I think it's because I have to work a Monday or a Saturday and I make the most money Tues Wed and Fri. I understand they need girls on the slow days but I'd rather just skip then go in then.

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    Default Re: im so bummed

    Quote Originally Posted by candygrrl View Post
    I just can't make myself go to work.
    It's so hard for me. Money used to motivate me and now nothing can motivate me to go to work. I actually LOVE work when I'm there and I almost always make really realyl good amounts of money. but I get anxiety before going in and just am bummed. I need the money and need the work to make me feel useful but what is wrong with meeeeeee. Why am I so depressed about nothing. I have a good life a good job a nice apartment, but in order to keep this life i need to work!!!! and i just cant make myself go. If i don't go tonight I dont know what Ill do my savings is running very low.
    I don't think you are actually choosing to be lazy. I think there may be something physiological going on with you. Perhaps the winter blues/blahs, diet, lack of excercise...something is sapping your energy.

    Try writing it down that you will go in to work tonight, and you will do X dances. Or even this: Go in and just hang out at work instead of hanging out at home as a demonstration of your will power...just to test if you can do it.

    Just random thoughts from a random stranger. Use them or not, no worries.
    hb

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    Well then I think you're just going to have to buck up and get there on your own. Maybe you can bribe yourself with some kind of reward the next day, that you will only allow yourself to get if you go in.

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