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    My wife and I just got back from a weekend in Montreal. She wanted me to take her to a couple clubs that my buddies had taken me to 10 years ago for my bachelor weekend. She's obviously not a prude, but I wasn't sure what the response would be from you girls...
    As a result, I opted out, but after getting home, I'm kind of bummed. So, some input would be great, and if so--- We'll Be Back!! I'm savin up my money now, and I've never been accused of being a lousy tipper!!!
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    Happens all the time. We love great couples, but we hate the possessive, jealous, insecure wives. If your wife is going to sneer at the dancers, get pissed if you tip, act offended at the suggestion of a lapdance, etc., then don't bring her. Oh, and don't bring her if she's going to wear a skirt with no panties, try to make out with the dancers, try to get onstage herself, or that sort of thing. (You'd be surprised, we do see that almost every weekend.)

    But if she'll be cool and respectful and have a good time, then bring her along!

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    If she's the one asking you to go, then yes, absolutely take her. Couples are lots of fun when both parties are happy to be present.

    Keep in mind that many girls are intimidated by couples (due to bad experiences), so you might have to try extra hard to get attention and dances, perhaps going so far ask asking a dancer "Will you come sit with us/have a drink/give my wife a dance?"

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    Happens all the time. We love great couples, but we hate the possessive, jealous, insecure wives. If your wife is going to sneer at the dancers, get pissed if you tip, act offended at the suggestion of a lapdance, etc., then don't bring her. Oh, and don't bring her if she's going to wear a skirt with no panties, try to make out with the dancers, try to get onstage herself, or that sort of thing. (You'd be surprised, we do see that almost every weekend.)

    But if she'll be cool and respectful and have a good time, then bring her along!
    Couldn't say it any better!

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    Couldn't say it any better!
    I totally agree!
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    Quote Originally Posted by badpixie View Post
    Keep in mind that many girls are intimidated by couples (due to bad experiences), so you might have to try extra hard to get attention and dances, perhaps going so far ask asking a dancer "Will you come sit with us/have a drink/give my wife a dance?"
    Yekhefah summed it up perfectly, and I agree further with what badpixie explains above. DON'T take it personally if you two aren't getting approached as proactively as the group of single males at the next table. Many, if not most, if not all of us have had, as stated, really bad experiences with approaching a couple when the woman had a chip on her shoulder and had most likely been dragged in - we eventually learned to not make the first move.

    That said, couples that are truly into it, again, are great!

    Final word: Don't assume that the rules, i.e. contact, etc., are going to be relaxed for your wife just because she's a woman. There are some dancers who may push the boundaries more with her, but that's the dancer's call. (And don't be insulted if she doesn't . . . her club rules could mean that doing so would equal trouble.) If she does, ENJOY!
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    Quote Originally Posted by RoseWhite View Post
    Yekhefah summed it up perfectly, and I agree further with what badpixie explains above. DON'T take it personally if you two aren't getting approached as proactively as the group of single males at the next table. Many, if not most, if not all of us have had, as stated, really bad experiences with approaching a couple when the woman had a chip on her shoulder and had most likely been dragged in - we eventually learned to not make the first move.

    That said, couples that are truly into it, again, are great!

    Final word: Don't assume that the rules, i.e. contact, etc., are going to be relaxed for your wife just because she's a woman. There are some dancers who may push the boundaries more with her, but that's the dancer's call. (And don't be insulted if she doesn't . . . her club rules could mean that doing so would equal trouble.) If she does, ENJOY!

    i agree with everyone above. some of my best club outings have been with girlfriends of mine, I'm a total fool for girl on girl dances sensual/sexy not nasty ones.

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    ^^^

    Really? I like to get the nasty ones
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    Quote Originally Posted by VegasPrincess View Post
    ^^^

    Really? I like to get the nasty ones
    oh now you know i was lying when i said that.

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    sorry i have to disagree i dont like women customers at all.
    women customers mean less money - generally a couple will only get one dance.
    i wont approach couples. when they ask me for a dance i feel nervous and i avoid the guy in case the woman freaks out.

    not all dancers feel like this but many do.
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    Be prepared for some kind of weird scene. There's a wide scope of potential for things to go awry in this scenario. Personally, I usually liked couples. It was also not that hard for me to understand when a wife/girlfriend was uncomfortable... which is more common and completely different than the wife/girlfriend who is just outright a bitch. Obviously from some of the responses on this thread, not all dancers feel that way. It's kind of a mixed bag, which is generally part of the reason why strip clubs are so fun. But it's also the reason that this could not necessarily turn out to be awesome for both of you.

    Try it out! It's really sweet that your wife is open to sharing your hobbies, and she should be given a chance to do so.
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    ... just don't go to the SC looking for a threesome.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Yekhefah View Post
    Happens all the time. We love great couples, but we hate the possessive, jealous, insecure wives. If your wife is going to sneer at the dancers, get pissed if you tip, act offended at the suggestion of a lapdance, etc., then don't bring her. Oh, and don't bring her if she's going to wear a skirt with no panties, try to make out with the dancers, try to get onstage herself, or that sort of thing. (You'd be surprised, we do see that almost every weekend.)

    But if she'll be cool and respectful and have a good time, then bring her along!
    Or have sex with guys in the toilets.

    Make sure SHE is the one tipping dancers, buying dances etc, so the girls now she is ok to be there.
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    I go out alot to other stripsclubs with my couple (my Bi girl and her boyfriend) and generally the response is mixed, but even I avoided them as a dancer when they were just customers at me club (but that was out of respect becuz I thought they were customers/playfriends of my friend who always sat and talked with them and told me they meet at a swinger club w/her boyfriend/which they did, but it wasn't like that )

    Anyhow I also thought wow she was soo hott I'ld totally lose my game around her and really I didn't want to have a bizzness relationship or any other w/them so I did avoid them like the plague. Even if I did tell all my coworkers how hott I thought she was and the sec she approached me at a party outside the club I was all over her. Now I'm kinda stuck on her and he's my g/f's boyfriend so in a way I'm dating them (which was what I was afraid of, but sowhat it's working out for us it's just alittle different for me then the open relationships I'm used to).

    However back to the point when we all go to other stripclubs (those girls that knew all from around are all other us), but we get specail seating towards the back corners from those that don't want us detracting from what is onstage and many dancers won't pass by for thier tips even though we tip really well. I tell them it's becuz dancers know he's not likely to spend lots of money on a dancer when he obviously has two super hott women out with him and really the most I have ever seen them do was a dance or 2 with my friend, but 4real a woman would have to look like Angelina Jolie and be a real tease to get us into a room becuz that's our play money we rather spend on drinks, buying sextoys, and sex outfits for when we all go home or to our hotel 2gether after.

    We do tip nicely (each of us 2-3 dollars around so a good dancer walks off w/9 if she does stop and say hi) and we will do dances ever now and then with the girls we like, but for the most part we are just there to see the show mingle and flirt alittle get our bizz and sexual appetite up be4 we go off and play.

    Now like I said I totally understand why we are not seen as any1's regular or main customers for the most part, or why we would be ingored for the hustle however it is 6-9 bucks less (a round)for the dancer not to come get her tip so those that won't deal with us to come collect thier tips becuz other couples have been rude do miss out on not giving out the benefit of the doute --but being I know what that is like I don't blame them. From my experience lots of couples should even walk in the doors becuz they tend to be cheap, rude, insecure, fighting, or just plain in thier for the wronge reasons.
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    Quote Originally Posted by UV69 View Post
    but 4real a woman would have to look like Angelina Jolie and be a real tease to get us into a room becuz that's our play money we rather spend on drinks, buying sextoys, and sex outfits for when we all go home or to our hotel 2gether after.
    Not to threadjack, but when you were dancing, would you be okay with it if a customer said this to you when you were trying to work? I'm not saying you tell the dancers this when you are a customer, but still.

    I'd roll my eyes if a customer felt this way, and I'd probably they rather stay home.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Yekhefah View Post
    Happens all the time. We love great couples, but we hate the possessive, jealous, insecure wives. If your wife is going to sneer at the dancers, get pissed if you tip, act offended at the suggestion of a lapdance, etc., then don't bring her. Oh, and don't bring her if she's going to wear a skirt with no panties, try to make out with the dancers, try to get onstage herself, or that sort of thing. (You'd be surprised, we do see that almost every weekend.)

    But if she'll be cool and respectful and have a good time, then bring her along!
    What Yek said.



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    I once got kicked out of a sc for having sex in the bathrooms (we'd spent alllll our money and were about to leave but somehow ended up in the bathrooms instead... too much champagne methinks) but usually I'm very well behaved, coaxing the boys to 'give the pretty naked girls their money' and buying dances... I do notice a bit of suspicion on some girls's part though, which is a shame, but hey..

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