It's been four months now and we still haven't had sex. I don't really understand what's going on. Some of it was me.. I switched birth control pills and spotted for a while. Mainly though he's always tired or has some dumb ass excuse. He won't touch me when I bleed .. even if it's a little tiny drop and then he wants to wait a COUPLE of days after. We have sat down and talked about this problem. I told him that I need to have sex. He said he was/is under a lot of pressure and understands and will change. He even talked to his Father about it! Still no sex. I offer blow jobs and hand jobs because I'm like I have to keep my man happy. He says no to that. He says he feels bad to make me do something if he's not satisfying me. We fight all the time about this. All I need is for him to fuck me.. maybe not every day but at least 3 times a week. AT LEAST. So I brought up the open relationship thing. If you don't have time to take care of my needs can I seek out someone who will? I know this might sound selfish but sex is like water. I'M FUCKING THIRTSY.. oh yeah and I'm getting angry. I tell him it's just sex. I still love him but I need to be treated like a WOMAN. To be touched and kissed and everything else. He flat out refuses and tells me he will fuck me but guess what I'm still playing with myself. I don't think he is cheating on me. Besides the no sex thing there are no other "signs" but I'm at the edge ladies. I almost feel like going out and finding a new lover but I don't want to cheat. I just don't understand.



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Sorry that you're going through this. It sucks.





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