Do you feel weird when you find it?
Do you feel weird when you find it?





Nope. That's probably because it's OUR porn. We have a whole rubbermaid bin full of porn. We're naughty! However I get kind of mad when I find it in the DVD player after a night that I was working. Only because usually I want sex before I go to work and when he doesn't give it to me and I find that in the DVD player, I'm a lil pissed.
I didnt. I was amused. I found a huge box of porn in my ex's bedroom under his bed. Then when i asked him about his 'porno for vegans' he denied the fact he had porn. I wasnt actually snooping, but rather cleaning and came across it
I NEVER would have thought it would bother me. I don't have a problem with porn, and the boyfriend and I have watched it together. I'm not as into it as he is, but it's fine.
Part of what bothers me is that the stuff I've been finding on his computer is all of a certain type of girl -- really young, and of a different race than me. Nothing like me, actually. So that's a little weird.
I wonder if we're just mismatched sexually. I don't know.
I know all guys have porn, and it doesn't mean he doesn't love me, or isn't attracted to me. I'm not sure why those thoughts are in my head. They are, though. I really wouldn't have expected myself to be bothered by this, but I am.
Nah I find stuff he left up from stileproject.com all the time. I know all his nasty little lusts and it's cool. Plus I lust after so many different body types/ethnicities that I can't be mad if he has the hots for a tiny asian chick or a redhead or whatev.
It's right out in the open, so, no.
I think it's funny that he gets embarrassed when I find it in the DVD player. He never remembers to take it out. The only thing that bothered me was when he went through a phase of only liking porn with women who looked the opposite of me, completely different race, tall, etc. He's back to all good looking girls being fair game though, so that's cool.
Well, I think it's cool that so many of you are so open-minded. I wish I felt that way, but I'm really uncomfortable. I don't think the porn is the real problem though. There are a lot of problems right now. This is just another thing that makes me feel we aren't that close right now.![]()





I don't mean to intrude but is there a lack of sex lately?? Like you're not getting any but he'll go and get turned on by other women completely opposite of you, and you feel almost cheated on? I guess I'm just asking because I get the same way. If I'm not getting sex, he's not going to cum over the sight of another girl getting rammed!




Not really. If it has a really graphic title I'm a bit shocked because he's such a dork.
I found some a while ago and the "nature" of the porn really bothered me. It was nothing, like, crazy psycho but just something I'm REALLY uncomfortable with that made me go "Eeeewwww." and start thinking bad things.
Okay, why sugar coat it, it was Chicks with Dicks. It freaked me out.





I will watch almost any porn and get turned on. However, I probably wouldn't do the really weird stuff that I get turned on by, IRL. It's just the taboo of it that gets my engine going!
Same here!!
But on the topic question... I used to feel a little awkward when I would find his porn, but not anymore. He likes pretty normal stuff like big butts, glasses facials, and Asian chicks in porn anyway and he just has a few vids dl'ed to the comp and one paysite membership. I think it'd be weirder if he were extremely kinky and/or had a large collection of porn.





Maybe couples counselling would help? I don't think your feelings are invalid, or should be minimized. If there is stuff bothering you, it's best to get it out in the open and talk about it. Sometimes it helps to do it with the help of someone who can keep the discussion focused and fair.
VegasP- Hope he had a good explanation for that one..
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Grace I'm sooo with you on this one. I never thought it would bother me til I saw girl on girl crap on my ex's computer and it really possessed my mind. For some reason I hated the fact that he lusted after other women and got turned on by someone other than me. It almost felt like cheating to me which was totally not justified but it really took over my thoughts.
And to add... sometimes weird porn is interesting, like really fat ppl porn or weird shit. Not to get turned on it's just to look at once in a while. Maybe it was the curiosity factor that got him.
^^^ Umm I dont think so lol. I wish. It bothered me but I mean, I know it's not like his main interest if you get what I'm saying lol....
I'd never buy a Dick with Chicks tape. But mostly because too many of the biaches are bigger than me.





I think the chicks with dicks thing may just be a change of scenery, something different. Like I said I get turned on by shit like that but I would NEVER fuck a chick with a dick.
I mean sometimes I'm looking at normal porn and I click a link ...
BAM - Chick with Dick getting a BJ from a guy...
After I almost knock over everything to close the link...I have to recollect my thoughts on what the hell I just saw...
I think it is pretty fucking weird to be honest...
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