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    Ok I wanna know what you guys would rather see on a girl and not just a dancer but any girl , even at the beach . I am a mom and I got some harsh stretch marks from being pregnant , no biggie they are my battle scars !! However I know that other people dont share that feeling . I am thinking about covering them with tattoos and not random tattoos something that would be a running theme over the backs of my legs and on the front of my upper thighs and my love handle zone and lower tummy ......I am thinking very light flesh tone leopard spots ?? So would you rather see a girl with tattoos or one covered in scars ? My guy friends say tattoos and when I think about it I feel the need to cover up my scars alot more than I would ever feel I needed to cover up tattoos . Just wondering whatcha all think xoxo My next thread will be real and small or fake and full ??? Boobs I mean
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    Default Re: Ok Guys Scars or Tattoos ?

    Scars aren't a big deal...

    Not much of a Tat person but they do grab my interest from time to time...
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    Default Re: Ok Guys Scars or Tattoos ?

    I like tats of all kinds. The more elaborate and beautiful, the better. None is fine too. I think it's been said by dancers elsewhere that stretchmarks don't show up that much in the dark club lighting. Whether you go with tats or not, it probably won't make much difference for dancing.

    Whatever you personally prefer is the way to go of course.

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    Default Re: Ok Guys Scars or Tattoos ?

    Scars aren't particuarly attractive, but I find tattos (especially large ones) to be distracting, my eyes are just drawn to them and since I'm not a tatoo fan, I'm probably going to be turned off.

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    I'm not a fan of tatoos and one of my favorite dancers is 39 years old and shows signs of birth marks on her stomach. They don't bother me, because I'm usually so wrapped up in her dances that I don't even notice them.

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    I'm with Jester on this one....

    Large tatoos and poorly done "tatoo party" tatoos are just a turn-off for me

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    it depends on the tat. If the tats you want are meaningfull, and you want the tats then get em, if you'r just gonna throw something on there to cover scars then just leave the scars.

    do the scars bother you? If they bother a guy OTC, and he's gonna blast you for it, he's not the fella you wanna be with anyways...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sindi View Post
    Ok I wanna know what you guys would rather see on a girl and not just a dancer but any girl , even at the beach . I am a mom and I got some harsh stretch marks from being pregnant , no biggie they are my battle scars !! However I know that other people dont share that feeling . I am thinking about covering them with tattoos and not random tattoos something that would be a running theme over the backs of my legs and on the front of my upper thighs and my love handle zone and lower tummy ......I am thinking very light flesh tone leopard spots ?? So would you rather see a girl with tattoos or one covered in scars ? My guy friends say tattoos and when I think about it I feel the need to cover up my scars alot more than I would ever feel I needed to cover up tattoos . Just wondering whatcha all think xoxo My next thread will be real and small or fake and full ??? Boobs I mean
    I have the exact same problem!!! I have severe stretch marks from basically doubling in size when I was 18 due to my first pregnancy. My skin just couldn't handle it so now I too have battle scars. I was thinking about trying to cover them up with tats as well, but now that I've gotten more confidence in my body I've decided to just use make-up. Besides, tats would probably just draw more attention to that area, and my stretch marks are bad enough that I'm not even sure if a tat would look right on them? Make up works just fine! I'm going to invest in some good body make-up from one of the sites provided here.

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    Thanks for responding guys . I just want to add that I am not asking for opinions to help me make my decision more so I just want to be prepared for reactions . I know you all say scars are no big deal BUT even my dearest guy friend talks badly about scars on other girls , like his exs . Its nice to say they dont bother you but I hear differently . That being said I do like sometime LOVE tattoos , I am just not sure I want them all over me in places I cant hide living in Florida , ya know ? while sometimes I do . Its hard because like i said before I wont ever stand on the beach proud of my scars but sometimes I am going to be showing off my tattoos ....ya know ? That factor alone is pushing me towards getting them . I hate that scars on guys are kool and on girls guys get grossed out or use it against them as a flaw . I just dont know what to do , I dont want to even get one if I am not going to see the whole thing through . As for Make up on them ? No way , that wouldnt stay on for more than 30 mins and when I use to dance (back in the day) guys would get pretty upset at having to go home with make up on their pants , glitter and perfume too . Plus it just sweats off and does you no good outside a SC environment .......Fake tanners make the scars look worse as does the lighting in strip clubs ....people who tell you they cant see them are being nice , I can clearly see stretch marks on other people in clubs . The weird thing is they dont show up in pictures , so thats good . The ones on my thighs and they are in a weird spot , the front of my thighs , are super deep , they really look like burn scars , like I spilled hot water on myself . When I use a scar scream on them they get a little lighter , I want to see how they look this summer with a nice Florida tan and by then I will have lost every ounce I gained and then some so I will be able to see the extent of the damage too ............... thanks for the Advice guys , really Ummmm since I have you here , BOOBS , I am either getting a lift or implants so Real but small ( full B ) or Fake but big ??? I like big boobs most of the time BUT I think girls like Cameron Diaz and Eva Longoria look pretty smokin so ......whatcha think ??? My good guy friend I mentioned before and one of his friends say Real and Small is better than Big but fake ...... ???
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    Default Re: Ok Guys Scars or Tattoos ?

    I'm not sure you can tattoo well over stretch marks?

    Also, it gives off that 'I covered my zit with a black eyeliner dot to look like a mole but am not fooling anyone' vibe.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Lysondra View Post
    I'm not sure you can tattoo well over stretch marks?

    Also, it gives off that 'I covered my zit with a black eyeliner dot to look like a mole but am not fooling anyone' vibe.

    Lol , yeah I heard that alot of Tattoo'ers wont cover Scars because it makes the Tattoo look of a lesser quality BUT then I started asking a few Tattoo'ers and they said they would do it ...... Lol , well I thought of getting leopard spots I thought that the pattern of them might hide any blurry'ness cause by the scarring .....I dunno ....who wants to be covered in scars , ya know ?? Not to many people I know , unless they have a fetish or something . Just seems that Tattoos are more appealing .....I am never going to smile at my legs when I look in the mirror , with Tattoos I will , they will make me frown sometimes too I am sure . Plus I was thinking that any guys or girls that might not approve of Tats would at least understand someone getting them to cover up scars , meaning they would be less turned off by them . That gives them meaning . The cat thing has a huge connection for me also though . I just dont know , yet , what to do !!! Neither is ideal ......
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    Default Re: Ok Guys Scars or Tattoos ?

    Real, but small. Just one man's strongly held opinion.

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    Yeah but the scars are still there... and tattoo over scars just... looks like tattoo over scars. It doesn't hide anything.


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    Quote Originally Posted by hockeybobby View Post
    Real, but small. Just one man's strongly held opinion.

    Super kool , thanks . Thats my first choice , have to get the Drs opinion on what would be best for me though , of course . I figure go small now , can still go big later !!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Lysondra View Post
    Yeah but the scars are still there... and tattoo over scars just... looks like tattoo over scars. It doesn't hide anything.

    Always though ?? I wonder , I mean mine are flat for the most part and the same color as my skin , same tone ....just more light reflective So you think they always turned out bad ....even still though , I have to wonder if it would just make you ( me in this case) feel better ??? My whole thought ...
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    real but small
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    Default Re: Ok Guys Scars or Tattoos ?

    Mine are probably too sever to cover up with tats. I do want a small tat on my neck, though. I'm not sure if I'd get much else.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Electrum View Post
    Mine are probably too sever to cover up with tats. I do want a small tat on my neck, though. I'm not sure if I'd get much else.

    Waaaayyyyy off topic but since its my thread , screw it . Have you tried Mederma ? Personally I love the stuff , it works miracles for ME , it is a bit of a hassle to use ....re apply ever four hours or something crazy but omg does it work . The only time that it has not worked for me and this is weird , is when I dont use it everyday . Like say I start using it and after a few days my scar looks better and I "forget" to use it one night and then slack off .....or one time I ran out ...it just doesnt work as well after that . If you use it right though it totally works ...for me anyways . I bought some off Ebay for super cheap , its about 25 bucks a tube in the store . I still have some I am saving for a rainy day I guess .....good luck with the scars xoxo
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    Quote Originally Posted by youngBUTbanking View Post
    real but small

    SWEET , this is what I wanted to hear xoxxoxox When I get'em done I will be posting pics .....it wont be for at least 4 months though AT LEAST , unless someone else is paying for them ??? Lol
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    ^ I'll get back to you on that one lol
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    My opnion is get what you think you got shorted.....In other words if you feel like you should have naturaly been a C cup get a C cup.

    as far as real vs. fake goes my thoguts are if I can touch them they are real. I do feel BA is really alot of pain (just an assumption), and risk just to have bigger boobs, but I'm a dude what do I know about it other than they are alot of fun to play with.

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    I am just not a fan of tats so I and I do not mind the stretch marks as you said you are a mom and you earned them. If they bother you then do what makes you feel good and the hell with the rest of us is what I well also say. I do not know what it cost But If memory serves me right The Body Thermage system well tighten the skin and get ride of the stretch marks do not know what it cost but I do not think that a big tat with a lot of area and work is cheap ether. In short though do what makes you feel good some well like it and some well not but you are the only one that has to live with it
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    Default Re: Ok Guys Scars or Tattoos ?

    Tats hurt some too S. Don't forget that. The outlines are not so bad but the colouring in is a bitch. I got a 3" X 3" roughly maple leaf, and when he was done, I was fucking happy he was done.

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    Getting a tattoo to cover up scars that will fade over time seems silly. Unless you really love the idea of the tattoo don't get it. Same with boobs.

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    Just wondering have you tried dermablend or sally hansen on your scars? A girl I danced with and was good friends with had scars on her tummy from a tummy tuck that wasn't done very well and some stretch marks too and you could not see it at all on the floor coz she used sally hansen.

    Dermablend will cover tattoos. Girls at my club who have tattoos are required to wear this on the floor coz the club wont allow visible tattoos on the floor.
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