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    yeah, get this ball rolling again. I'm thirsty for knowledge.

    I would like to know what girls charge for dates. I'm figuring if I can make $300/hr in a CR then I should be able to charge that or more an hour with a SD, right?

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    ^^^ Please, please, please read the rest of this thread before you demand knowledge like that.

    I'll repeat what I said clearly earlier: SD work is VERY different from strip club work. SD's don't see their SB relationships as being $$=time. They are deluded, and 99% of the time see it as them just helping you out in return for your company. 99% of the time, if you demand $$ for time, you will end up with guys who want very physical relationships.

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    I tried to email one of the sites to cancel, didn't happen. Have tried calling twice, left a msg each time with phone number, my name, and my user name... no call back. Grrrr...
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    Quote Originally Posted by charlie61 View Post
    ^ I wouldn't worry too much about this. It's easy to forget who you're actually dealing with--he's just a person! Yes, he has money. But he's an older (probably not very good-looking) person. Just look good (look like how you look in whatever photos you've handed over). I doubt he'll see any imperfections you notice in yourself. You're a hot SB (presumably). Men don't usually see in detail. They see "hot" or "not."
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    I'm just nervous I think. But that pep talk helped, hehe. I'm just going to try and look like the hottest version of myself and be relaxed!

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    I wasn't trying to be demanding, Charlie. Sorry if I came across that way, I was being sassy :-P I've read and reread this thread but I guess I didn't pick up what you were throwing down. My apologies.

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    Quote Originally Posted by charlie61 View Post
    ^^^ Please, please, please read the rest of this thread before you demand knowledge like that.

    I'll repeat what I said clearly earlier: SD work is VERY different from strip club work. SD's don't see their SB relationships as being $$=time. They are deluded, and 99% of the time see it as them just helping you out in return for your company. 99% of the time, if you demand $$ for time, you will end up with guys who want very physical relationships.
    Just what I was going to say.

    The biggest mistake girls new to this make is demanding money (its a stripper mentality). Keep in mind that most of these guys don't want pros- that includes us!

    If you aren't sleeping with someone, and not getting naked, $100 an hour is GENEROUS.

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    thank you ladies for clarifying. I just started dancing too, so I'm real gun-ho about getting my "stripper mentality" in check. Perhaps I'm just not ready to do it. Again, I'm sorry about my attitude earlier. I've been frustrated with a potential SD and wanted instant gratification. I'm offically put in my place and I thank you

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    ^^ Don't worry about it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by VeraLynn View Post
    I tried to email one of the sites to cancel, didn't happen. Have tried calling twice, left a msg each time with phone number, my name, and my user name... no call back. Grrrr...
    I don't remember having any problems cancelling. I think I just edited something in my account details. Try searching for "cancel account" on their website?

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    Quote Originally Posted by VeraLynn View Post
    I tried to email one of the sites to cancel, didn't happen. Have tried calling twice, left a msg each time with phone number, my name, and my user name... no call back. Grrrr...
    if they won't let you cancel, can't you just change your profile so it says "not currently available. will not reply." or something like that.

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    Aubreyy hey you said to use western union when getting paid before hand but dont they need your address and full real name? how do you get around this?!

    asap help please the guy wants to send money right now.

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    ^^^

    Use AlertPay. Totally exactly like Paypal, and allowed for Adult transactions. Create an account, and they'll mail a check to you. Use whatever rando email you want.

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    thanks girl youre the best!

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    I have called a million times and emailed 16 times. no response for me either! god why dont they just put the delete account option. SO ANNOYING!!!

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    If I am going to have a man wire me money will I have to give up my full name and bank account info?

    It seems to me the way to go is out of town meet ups, a man who will pay to put my friend and I in Vegas for the weekend and then meet up for a day....nice!

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    ^

    Yeah, you have to give him your bank routing number (which appears at the bottom of your checks). I'm not sure if he has to have your full name or not though.

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    To wire money you have to give them a routing number, an account number, all of your info.

    Its the worst possible way to get money from a guy if you want to keep it anonymous.

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    ^^

    Are you sure? I'm pretty sure I only HAD to give my routing number. At the very most, you may have to give your account number, too.

    I don't think you don't have to hand over any other information though. I just did this with the guy who gave me $1500, and I don't remember having to give him anything but my routing number.

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    Quote Originally Posted by charlie61 View Post
    ^^^ Please, please, please read the rest of this thread before you demand knowledge like that.
    She didn't demand jack shit. She asked a question in a tread were we're supposed to be helping each other. It's not enough that newbies are constantly getting harangued by the "Old Guard", now it's hardcore newbie on newbie action?

    Chill out, Chuck.

    And yes, an account number and full name should be required for a wire transfer. The routing number only identifies the bank. And most banks are going to want a full name for verification. "Cindy at Chase Bank" is not sufficient.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Bella_xo_xo View Post
    If I am going to have a man wire me money will I have to give up my full name and bank account info?

    It seems to me the way to go is out of town meet ups, a man who will pay to put my friend and I in Vegas for the weekend and then meet up for a day....nice!
    Yes.

    Bank transfers will require more than the routing number. Like Dottie said, that only identifies which bank it is. You will need to give him your full account number, account TYPE, as well as first and last name. If you are still in doubt, call any bank and they will verify that. (Even a quick search on Google will confirm this as well).
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    Quote Originally Posted by Dottie Rebel View Post
    She didn't demand jack shit. She asked a question in a tread were we're supposed to be helping each other. It's not enough that newbies are constantly getting harangued by the "Old Guard", now it's hardcore newbie on newbie action?

    Chill out, Chuck.

    And yes, an account number and full name should be required for a wire transfer. The routing number only identifies the bank. And most banks are going to want a full name for verification. "Cindy at Chase Bank" is not sufficient.
    Woah...I didn't mean for that to come across as bitchy. It's just there had been a pretty lengthy discussion about her question earlier in the thread, and I thought it odd that she hadn't picked up on it.

    Chuck is chill.

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    ^^

    Are you sure? I'm pretty sure I only HAD to give my routing number. At the very most, you may have to give your account number, too.

    I don't think you don't have to hand over any other information though. I just did this with the guy who gave me $1500, and I don't remember having to give him anything but my routing number.
    The routing number only verifies the bank... and even then, not the single bank. For instance, BofA has a different routing # in each state, but that # covers all of the banks in the state.

    I'm not sure why someone would think you DIDN'T have to give them your info... I still stand by my opinion that a wire or a transfer is the WORST possible way to get money from a SD.

    AlertPay, Amazon.com e-gift cards, or Western Union (which I think they still need your full name for).

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    Hey Aubrey, could you repost your original two installments that were edited out? I never got a chance to read them.

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    What about Western Union-ing it?

    Careful ladies...I've been on a site for a mere 2 weeks and I've gotten more "HOW MUCH" than "hello's"....some (and by some i mean most) clearly state in their profiles that they are looking for sexual ineraction for money. There was an old man who went from sweet "i-just-want-friendship-and-company" to "i want a long term sex slave." overnight!! ugh. Went on a full page describing exactly what he wants and will do to me...i still cringe at the thought.

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    I have had a very bad experience with my very first try at having a SD and would NOT recommend it under any circumstances! Steer clear and stick with dancing!
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