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    Okay, to those who asked :

    Western Union requires your full name and the Zip Code you will pick the money up from. You also need to know the persons name phone number and zip from where it is being sent. I forget if they need your phone number or not, but they dont call or anything so a fake number is okay. You WILL need to show ID to get the money.

    PayPal: If you set up a business account, they can see the business name but no other personal information. Business account is free BTW. I have a Pay Pal with a fake business name.

    GreenCard: you can buy green cards at any store. In amounts from 20-500 dollars. When you go to reload your card you upload the number on the back of your new card to an existing card. They can buy a card and email you said number

    GiftCards: Amazon or Victorias Secret can send you an ecard. While it is not cash, you can sell them on ebay for nearly the value of the card.
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    Quote Originally Posted by lexi2008 View Post
    I have had a very bad experience with my very first try at having a SD and would NOT recommend it under any circumstances! Steer clear and stick with dancing!
    If you're smart, you shouldn't have a problem. Safety is paramount and precautions must be taken, but you CAN protect yourself easily until you get to know someone.

    I'm curious to know what happened... but don't turn the other ladies off of a good money-making opportunity!

    Like I've said (and I think everyone else exp with this has too), it is MUCHHHH different from dancing. It takes a good amount of "work" finding a good one if you just want to kick back and do whatever you want and still have the cash coming in- but I don't think anyone on here is looking for that.

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    goin to MIA tonite to visit my sd...
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    Quote Originally Posted by Aubreyyy View Post
    If you're smart, you shouldn't have a problem. Safety is paramount and precautions must be taken, but you CAN protect yourself easily until you get to know someone.

    I'm curious to know what happened... but don't turn the other ladies off of a good money-making opportunity!

    Like I've said (and I think everyone else exp with this has too), it is MUCHHHH different from dancing. It takes a good amount of "work" finding a good one if you just want to kick back and do whatever you want and still have the cash coming in- but I don't think anyone on here is looking for that.
    I took it very slowly picking my SD before I ever met him in person. It wasn't (mostly) the experience of what happened when I met him that was the bad part; it was what he proceeded to do after.

    I'm not trying to turn other girls off a "good money making opportunity" but I think dancing is a lot safer for most women.
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    I think I'm falling in love with my SD
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    ^^^

    NOT always a bad thing.

    Unless you have a boyfriend...which happened to me. I still miss that guy

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    How do you get over the humiliation and people staring at you when you're out together? I don't think I can handle it. My now ex SD took me on dinners, took me shopping, spent a LOT of money on me but in the end I felt like crap because everyone around us "knew."

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    Are you from a small town?

    I see guys in Vegas, LA and and NYC. The only looks I get are the same ones I'd get if I were alone dressed up that much. I guess its a little more customary though in those areas to see hot younger girls with older guys.

    But I will admit that I haven't dated a single SD that wasn't attractive, so maybe I didn't get the looks b/c they weren't nasty ancient guys.

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    That's something I had to deal with. One of my SD's was horrendously ugly and fat....and LOUD. He'd talk to waitresses and just wouldn't stop. Then, when the waitress walked away, he'd try to convince me that I shouldn't be jealous. Yeah right!! I'm jealous???? Fuck off, man. I got sick of that shit sooo fast.

    The "looks" was one of the big reasons I got out of the whole SD thing. I think most people thought I was just out with my father though.

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    I live in a city of about 1 million or so, thus I'm not worried about seeing these people again. It was just unnerving that everyone was staring at me so blatantly, not even trying hide it. And he was OLD and fat and ugly. It was bad lol.

    I forgot my ID in my car, so he stopped dinner just to drive back and get it (he thought then that I was underage!). As if that didn't give it away. I couldn't pretend I was just on a date with my dad from then on... ugh! Ladies, don't forget your IDs. I almost died.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Aubreyyy View Post
    ^^^

    NOT always a bad thing.

    Unless you have a boyfriend...which happened to me. I still miss that guy
    I'm... in that situation, I'm to a point where I'm about to say fk my bf he doesn't even appreciate me compared to my sd whose romantic as hell & does things like --- writes "I miss you" on a napkin of a place we just ate at & leaves it where I find them.

    Who do you end up missing? Your bf or sd??

    Quote Originally Posted by oulala View Post
    How do you get over the humiliation and people staring at you when you're out together? I don't think I can handle it. My now ex SD took me on dinners, took me shopping, spent a LOT of money on me but in the end I felt like crap because everyone around us "knew."
    I feel like I hit the jackpot when it comes to looks. My sd is gorgeous, only 8 years older than me and until this day I have NO IDEA why he would need to find a sb when he literally has girls crawling all over him when we're out.

    It actually makes me pretty insecure since these women aren't ugly looking. Are only some things too good to be true or does that just count for everything....??
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    Quote Originally Posted by LittleMissy View Post
    I'm... in that situation, I'm to a point where I'm about to say fk my bf he doesn't even appreciate me compared to my sd whose romantic as hell & does things like --- writes "I miss you" on a napkin of a place we just ate at & leaves it where I find them.

    Who do you end up missing? Your bf or sd??
    My SD!

    If you really have feelings for him and know he'd take care of you, don't write it off just b.c of how the relationship began.

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    Aw how sweet! I wish I felt so fondly about mine. lol

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    Oulala... you just gotta find the right one thats all


    Aubreyyy thanks <3 <3 you're right. I'm going to wait to see where this goes.
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    Okay, here's another question for you girls. The sugar daddy that I don't like (and just turned down the trip to Vegas with) told me multiple times that if I needed ANYTHING just to let him know. He said it many times in the span of about 10 minutes, and when I asked "Like how?" he said "Dough."

    So, I'm too chicken shit just to come out and say it. What's a sweet way of asking for money? lol Is it even a good idea to take money like that, or will he think that I "owe him."

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    Well, even if he turns out to think that you "owe him" something, then it'll be a little too late for him to take it back, right? Usually these rich guys are pretty high profile, so if you have his information, then he wouldn't risk threatening you with anything--you'd report his ass.

    Just throw a number at him--for car payments or anything. See how he reacts. Adjust accordingly. Make sure you slide in there "I just want to make sure you're okay with this...I really need the money, and I'd really appreciate it, but I want to make sure you're okaaaay with it...." etc. etc.

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    Okay, so this is my first time doing the whole SD thing, and I'm really nervous:

    I'm in Cali temporarily, and I've been using my stripper MySpace to network with guys hardcore, so that when I get back to PA, I won't have a hard time rebuilding a roster of regulars. Well, this guy contacted me, and said that he'd love to come in and spend money on me, and that whole deal. We start messaging back and forth, and he tells me that he'd totally be up to buying me a plane ticket back, so that he can get his lap dances. He says he's completely serious, and when I ask him what he'd want in return, he says, "Nothing. Do I have to want anything in return? Would it make you feel guilty if I got nothing?" Now, the other MySpace guys who randomly offered me a plane ticket wanted me to be their sex slave at least 3 times a week for a few months (nice, huh?), so this whole 'nothing' thing was pretty awesome. This conversation occured on a Wednesday, and he was gonna buy the ticket such that I got to PA that coming Monday, but I told him that they earliest I could even think about coming back was mid-November. He got all disappointed and asked why, and I frankly told him that I needed to get my money up before I moved all the way back across the country.

    He goes, "Well, I guess I'll have to be your sugar daddy, then, huh?"
    "What?"
    "I'll take care of you, whatever you need."

    I've verified that he owns an insurance company, so I don't assume that'd be much of a problem, but to be on the safe side, I DO want to have my own funds, and since there are no clubs out in this area (yay, high desert!), I'm doin' it the old-fashioined, check-every-two-weeks way.

    He deals with that, and we continue chatting online and on the phone, like, every day, and he says he'll send me a webcam because I wanted one. It arrives and a couple of days later, I get something else from him -- I open it, and its a letter, a bound picture book that he wrote and illustrated about him finding me on MySpace, and a rubber chicken with nipples drawn on.

    My question is whether or not I should be creeped out. I mean, we haven't met, and one's humor can be so misinterpreted without interacting with them in person. This could just be...his way of being funny, I guess. I'm not sure. However, I ran it past a friend of mine, and she said that it sounded like he was a little off-kilter. Its the whole "writing a book" thing that's throwing her off.

    This same friend is moving back with me, and our original plan was to fly to PA on the same flight, but with him wanting to pick me up from the airport and spend a night in Pittsburgh, how do you think he'd feel about her coming, too? She'd pay for her own stuff, and I'd feel 847604 times better with her around, at least until I figure out how I feel about him, sanity-wise. With her or alone, I'm bringing a Tazer and a knife, so I think I'd be okay, regardless. Moreover, would you guys even bother meeting him (he hasn't bought the ticket yet)? I mean, I have about a month left, so I guess I have more time to feel him out, but where would you be right now? Anyone met any real creeps?

    I readily admit that I might be over-reacting. I do that a lot - that's why I'm running it past people who have more experience with these things than I do. *shrugs* By all means, lemme know if I'm makin' somethin' outta nothin'.


    ANYWAY, like I said, I'm a complete newb to this whole arrangement, so keep that in mind?
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    ^^^^ Yo - he sounds like a hoto mess and it sounds like the makings of a twisted plot in a tv movie. Not to scare you but I wouldn't go. He seems a BIT obsessive. It seems potentially dangerous to meet him on his turf.

    I would try finding a SD in a different way. I'm not experienced but I don't think doing it through MySpace is ideal. I also wouldn't want to market myself as a stripper first to a potential SD. It can send the wrong message.

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    ^^^ Yeah, the whoel book thing would skeeze me out too. And also, wtf is up with the chicken?

    Why don't you just ask what was up with that? Does he have your real name and info and could hunt you down if you pissed him off?

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    ^^ Yeah, ask him about that in a lighthearted way... I would also do whatever I could to have your friend come back with you at the same time, for safety and moral support.

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    ^^ Agreed. And, as always, I'll advise to always go with your instincts, because the money really isn't worth the risk that's often involved.

    Keep in mind that SD's are SD's for a reason. There is a REASON they aren't finding normal dates, etc. The chicken thing seems to be hinting at this.

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    ^^^ Speaking of gut instincts, the fact that you're bringing this to the SW table in doubt seems like it might be your gut telling you something.

    And yeah, there is a REASON they aren't finding normal dates. That's a good thing to keep in mind.

    GOOD LUCK!

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    Ladies, thats not always true!

    I have met many men that I were completely surprised were doing this- especially in Manhattan. The reason being that if the money was involved, it made the women less likely to begin planning their marriage on the first date. (Which apparently happens all the time up there!

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    Ah, thank you guys.

    I asked him about the chicken, and he said it was just a joke, however there was no explaination for the whole book thing. He knows my last name, a PO Box, and where I work in PA, as its on the MySpace.

    I might just...leave this guy alone.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Aubreyyy View Post
    Ladies, thats not always true!

    I have met many men that I were completely surprised were doing this- especially in Manhattan. The reason being that if the money was involved, it made the women less likely to begin planning their marriage on the first date. (Which apparently happens all the time up there!
    Aubreyyy--you're also the one who happens to have HOT sugardaddies. Your situation is definitely the exception to the rule!!

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