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    I have been dancing for 5 months and dance day shifts and Sunday nights. I always found the weekend night shifts too intense and I made less money. I haven't tried since December and I'm ready to try again. I'm used to approaching almost every guy and I'm used to friendly, respectful guys who are actually there to get dances. I'm also used to the quieter music so I can actually sit and talk. When the club is packed, the guys are all drunk and the music is blaring, how do you hustle?

    Any basic pointers would be greatly appreciated.

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    I don't know, I'm not great with it either. Friday and Saturday nights can be great, but they can also be super draining. Last night pissed me off, and I went home early. I'm not very good at the wanna dancing with cheap kids, but I see some girls really pull it off. Wish I could tell you.

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    I have this same problem on the weekends. Guys seem so much more pickier during the weekends than during the week. Unfortunately I don't have the cookie cutter stripper look that guys are looking for (blonde hair, big boobs, basically Barbie!)

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    I work weekend nights so maybe I can help a tad.

    Assuming your club gets a good flow of guys throughout the night, don't try too hard with one guy. walk up, introduce yourself, ask how their doing and then ask if they'd like to have some fun. The next song you dance and keep dancing till he says stop (duh, ahah) and then move on. Rise and repeat.

    I don't approach the kids untill I've danced or been denied by every older guy in there and then have asked again (needless to say, this barely ever happens). Then go for the young kids and act like a trashed sorority girl and take their money and their friends and by then more older men should be in there.

    Working weekend nights is less draining for me becuase your not investing yourself in anything. Your either getting money or your moving on. Theres no stop and chat and waste a few songs and then having him say no. Thats draining for me.

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    ^I will trying this approach tonight. I generally now hate weekends, but we shall see.
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    I like them large and cut. Sort of like strawberries.

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    I work the weekends and I find that a lot of younger guys have money in there pockets and by the end of the night are ready to spend it ALL. I wouldn't pass up a guy based on his age. I make it a point to start with all the bachelor parties. Introduce yourself and find out who the bachelor is and ask if they want you to take him for a dance. Work your way through the majority of the party and then move to the next one. After you talked to most of the larger parties start talking to the individual guys. I always go to loners first. Basically though I move in sections so I remember where I left off once I return from the couch dance room. Try to make it a point to tell each guy your name even if he says no. It always surprises when at the end of the night how many guys I barely remember talking to who call me over and say their ready for that dance. I also recondmend asking 10 guys in a row and then take a breather if you get rejected each time. Change your outfit or do what you do and get back out there!! DON'T GIVE UP!

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    i loathe big parties.
    Quote Originally Posted by alessandra View Post
    I like them large and cut. Sort of like strawberries.

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    I also want to make a point and this is a minor thing. I've heard a lot of dancers say that their hustle is to act like the drunk girl when they are on the floor. I think that's fine but I don't think you have to do anything else than be yourself. I think men actually prefer a dancer who can be witty with loads of personality. This will sound weird but silly one liners 80% always get me the dance.

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    LizLizLiz: What is it about big parties that you don't like? The size? Being stuck in the middle?

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    I'm also used to the quieter music so I can actually sit and talk. When the club is packed, the guys are all drunk and the music is blaring, how do you hustle?
    Sit in thier lap and talk in thier ear. Apply your hustle to that enviroment. Seek out the guys alone or not in 'party' mode. Try the ones sitting at the bar.

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    Quote Originally Posted by la429 View Post
    LizLizLiz: What is it about big parties that you don't like? The size? Being stuck in the middle?
    I know you asked L^3, but can I chime in? I hate big parties b/c of the stupid alpha-male pack mentality that guys get in when they're at a club with their friends. It brings out the most obnoxious side of them. Gather a group of 20-something boys, put them in a social setting, add alcohol, and suddenly they revert back to high school. It's all one big wankfest with everyone trying to show off for their friends. Unfortunately a big part of this "pack" mentality involves being as nasty to the strippers as possible in the hopes of getting a few laughs from their buddies. And all discouraging each other from being "suckers" (aka actually spending money on a lapdance). Groupthink, I think is the psych 101 term for it. I just don't have the patience for it.

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    I agree w/Picaresque. Hate bachelor parties. Hate big groups. Plus sometimes you dance for one guy in the big group and the rest of the guys watch and try to grope. Ugh!!! The weekends are full of them.

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    I used to like weekends b/c its always busy but then i realised its mostly big groups who dont wanna spend,theyd rather stay with there mates lol.I prefere a quieter week night where theres more likley to be older men who wanna spend alot of time and money with u.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Picaresque View Post
    I know you asked L^3, but can I chime in? I hate big parties b/c of the stupid alpha-male pack mentality that guys get in when they're at a club with their friends. It brings out the most obnoxious side of them. Gather a group of 20-something boys, put them in a social setting, add alcohol, and suddenly they revert back to high school. It's all one big wankfest with everyone trying to show off for their friends. Unfortunately a big part of this "pack" mentality involves being as nasty to the strippers as possible in the hopes of getting a few laughs from their buddies. And all discouraging each other from being "suckers" (aka actually spending money on a lapdance). Groupthink, I think is the psych 101 term for it. I just don't have the patience for it.
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    I like them large and cut. Sort of like strawberries.

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    It's surprising to hear all of you say this about weekends. I don't find that big parties are really that juvenile. I think 1 out of 10 are pains the rest is easy money. IMO

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    Quote Originally Posted by Picaresque View Post
    I know you asked L^3, but can I chime in? I hate big parties b/c of the stupid alpha-male pack mentality that guys get in when they're at a club with their friends. It brings out the most obnoxious side of them. Gather a group of 20-something boys, put them in a social setting, add alcohol, and suddenly they revert back to high school. It's all one big wankfest with everyone trying to show off for their friends. Unfortunately a big part of this "pack" mentality involves being as nasty to the strippers as possible in the hopes of getting a few laughs from their buddies. And all discouraging each other from being "suckers" (aka actually spending money on a lapdance). Groupthink, I think is the psych 101 term for it. I just don't have the patience for it.
    Good point! I hate the groups of younger males (although it's easier for me to hustle someone I might find attractive and they're usually it). I've had some be INSANELY nasty to me, refusing to tip me on stage and then sending me to chat up one of their friends that wasn't interested in a dance. Usually I will get scathingly insulting though, and sometimes that will get me some dances. If a guy says something rude, and you call him out for being an ass or put him down, his friends will think you're awesome. But there are times I avoid the whole group due to one ass.

    I have a question for the girls here, how do you hustle well in a small crowded club? My club is pretty small and on the weekends has about 15-25 girls in a place less than 100 feet from one end to the other. How do you go around asking as many guys as you can when they can all see you just asked the guy next to them? Or when they've just been asked by 10 other girls?

    I'm working this weekend. I'm expecting it to be rough since the last Friday I worked I made 28 bucks.

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    I love packed weekends, because we dancers look like a more precious commodity, the energy (and the pressure) is up, and more dudes are drunk. The thing I love about weekend nights is finding those unexpected jackpots. The tipsy guy, standing alone, in a sea of cocks. He looks my way for more than a second and BAM! I'm over there getting way more fake and sexual than I usually do, he eats it all up, and he's mine for 5 or 10 dances.

    Or you can scout out a small (3-4) group of young fun party guys, be fun and playful and sexy and grab one of them for just one or two dances, bring him back, and make the rounds!!

    Weekends are definitely a different hustle, but you can do it!

    I seem to do great with guys in pairs also, esp. on weekends. Don't know what it is. More than 3 guys and it gets tricky for me but I can usually get them to throw some dollars onstage.

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    The louder the music, the less you have to work when it's busy. I just prance around with a smile on my face looking energetic.

    I drink a lot of water at work, so I just kind of dance through the crowd seemingly on the way to the bar, if someone stops me I talk to them. Usually they'll something along the lines of 'you look like you're having fun'... which of course gets an 'wanna come have some fun with me?'.

    If no one stops me, I just go to the bar and get a water. There's usually a wait so it's an excuse to talk to the customers at the bar. Still prancing, dancing and smiling. If someone offers to buy me a drink its usually only two steps till I can get them to book me for a dance. If no one seems interested at the bar, I drink my water and see if anyone in the crowd is looking at me. If so I go over to them. If not I prance, dance and smile my way back through the crowd to the dressing room.

    Repeat.

    If I'm not getting enough privates from the routine, and I start to look like a prat trolling through the crowd not really talking to anyone, I'll start talking to tables. Sometimes the conversations easy. If it isn't I use the old 'It's so hard to talk here, would you like to go somewhere more private?' line. I don't stay at any table longer than five minutes, unless it's a group where they just seem to be taking turns taking me for dances with a few lulls.

    I find this routine makes me look happy and fun but most of all it makes me look popular/busy while still being approachable. Unless of course I've done too many unsuccessful laps of the room. In which case I go for a smoke, and on my return pretend like I'd just been for a dance.

    On the weekends guys always want the girl that everyone else wants. You just have to create the illusion that you are that girl, even if you're not.
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    Quote Originally Posted by ellebelle View Post
    On the weekends guys always want the girl that everyone else wants. You just have to create the illusion that you are that girl, even if you're not.

    How do you do this, especially if you are obviously working the room and doing "the walk of shame" away from a lounge chair or table, just having been turned down? It seems when guys see the walk of shame on the weekend, it's almost like they have a reflex to turn you down (even when you're carrying yourself well), and this phenom doesn't seem to happen on weekdays.
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    I often act like "the girl that everyone wants" just by asking for a dance like I don't care if they say yes or no. Don't give even the slightest hint of desperation. Act like you are doing them a favour for asking them.

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    Quote Originally Posted by kaiarose View Post
    I have this same problem on the weekends. Guys seem so much more pickier during the weekends than during the week. Unfortunately I don't have the cookie cutter stripper look that guys are looking for (blonde hair, big boobs, basically Barbie!)

    I get that same treatment! I've been dancing for a over a year, but until I get up on stage guys just seem to think I'm a new girl that's lost! No, I'm not bleaching my hair, no I'm not getting a boob job, and no I'm not a bouncy chipper girl all the time. Oh well! I just have to work harder... and I've been so lazy lately... lol

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    I work at a smaller club that is normally incredibly crowded, especially on the weekends. It's an 18+ club too, so we get A LOT of younger guys, some still in High School! lol it's a trip sometimes...

    To hustle in that environment is a lot different than some other clubs I have worked in. It's a lot quicker and much more of a party-one where there is no alcohol and the guys want to sit and relax and listen to the music. The guys normally wont get a dance from a girl who just comes up and asks them. They want to be your friend first, so you have to sit and talk to them for a couple of songs (no more than four) and normally you will win one over and maybe a buddy or two as well. They don't have a lot of money and it's more work than normal strip clubs for one or two dances, but when youre in the type of club I am in there isn't much choice.

    Since it is so crowded as well, if you do the wanna dance routine, do every other table/group/row whatever as applies to your clubs setup. Go around the club that way, wait a song or two (use the bathroom, check your makeup, get a drink, whatever), then hit the people you missed the first time around on your second trip. That way you don't look desperate or whatever, and you can make the guy feel a bit special. If he asks "but I just saw you ask that guy over there" , You can then say "but I came to see YOU right after, and look at all the guys I passed over to get to you" lol. normally they are clueless about the every-other-table routine.
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