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    I don't normally help out the new girls. I dont want anymore competition than I already have, they annoy me 'cause they complain they dont make money or they brag about how much they make, the young 18 year olds act like it's a nightclub, etc. etc.
    I will tell them the unspoken rules about camping out with a custy, tipping if you take a guy from a girl's stage, etc. The general stipper etiquette stuff, ya' know? And Ill help them out if they need some perfume, wipes, or a hairtye or something like that for the first few shifts they work. (after 3-4 shifts, if they keep asking me, I'll say no and suggest they go buy some of their own) But as for hustling tips-no way am I giving out any tips.
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    Default Re: to help or not to help new girls...

    If they ask for help or I think they need help and they'd be willing to accept it I'd give it to them.

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    Default Re: to help or not to help new girls...

    I have, mostly for stage. I've shown a girl a couple moves on the pole and another girl was so damn scared to get up on the stage I went up with her for a couple sets. I let them know the club rules, and maybe some "unspoken" rules if they seem oblivious. And an occasional baby wipe or whatever.

    I don't think it's hurt my money. I'd prefer being friendly to not being so. And the girls I work with are really cool so I figure what goes around comes around. Other clubs might not be like that though. Anyway girls helped me when I started so I try to do the same.
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    I help out to some extent. I believe it's bad karma not too. Of course I don't give them my hustle lines, etc., cuz that's our own secret recipe, but otherwise I help them out.

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    That's pretty much exactly my limit. I'll lend things sparingly and I will be more than happy to offer tips that help me and everyone else out (about not camping out, calling them table dances instead of "dollar dances" and charging more, etc.)

    You can't be expected to share your hustle tips with anyone. That ain't being bitchy. That shit is trade secret.

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    I would only help to the extent that the girl didn't make the club look foolish. But if she still made an ass out of herself after basic help, then it's not my problem.

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    Default Re: to help or not to help new girls...

    If a girl looks like she's taking the job seriously and wants to stay there, I'll help. I'll give general advice on talking to the customers, where to get outfits, etc. If she looks like she's just there to make $200 so she can buy that pair of shoes she's always wanted, I'll only help her if she asks about something specific (where I'd look rude to not help her out).

    Lap dance lines? Please!! One of the best lines ever is "I'm new here...wanna try me out?" ETC. ETC. ETC.

    The last thing these newbies need is help getting LD's...if they have even half a brain!

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    I give tons of advice but I don't lend things out.
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    Default Re: to help or not to help new girls...

    I dont think its bitchy to be like that really, if a new girl asks for advice or somthing il help her but not too much.When i first started dancing no one helped me as much as they do to new girls that come now,supose its like ive learnt myself and worked hard so i dont wanna just help everyone what i no.

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    Default Re: to help or not to help new girls...

    ^^^ a lot of times, the most 'experienced' dancers in a particular club will be thrust into the 'teacher / mentor / house mom' role in regard to new dancers whether they choose to do it or not. Sometimes the club will encourage this. More often, the new girls will simply gravitate on their own.

    For my own part, I'm in agreement with BonBon that new dancers do deserve to be taught enough that A - they don't embarrass the club, B - they don't put themselves or other dancers in the club at legal risk, C - they uphold the 'unspoken' rules or 'dancer etiquette' or whatever you want to call the parameters involving dancer interactions with customers and other dancers.

    But beyond that, IMHO learning to perform / hustle / manage their own private lives / manage their own finances is THEIR problem. Expecting 'experienced' dancers to divert time and attention away from their own hustle with zero additional financial reward (and very probably a financial loss) in order to 'educate' new dancers just doesn't cut it in my book.

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    Anytime I have any one ask me for tips, I say, "go check out stripperweb"
    Never once have any of them ventured their way here.
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    I'll do the stripper etiquette stuff. Girls I know that I've known for a while that come ti my club I tend to help out more, I'll point out the custies to talk to, the ones to avoid.

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    Default Re: to help or not to help new girls...

    If I like them I help them, if not, they are on their own. I have had back luck in the past with newbies I took under my wing going bad on me (becoming extras girl or big time druggie.)
    I tend to give little tips and DEFINITELY tell the rules straight up. I don't want to get fined and I don't want the club to start thinking they have to pay more attention to everyone (even the good girls) because some new girl did something really stupid and said "she didn't know." Um, yeah, you didn't know your hand shouldn't be down his pants?
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    I think most new girls worry about being accepted by the other dancers. I would make a little extra effort just to say hello. You don't have to be their best friend. I would be professional but friendly. Its just good karma.

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    Default Re: to help or not to help new girls...

    I don't go out of my way to introduce myself to new dancers most of the time. I just don't have the time to do that. On a rare occasion I will show someone around. Normally I only give "hustling tips" to my girlfriends who work with me.

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    Default Re: to help or not to help new girls...

    i usually stoop to helping only the really pathetic ones, the ones that have that deer in the headlights look. and i def don't give out my secret hustle lines, i just give them a pep talk and tell them the basics
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