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    Did you/Do you have a customer who likes to touch you a lot. I'm not talking about inappropriate touching. More like touching your hair and your face type thing. I really find it embarrassing when other customers are around. I also find it controlling in a way. He's really easy money. I don't even have to take my clothes off. He likes to talk. I have told him that I don't like it when he touches my face because it rubs off my makeup but he still does it. He has even started to flick my nose?! It's really annoying and weird.

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    what a fuckhead!!
    you told him u dontlike it and he still does it? that's not on at all. I have a regular who will put his hand on my leg when he talks, that shits me to tears too. I dont want any sort of touching from customers. Im very uptight when it comes to that. They get to see us naked, that's priviledge enough for them but they always want more.

    when u tell him u dont like it try saying it very firmly. if you say it in a cute way "like oh i don't like that" while giggling or smiling (not saying you're doing this but ive seen many girls do it) they dont take you seriously.
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    Yes, I have had a customer like that. He was a "Hugger," but he also loved touching my nose. Here's a thread about him:



    Be firm but polite with him and let him know that while you love spending time with him, the face touching (or whatever) makes you uncomfortable.

    I totally feel you on this...ugh.

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    I can't stand that shit. I had my jaw broken and I can't stand having my face handled at all anymore. Guys are pretty good about leaving me alone after I say something like that. I agree, just be very firm about not wanting to be touched. Is there a way you can maybe up-sell your time (charge him CR prices to hang out around you) to have to deal with this guy?
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    Ehh. given the choice, I'd rather have a guy attempting 'inappropriate' touching. My face is too personal. (damn I'm jaded). Maybe mention to him that you don't want to break out.

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    He may get off on the fact that you let him do it because he gives you money, even while you really don't like it. So yeah, it maybe a controlling thing.
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    I've only had the foot massager guys. Which I don't really mind.

    Maybe tell him that other girls or customers may see him touching you and say something to management and get you in trouble. We all know that's not too far from the truth; there's always the chance another dancer might try to start drama for you by claiming that you're doing extras.

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