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    Default I dont like pussy and im disappointed

    I used to fantasise about being with other girls. I completely found it the biggest turn on ever.

    Since actually trying it I am really disappointed that it doesn't turn me on in the least bit. I even tried it with a girl who I was extremely physically attracted to and it just did nothing whatsoever.

    Now I sort of wish I had never tried it because it has ruined my fantasy.

    Has this happened to anyone else?
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    Default Re: I dont like pussy and im disappointed

    It's a fantasy for a reason .......

    and yes this has happened to other people

    not the girl thing tho' ... in other aspects...


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    Default Re: I dont like pussy and im disappointed

    I have to come up with something else to masturbate to now LOL. Im not a visual masturbator I like to think of scenarios.
    Quote Originally Posted by Corgan View Post
    when regulars turn cheap, it's time to kill em off.
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    You're still a vagina.
    There are many stereotypes about the industry that I work in. Sometimes they can be true but human beings are very diverse creatures and cannot be pigeon-holed into one category.

    Some of the most effortlessly beautiful, kind, intelligent, successful, motivated, driven and ridiculously hilarious women that I have ever met have been dancers. I've met the best friends that I've ever had in this industry.

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    Default Re: I dont like pussy and im disappointed

    Sex in general was extremely anti-climatic for me compared to all the hype. The various "advanced scenarios" were equally disappointing outside of the novelty aspect.

    If not for the need to express affection regularly, I would rarely have it.
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    Default Re: I dont like pussy and im disappointed

    ^^
    u mean 3somes and things such as that?

    by the need do u mean physical relief?

    i think i could go without sex for a long time and just get myself off. i have been mostly disappointed with sex come to think of it.
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    You're still a vagina.
    There are many stereotypes about the industry that I work in. Sometimes they can be true but human beings are very diverse creatures and cannot be pigeon-holed into one category.

    Some of the most effortlessly beautiful, kind, intelligent, successful, motivated, driven and ridiculously hilarious women that I have ever met have been dancers. I've met the best friends that I've ever had in this industry.

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    Default Re: I dont like pussy and im disappointed

    I had the same experience when i tried girl-girl (twice, actually, never went back for a third round after that.) I realised I was heterosexual after all. Kissing girls is nice but the other variety of kissing left much to be desired, shall we say. Urgh.

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    Quote Originally Posted by jaizaine View Post
    I used to fantasise about being with other girls. I completely found it the biggest turn on ever.

    Since actually trying it I am really disappointed that it doesn't turn me on in the least bit. I even tried it with a girl who I was extremely physically attracted to and it just did nothing whatsoever.

    Now I sort of wish I had never tried it because it has ruined my fantasy.

    Has this happened to anyone else?
    Maybe you were disappointed with here reaction when you'd go down on here ?? Or maybe you were scared ??

    If you were to go down on me you wouldn't be disappointed !! But maybe you wouls be scared

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    ^^
    no I just didn't get turned on at all.
    Quote Originally Posted by Corgan View Post
    when regulars turn cheap, it's time to kill em off.
    Quote Originally Posted by Lysondra View Post
    You're still a vagina.
    There are many stereotypes about the industry that I work in. Sometimes they can be true but human beings are very diverse creatures and cannot be pigeon-holed into one category.

    Some of the most effortlessly beautiful, kind, intelligent, successful, motivated, driven and ridiculously hilarious women that I have ever met have been dancers. I've met the best friends that I've ever had in this industry.

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    Quote Originally Posted by jaizaine View Post
    ^^
    no I just didn't get turned on at all.
    Do you get turned on when you go down on a guy ?? When I'm going down on a guy I find it very rewarding Because he is so appreciative and begging and demanding and vocal and stuff Makes me feel so girlie and feminine !!

    Is that what your missing going down on a girl ??

    Boy men are stupid !! But in a good way !! Making things happend ...

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    Default Re: I dont like pussy and im disappointed

    ^^
    maybe you're right. i do get really turned on going down on a guy. Maybe it was that i didn't think she was enjoying it. But i didn't enjoy receiving it either. I don't know the whole thing just wasn't what I expected.
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    when regulars turn cheap, it's time to kill em off.
    Quote Originally Posted by Lysondra View Post
    You're still a vagina.
    There are many stereotypes about the industry that I work in. Sometimes they can be true but human beings are very diverse creatures and cannot be pigeon-holed into one category.

    Some of the most effortlessly beautiful, kind, intelligent, successful, motivated, driven and ridiculously hilarious women that I have ever met have been dancers. I've met the best friends that I've ever had in this industry.

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    Default Re: I dont like pussy and im disappointed

    I don't like doing oral (I've only done it on guys) and if the guy isn't either making noises or playing with my hair or something it makes me feel really awkward. The only times I enjoy it is when I can tell he's really enjoying it, assuming isn't enough.

    If she wasn't really reactive it could really kill the mood.

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    Dont feel so bad. Im not really into pussy either...

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    Default Re: I dont like pussy and im disappointed

    2b honest sex w/some girls is not the same as sex with other girls. the 1st time I had sex w/ a girl was too have sex w/a girl and I was highly dissapointed being that I was soo sure I was gay till then, but I later realized it was just her and that I had no attraction to her really soo it really wasn't any better then I knew sex with men to be--which was really blah for me every time I tried which was alot soo I was really upset thinking neither sex did it for me for a while.

    However the next time my homornes kicked it and I found a girl I was into sex w/her didn't dissapoint and I knew right then without a doute that was what I always fanastied about.

    Now I when I look for a lover I don't just look at how hott she is, I try to go for those I know I have sexaul chemistry w/ that are going to do it for me becuz if not she's just eye candy (a pretty face/hott body to look at)and nothing for me to play with/get wet over.

    I tell all the bi/curious girls at work that they have to move up past amature level/Eating pussy little league before I'ld play with them becuz really 2 make a man cum takes nothing compared to pleasing a woman takes talent and I have no desire to be with any woman who has noclue what she's doing or if she likes it or not/pillowprincesses/starfish/minutegirls or whatnot.

    The sex I have with women nowadays is 10000times better becuz generally I only play with girls I know know what they are doing/it's gonna be hottt w/ and if I'm not feeling it then I'm going to stop and tell her thanks but no thanks.

    Maybe you are str8 and the fanasty was just the unknown factor about it for you, or maybe you expected soo much and this girl couldn't deliver that's for u 2 figure out. Good luck 2 you and sorry to hear--losy sex sucks for any1.

    Somecases the fanasty is better then the reality--like most guys think having 2 girlfriends would be the ultimate while I know from experience that 2 women 2 please and bitch and get you hand aches is way more then I would want to deal with when it only takes 1 to make me cum and is more then enough for me to handle.
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    I went down on a girl once and found it incredibly hard. Like I felt really inadequate for not being awesome at it, which sort of took me out of the sexy headspace and into the low self-esteem headspace... probably a bonerkiller for anyone.

    I'm that way about sex in general, though. The second the little thoughts start coming to the forefront, I am completely detached from the experience and not having fun at all. If the whole thing is new to me, I'm going to have a hard time turning my head off.

    You might get into girls again at some point. The first time I had sex with a guy it was completely weird and not hot too and I eventually figured out how to get past that and enjoy myself.
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    More for me!

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    Quote Originally Posted by jaizaine View Post
    i think i could go without sex for a long time and just get myself off. i have been mostly disappointed with sex come to think of it.
    I did that once. I abstained for a year and a half before I met Fireman Tim.

    Then I realised sex can be awesome. I just didn't find the right people before-hand... and now I'm REALLY enjoying it!! I'm learning about what I do and don't like and everything... and that makes sex for me personally rewarding.

    jaizaine, are you afraid of being lonely? is that why you stay in a relationship with your boy because you are just so used to it and afraid of being single?

    Take it from me.. there ARE plenty of more fish in the sea to try and find the one(s) that "do it" for you sexually...

    I will never ever abstain from sex again.




    Plus I agree with a previous poster who said that you have to find the other woman sexually attractive as well before sex with the other woman will be anything enjoyable.

    It's why I enjoyed my 3some experience in the Sunshine Coast. I actually found the other woman attractive sexually... granted, I'm an amateur as I have yet to actually "eat" a girl out outside of work.

    I so want to do it too.



    in the end, we are all unique sexually. what does it for one person won't for another. doesn't mean to say you can't go back to fantasizing about g/g situations... just make it a fantasy that works for you... in the end, you realise now, that some things are best to stay in fantasy land.


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    Card carrying member of the I <3 cock club here!
    Actually thats not solely true but good enough

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    I really have no interest in trying anything with a girl again tbh. I think it was just a fantasy and not something im really interested in doing again.

    I have tried it more than once too.

    I like men. I think women are hot but they don't turn me on.
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    when regulars turn cheap, it's time to kill em off.
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    You're still a vagina.
    There are many stereotypes about the industry that I work in. Sometimes they can be true but human beings are very diverse creatures and cannot be pigeon-holed into one category.

    Some of the most effortlessly beautiful, kind, intelligent, successful, motivated, driven and ridiculously hilarious women that I have ever met have been dancers. I've met the best friends that I've ever had in this industry.

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    this thread has made me horny.

    and my boy's out at a uni reunion thing.

    doh.

    eh, his loss

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    oh, and more on topic...

    the first time I went down on a girl I felt physicially sick. like, not 'ewww this is gross get me outta here' but just weird.

    now? love it. I ended up in a threesome with my ex and his gf who's a smoking hot 5' blonde bombshell with a sex drive to match mine and WOW...

    think back - did you LOVE giving head the first time? probably not. or maybe you did. actually now I think about it I did... hmm.

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    Default Re: I dont like pussy and im disappointed

    It's great that even disappointing, or crappy experiences, teach us something....and it becomes a positive.

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    So, you're straight? Most of the population is as well. The sample here on SW is skewed toward bi, but in general, the majority of people are hetero. You can't make yourself gay or bi anymore than a gay person could make themself straight. It's ok.

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    Funny !! This thread make me thinking ...

    Why do I like men ??? Why am I 99 % straight ???

    Now I'm only talking about the 0.001 % that could ever caught my interest ...

    When I meet that guy I completely surrender !!! Giving him blowjob's all over ...

    Why ?? Why ??

    Why is it when I meet this guy I cannot cool down before giving him this fucking blowjob ???

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