Works for me, too.
It's not necessary to do a big dumb-girl act, IMO. If I'm upbeat, sexy, and having a great time, guys don't usually stop to think about what my I.Q. might be before they get a dance.
Sadly, when guys tell you you're "too smart" it's usually code for "you don't seem very fun." It can mean you come off as being too analytical, trying to hard, acting reserved, or any combination of the above. Guys don't come to the club for deep conversations, most of the time. Not saying they won't talk to a girl who is conversible, and sometimes being able to make conversation will get you more money from the guys who do want that. But it's not the primary thing they're looking for.
As for "proper" -- well, guys who want a prim and proper dancer will always be in the minority. Most want a girl who can be sensual and sexual. But sexuality and smarts are hardly mutually exclusive, and if you can be a combination of the two, you will bank with the classier type of customer.
Rubbing on customers like a drunken whore has never gotten me anywhere, though I have tried it from time to time just to see how it works. The same ammount of customers say no to me, though they might act more regretful when they say it. Overt sluttiness doesn't seem to sell dances unless you are genuinely willing to promise dirty extras. I'm not, so this type of sell is a false front for me. I also find it really exhausting. All in all, not worth the effort.
Finally, I don't think the "too smart" comment literally means your IQ and GPA are too high to be a dancer. You just need to relax more and let your naughty side show.
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