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    We don't talk anymore. Not since he found out I was pansexual, back in 1998. I just heard from one of my cousins that he has a lung tumor... like what killed my mom when I was 8. I can't lose him yet. Not like this. Not without mending things. Egads I can't do this.
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    First of all, I'm really sorry.

    Is there any way you can contact him?
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    Quote Originally Posted by VegasPrincess View Post
    First of all, I'm really sorry.

    Is there any way you can contact him?

    It's hit or miss. He sometimes responds to mail if I write, but if I call, his wife hangs up on me.

    He calls distant relatives but no one effin calls ME? He hates me, I know it... I dunno why but why wouldn't he call me?
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    Marasmus says, "Oh no, that wasn't gas, it was merely a rectal chuckle."

    Marek says, "A friend of mine got punched in the face by a dominatrix stripper about two weeks ago and I thought of you."

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    I'm sorry, Paige. You don't deserve this crap.

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    If I lose him I dunno what I'm gonna do. I CANT handle this. Not like this. Not now.
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    Marasmus says, "Oh no, that wasn't gas, it was merely a rectal chuckle."

    Marek says, "A friend of mine got punched in the face by a dominatrix stripper about two weeks ago and I thought of you."

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    oh man. Is there anyway you can contact a relative and have them "plead your case" to him, to remind him how much you care?

    This is a really tough situation, I hope everything works out?

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    Maybe given his situation he will realise the importance of getting together with you and trying to mend things. Being faced with such a serious illness can make people act differently.
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    when regulars turn cheap, it's time to kill em off.
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    Some of the most effortlessly beautiful, kind, intelligent, successful, motivated, driven and ridiculously hilarious women that I have ever met have been dancers. I've met the best friends that I've ever had in this industry.

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    I agree with jaizianne.

    People react differently when they're faced with something like this, they realize what is important.

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    I hope so. His wife... she... well she's just all kindsa messed up and wrong. The spell she has on him... that and the fact that he didn't call me. He has my number. He KNOWS what this would do to me.
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    Marek says, "A friend of mine got punched in the face by a dominatrix stripper about two weeks ago and I thought of you."

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    That's such BS, I'm so sorry hun. I hope you get things worked out. xO.
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    I hope no one minds this... just one pic. I swear.



    I was 19 in this pic. About a yearish before he turned his back on me.
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    Marek says, "A friend of mine got punched in the face by a dominatrix stripper about two weeks ago and I thought of you."

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    Maybe you could write a letter saying how sad u r to hear about his ill health and that you think it would be great to get together. You could even put a copy of that pic inside, Im sure it would touch him.
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    Some of the most effortlessly beautiful, kind, intelligent, successful, motivated, driven and ridiculously hilarious women that I have ever met have been dancers. I've met the best friends that I've ever had in this industry.

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    I'm sorry Paige.

    I hope everything works out. It's hard to lose a parent, especially when you've not mended stuff (believe me, I know--my dad passed away in '99 and I hadn't spoken to him in almost 2 years at that point).

    I would just have your man call for him and then hand the phone over to you. Or show up on his doorstep. Don't let the stepmom get in the way of making contact with your dad.


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    Oh honey I am so sorry. I don't know what to say

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    Ok...stupid question.

    What is a pansexual??

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    I'm so sorry to hear the news, Paige. And thank you for showing the picture--you can see there's a lot of love there. I think Jaizaine has a lot of wisdom here...there may be a way to get in contact with him through relatives or even forwarding a letter with that picture. I think just a few moments of the two of you together will wipe out a lot of the hard times, because there is a deeper river with you two which other situations cannot touch. Put your faith in that and give it a try.

    I do know what you're facing, believe me--I had a very difficult time dealing with the mortality of my Dad. I'll repeat something that helped me at the time: embrace your fear, and what you'll find in your arms is yourself. I hope in some way you'll be able to make the connection with your dad, Paige. There must be a way to get through here. Please let us know how it goes. I hope you're doing okay and if you need someone to communicate with please feel free to PM me.
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    Quote Originally Posted by VenusGoddess View Post
    I'm sorry Paige.

    I hope everything works out. It's hard to lose a parent, especially when you've not mended stuff (believe me, I know--my dad passed away in '99 and I hadn't spoken to him in almost 2 years at that point).

    I would just have your man call for him and then hand the phone over to you. Or show up on his doorstep. Don't let the stepmom get in the way of making contact with your dad.

    If I show up on the property, she will call the cops. She's been saying that since I was 13.

    Quote Originally Posted by VenusGoddess View Post
    Ok...stupid question.

    What is a pansexual??


    It's like bisexual but with all the transfolks, cross genders, etc etc too.
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    Marasmus says, "Oh no, that wasn't gas, it was merely a rectal chuckle."

    Marek says, "A friend of mine got punched in the face by a dominatrix stripper about two weeks ago and I thought of you."

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    I have a friend who is facing a similar situation--wife blocking efforts to communicate with his Dad. I worry about you facing this, Paige--but at the same time, if you are firm and resolute, and you keep a calm head about you and not get involved in explosions--even if this wife does--you'll probably get somewhere. This woman has no right to keep you from your dad if you want to be with him. I wish you luck--I'm sorry you're going through it.
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    I've come to realize that despite being Big Bad Domme Stripper... I am scared to death of confronting him or his wife. What kinda (drunk) effin loser have I become?
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    Marasmus ... "Ladies don't fart. They butt-laugh."
    Marasmus says, "Oh no, that wasn't gas, it was merely a rectal chuckle."

    Marek says, "A friend of mine got punched in the face by a dominatrix stripper about two weeks ago and I thought of you."

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    Quote Originally Posted by PaigeDWinter View Post
    I've come to realize that despite being Big Bad Domme Stripper... I am scared to death of confronting him or his wife. What kinda (drunk) effin loser have I become?
    you are not a " loser " you are human with normal human feelings.
    sorry for everything

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    thsnks fer bein mah ffrinds ya;ll. lov yus guys.
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    Marek says, "A friend of mine got punched in the face by a dominatrix stripper about two weeks ago and I thought of you."

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    I'm so sorry to hear this Paige. I agree with everybody about trying to get in touch with him though.

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    Lster today Imma try o call my oldest sister. SWee if she can help me.
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    Marek says, "A friend of mine got punched in the face by a dominatrix stripper about two weeks ago and I thought of you."

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    I hope everything turns out for the best and you find a way to contact your Father. My Father died when I was 9 so I can barely imagine how I would feel if something happened to my Mother. I would flip out. If calling your sister doesn't help I would agree with the other poster that if you just can't show up at their house then write a letter. We barely know each other but I will be thinking of you and hoping that everything works out for you. You seem like a really strong person and it shows that a lot of people will be here for you if you need them!

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    love you all so mch.
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    Marasmus ... "Ladies don't fart. They butt-laugh."
    Marasmus says, "Oh no, that wasn't gas, it was merely a rectal chuckle."

    Marek says, "A friend of mine got punched in the face by a dominatrix stripper about two weeks ago and I thought of you."

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