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    Hello i am new here as you can tell, but im haveing issues...I have been with my gf for a little over 3 years now...i have messed up a few times, just little lies that i got cought on never cheated or anything..but back in september my buddys took me to the strip club for my 21st b day, i told her we didnt go anywhere and she found out and broke up with me for about 2 weeks because of it...Well recently the past 4-5 months we have been fighting alot and its really due to the fact that i have been having rough times with my job and life in general....well the end of last month krista my gf was sick, and my buddy was having a party, so i asked her if she would mind if i went to his party since she took medicine to goto bed...well she said she didnt but she obviously did, because the next morning i woke up to her saying she was done and didnt want to be with somone who doesnt care about her like she does me.
    So i leave, i went to stay with my mom to try to let her cool down, but at the end of last month also a girl i used to fuck messaged me on myspace and we said a few things just like catching up, well i said i needed a haircut and also that i missed talking to her...well krista (my gf) found these messsages the night that she broke up with me...so she called and said i hate you and your a liar and a peice of shit and i never want to see you again. So i try for about 2 weeks to talk to her and finally she starts responding to some e mails or texts. and then i got her to meet up with me, so we talked and she was very upset but still firm on her word that she doesnt want to get back with me. However when we were talking she did alot of things that made it seem like she was thinking about it, such as she cried in my arms, held my hand and even let me tickle her and she was ok. Well i told her that i really can change and that i really miss and love her but if thats how she really feels i dont have much of a choice.
    So i keep trying to text,call,email and whatever and she is ok and responds but is still VERY firm on not giving me another chance. So then on monday she had to goto the hospital for a surgery and of course i showed up, she was very happy to see me there and told me she wanted me to stay. So i stayed with her, and got her candy for afterwards and worte her a nice note, but when she was able to leave the hospital i asked if i could go back home with her to take care of her and she sad she didnt think it was a good idea. so i didnt push her. But the whole time she kept asking if i was mad about her not wanting me to go? So as im walking her to her moms car cus thats who picked her up, the nurse sai " wow krista you have a really great guy here! and you better never let him go!!!" i was like YESSSSS inside but her face was priceless, she instantly teared up! so i put her in the car and put her seatbelt on her and she gave me a kiss on the lips and said thank you and that she loved me.
    So today i try talking to her and she answers my calls and all but she still doesnt want to work through this....I know there is something special about her and i really want her back, and this sunday we will be broken up for 1 month...
    Is there anything i can do or any advice you guys/girls could give on this????? anything would help, but i really want/need her back in my life...

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    Wow,

    I mean you really need to see Dr. Phil as we have no idea who you are.....

    is this only reason your posting this here was because in the first paragraph you mentioned "stripclub"?.

    I would suggest finding a relationship forum or something else.

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    Default Re: Gf Helllpp!!!

    no just figured it was a good site because i could hopefully get good female advice not some shitty advice...I posted on here because her and i used to go on here to look at pics and stuff but she doesnt anymore...sorry

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    Default Re: Gf Helllpp!!!

    It sounds like you have EX gf problems and you're just making your life harder by dragging this out. It's like ripping off a scab. Stop talking to her and give yourself the time that you need to heal.
    If you think school is hard, try being stupid.

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    Default Re: Gf Helllpp!!!

    yea i know, its just so hard letting go after over 3 years with someone...esspecially when you see things that you saw with her or did things that you did with her...I just keep thinking of the talks we had and drives to no where...i feel there is hope with us, but idn what to do? like i want to show her i can change but i think its to late

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