Results 1 to 3 of 3

Thread: Shyness after quitting dancing?

  1. #1
    Newbie
    Joined
    Oct 2006
    Posts
    9
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts

    Default Shyness after quitting dancing?

    I quit dancing a few months ago and went back to the 9 to 5 world and ever since I started this new job I've been having a hard time interacting with the men in my office. I tend not to make eye contact with them and avoid conversations. My shyness is also starting to affect my love life. I've been seeing someone and he likes the lights on during sex but I prefer the lights off. I don't even want him to see me naked. I used to be one of the most outgoing girls at the club and always felt comfortable showing off my body to complete strangers. Has anyone else that left dancing ever feel this way?

  2. #2
    BrunetteGoddess
    Guest

    Default Re: Shyness after quitting dancing?

    Maybe it has something to do with the fact that you have no "alter ego" to interact for you; you must be just....you.

  3. #3
    Vivacious
    Guest

    Default Re: Shyness after quitting dancing?

    Since you were the most outgoing, maybe you're going to the other extreme for a while b/c you just quit, and then you'll be back in the middle again? I've been that way before. Or were you shy before you started dancing?

    Are you worried about your man/co-worksers seeing your wilder side and so you're downplaying yourself? If I feel judged, I do clam up. In the club I felt that all kinds of crazy behavior was acceptable, so there was less risk in being outgoing. In fact, I wouldn't make much money if I wasn't outgoing, so what a great motivator! If you want to be outgoing outside the club, but aren't "feeling it," you'll have to find a different motivation for yourself.

Similar Threads

  1. Quitting dancing. Pros and Cons
    By gypsydancer in forum Stripping (was Stripping General)
    Replies: 15
    Last Post: 09-17-2010, 03:29 PM
  2. quitting dancing...and taking some regulars with me? crazy? stupid?
    By oodlesofnoodles in forum Stripping (was Stripping General)
    Replies: 27
    Last Post: 11-03-2007, 01:58 PM
  3. any girls happy about quitting dancing?
    By brendalee in forum Stripping (was Stripping General)
    Replies: 53
    Last Post: 08-15-2006, 11:51 AM
  4. Shyness
    By rain in forum Hustle Hut
    Replies: 8
    Last Post: 10-10-2005, 09:14 AM
  5. quitting dancing...now what am I qualified for
    By julzgulz in forum Other Work
    Replies: 35
    Last Post: 01-14-2005, 02:37 PM

Bookmarks

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •