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    Default Another Quick Hustle Tip- Praise!

    Another home run from my persuasion class.

    Praise is one of the most powerful forms of persuasion you can use. People loved to be flattered, even when they know it's fake.

    You've heard this before, I know, so let me illustrate.

    This is the short version, btw.

    A study was done with people doing a "20 questions" type game with a computer. As they played, they could make a contribution to the computer's database. After they made a contribution, the computer would praise them via text in a popup box, like "Your question makes and interesting and useful distinction. Great job!" 1/3 of the people were told the feedback was a true evaluation of their performance (sincere). 1/3 were told that everybody got the same message no matter what (insincere). 1/3 got no such praise in the popup box, just "continue to the next entry."
    When they were done with the game, they filled out a survey about the experience.

    The results were astounding. There was no difference between the people that were told the computer was sincere and those who were told it was insincere.
    Everyone that got praise felt better about themselves, were in a better mood, rated the experience higher, liked the computer more, and thought the computer performed better.
    The people that got the standard "continue to the next entry" box rated all these things much lower.

    What does that mean for us, as strippers?

    It shows that even though guys know we may not be being completely sincere, and may even say so! the praise/flattery still works just as good.

    So when you are hustling your customer, compliment him! This technique will likely work better if you are commenting on something ABOUT him, and not necessarily ON him.
    For instance, telling him you think he has great taste will work better than telling him you like his shirt.

    Things you can praise:
    *His intelligence
    *His attitude
    *His taste
    *His looks
    I'm sure you can think of more!

    So remember, even when he says, "oh, you're just saying that..." don't worry! It worked anyway!

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    It's funny guys will always ask me if I find them attractive. They act all giggly when you tell them they are cute and shit like that. It doesn't work on all of them but some of them like their ego stroked like OP stated.

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    Default Re: Another Quick Hustle Tip- Praise!

    One I like to use is "You smell good!" when I'm starting the dance.

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    Default Re: Another Quick Hustle Tip- Praise!

    His sense of humor.
    His involvement in X (marathons, charity, etc.).

    Quote Originally Posted by austinatalie View Post
    It shows that even though guys know we may not be being completely sincere, and may even say so! the praise/flattery still works just as good.
    ^^Good reminder! Even being sincere, people sometimes brush it off b/c they don't know how to take a compliment. But like you said, they still appreciate it .

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    Yep, makes sense. The ego is probably the most important thing to a man and much of their actions are based on it. That's why it's always a good idea to make them feel like king of the jungle no matter how big of a fucking loser they are.

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    Quote Originally Posted by NewMoon View Post
    One I like to use is "You smell good!" when I'm starting the dance.
    HAHA! I do this!! This is often a last resort. "You're ugly, can't make conversation, and don't seem intelligent...but...YOU SMELL GOOD!"

    This seems to work especially well with guys who aren't even wearing cologne.
    Me: "Wow...you smell really good! What are you wearing?"
    Him: "Uh...nothing/deodorant"
    Me: "Oh I get it...you just naturally smell good..."

    This sounds stupid, but it's a no-fail comment: even if he isn't wearing anything, it gives you something to say, and it's complimentary.

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    I tell then that i'm studying to become an image consultant, then tell them what items of clothing that i like on them.

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