A customer who has come to two of my clubs for quite a while has been VERY keen on taking me out and compensating me for my time (he asked me how much I would need/how much I expect to make in a night of work and would match it). He has always been generous with dances and tips, the staff all like him, and a girl at my last club did speak to him on the phone (he likes that a lot, apparently) and told me he was okay.
So, here's the thing: he's SUPER into submission and male slavery, worshipping "the goddess", being told he would make a good wife, etc, to the point that he actually lives that lifestyle when in relationships (he is single now). He likes women in control, and asks lots of leading questions during the dance "what would you want me to do if I were your wife?" and especially "what do you want to know about me?".. he asks that one A LOT. His thing is for me to ask personal questions so I can control him.. he even gives me his business card nearly every time he comes to the club because he likes that I could call and destroy his job/standing in the community. It's definitely a power trip.![]()
The problem is that I'm always baffled as to what to ask him that he'd really like. I ask private sexual questions during the dances, but I don't want to really do that in a nice restaurant. I'd love any advice on dealing with submissive guys in a setting like this (obviously I'm going to order first).
And how long should a dinner like this last? Obviously not as long as a shift. My boyfriend said "that's good money for 3 or 4 hours" and I said "it won't last that long".. this guy uses a lot of mental energy and I expect to be exhausted at the end.
Any help is HUGELY appreciated.



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