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    Paid dinner with a submissive - advice?

    A customer who has come to two of my clubs for quite a while has been VERY keen on taking me out and compensating me for my time (he asked me how much I would need/how much I expect to make in a night of work and would match it). He has always been generous with dances and tips, the staff all like him, and a girl at my last club did speak to him on the phone (he likes that a lot, apparently) and told me he was okay.

    So, here's the thing: he's SUPER into submission and male slavery, worshipping "the goddess", being told he would make a good wife, etc, to the point that he actually lives that lifestyle when in relationships (he is single now). He likes women in control, and asks lots of leading questions during the dance "what would you want me to do if I were your wife?" and especially "what do you want to know about me?".. he asks that one A LOT. His thing is for me to ask personal questions so I can control him.. he even gives me his business card nearly every time he comes to the club because he likes that I could call and destroy his job/standing in the community. It's definitely a power trip.

    The problem is that I'm always baffled as to what to ask him that he'd really like. I ask private sexual questions during the dances, but I don't want to really do that in a nice restaurant. I'd love any advice on dealing with submissive guys in a setting like this (obviously I'm going to order first).

    And how long should a dinner like this last? Obviously not as long as a shift. My boyfriend said "that's good money for 3 or 4 hours" and I said "it won't last that long".. this guy uses a lot of mental energy and I expect to be exhausted at the end.

    Any help is HUGELY appreciated.

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    Default Re: Paid dinner with a submissive - advice?

    It depends on the guy, honestly.

    Maybe have him show up with panties underneath his clothes. If he has access to a polaroid have him snap a pic and put it in an envelope with your tribute. Instruct him to address you as Goddess if you feel comfy.

    Most guys who want you to ask about them want to feel almost blackmailed, or else they are into financial domination. I have a feeling it's the former. If you think it's right for your guy, ask where his wife works. Ask his ssn. Ask where he lives. Stuff like that. If it's financial dom he wants ask for his bank acc. #, stuff like that.

    You order first. Maybe order for him. If he was your wife questions - talk about making him paint your toes. Worship your feet/ass/hair whatever. Making him wash your hair. Handwash your panties. Etc.

    If you need more help PM me, I'm one of those people who, as you say, "live the lifestyle" and don't mind helping you a bit.

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    Default Re: Paid dinner with a submissive - advice?

    That's great stuff. Thanks! I'll definitely PM you when I feel stuck.

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