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    So I have all of these "plans" for my body, as do most women. And I have an interesting taste in clothes and shoes (I think I was meant to be a stripper lol). I've heard some people here say that what the ladies think is beautiful and sexy is sometimes completely different than what the men think. So, any tips of what men really like to see on a strippers body, clothing, make-up, etc? I know that most of this is probably just personal preference, but I'm really interested in getting to the bottom of this. I want to market myself to men, not what I think men want to see. And of course different types of men might go for something different, so lets stick to the tips that make the men with the money drool! hehehe

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    The men with the money like personality and class with a tinge of 'dirty ho'. Gotta have that 'I can afford to not be here but am here because I'm nauuuuughty' appeal.


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    Um... I may not be the best to ask, however I believe that String Implants and liquid metal costumes would do something for you.

    (It does seemed to have helped Chelsea Charms.)

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    look expensive but still be approachable in your personality. As in, be pricey and classy but friendly and open in your personality-smile, make eye contact. And don't do your makeup too heavy either otherwise you'll look like a ghoul on stage lol I've seen it and it looks horrible. Use bronzer to make sure you're not washed out and avoid the walking dead look.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Wholeman View Post
    Um... I may not be the best to ask, however I believe that String Implants and liquid metal costumes would do something for you.

    (It does seemed to have helped Chelsea Charms.)
    I had never heard of string implants until you mentioned this. So I looked it up on the web and hooolllly shit lol. For one thing, apparently they are illegal in the US now. And I don't think my skin would be able to handle something like that. I scar so easily I'm sure they'd give me bad stretchmarks eventually. I mean, I've seen these types of boobs in porn before, but I wasn't aware of the difference in implant. Learn something new everyday hardyharhar! And men really like those? I don't think I live in a big enough city to appeal to that kind of man lol. Errr who knows, maybe I'm missing out? That's ok though, I'll keep my flabby implantless boobs for now. I do want to eventually get a BA, but I'm not entirely sure when that will be

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    ^ Melonie on this site has those implants.


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    If you want to get a general idea of what appeals to (most) men, read mainstream men's magazines, and socially acceptable soft core porn (playboy).

    Maxim, FHM, that kind of stuff.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Samba View Post
    If you want to get a general idea of what appeals to (most) men, read mainstream men's magazines, and socially acceptable soft core porn (playboy).

    Maxim, FHM, that kind of stuff.
    Oh hey thanks for the idea! I swear I don't know why I don't think of these things. My brain = poo

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    Whatever you do, don't listen to those women's magazines!

    I've seen a few of them and the writers must be insane.

    The deep thoughts and motivations they attribute to most men are goofy.

    KISS, keep it simple silly.

    Throw away subtle.

    So many women miss out by not knowing how to simply say, "I'm horny".
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    Women's magazines are a load of crap!! They tell you to be thin and how to vomit your next meal and how to get the man who hates you to like you and stupid shit.

    Ever read a men's mag? The women are curvy and have hips and waists and...not STICKS.

    Ughmfegsldfsmd... if you actually look at the mags you can plainly see that WOMEN think MEN like sticks and MEN like bodies with badonkadonk.


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    Yeah those women's mags are seriously fucked up. I'm sure my IQ is lower for having looked at some.

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    There is no one thing men like, they are a very diverse bunch of people. Bit surprised at what Im reading here.
    Your best bet is to read husstle hut. >decides to stop here.<

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    Quote Originally Posted by Wholeman View Post
    Um... I may not be the best to ask, however I believe that String Implants and liquid metal costumes would do something for you.

    (It does seemed to have helped Chelsea Charms.)
    Ok... I'm gonna say it before it goes any further. STOP STOP STOP projecting your OWN boob-obsession onto the girls here. She asked what men like, but specifically mentioned clothes and shoes. She didn't SAY she had any plans for plastic surgery. As a man posting in this thread, not only should you have watched it progress before you threw in your plastic surgery preferences (if it was being discussed, only THEN would it have been appropriate for you to step in and say this), but keep your PERSONAL fetishes out of 'everyone's' taste.

    You seem to love ginormous boobs. Fine. Not all men do. Not all guys even like fake boobs. If you post something like that, do NOT pretend to represent the tastes of all men... yours is a VERY specific fetish that most women will never, ever do/get/attain/want.

    Electrum... there are some threads in Customer Conversation and on the Blue side under Dancer's Discussion that have lots of various males participating... you will get a much broader perspective by searching there, as well as looking at Hustle Hut.

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    #1 You assume String Implants have to be gynormous.

    Melonie Charms, although large, is not on the same level as Chelsea.

    You said nothing about the second suggestion. Your issues are also evident.

    Now in reference to the money making thing, how much does Melonie make versus a house dancer?

    I mentioned Chelsea Charms due to an interview where she stated her decision to get them was "strictly a business decision "

    I realize you know what males want more than I. I answered with what I understood her indicated desires were. The last one being separating money from men. Last I heard, Chelsea will dance for you for a bit over $3,000.00 if she has no one else signed up in your area, and $600.00/hour if she has other engagements in your area.

    Her prices were removed from the website a few months back so I am sure they have gone up.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Wholeman View Post
    #1 You assume String Implants have to be gynormous.

    Melonie Charms, although large, is not on the same level as Chelsea.

    You said nothing about the second suggestion. Your issues are also evident.

    Now in reference to the money making thing, how much does Melonie make versus a house dancer?

    I mentioned Chelsea Charms due to an interview where she stated her decision to get them was "strictly a business decision "

    I realize you know what males want more than I. I answered with what I understood her indicated desires were. The last one being separating money from men. Last I heard, Chelsea will dance for you for a bit over $3,000.00 if she has no one else signed up in your area, and $600.00/hour if she has other engagements in your area.

    Her prices were removed from the website a few months back so I am sure they have gone up.
    Once again the person who created the thread asked about clothing and makeup, not plastic surgery.
    String implants are illegal now anyhow so the whole things moot.



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    Quote Originally Posted by Wholeman View Post
    #1 You assume String Implants have to be gynormous.

    Melonie Charms, although large, is not on the same level as Chelsea.

    You said nothing about the second suggestion. Your issues are also evident.

    Now in reference to the money making thing, how much does Melonie make versus a house dancer?

    I mentioned Chelsea Charms due to an interview where she stated her decision to get them was "strictly a business decision "

    I realize you know what males want more than I. I answered with what I understood her indicated desires were. The last one being separating money from men. Last I heard, Chelsea will dance for you for a bit over $3,000.00 if she has no one else signed up in your area, and $600.00/hour if she has other engagements in your area.

    Her prices were removed from the website a few months back so I am sure they have gone up.
    They don't have to be ginormous... an M or even JJJ will do.


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    omg. Right after being told that this is not a thread about plastic surgery or giant-boob fetishes, what do you do? Post ANOTHER inane post babbling about your favorite fetish porn stars and "but...but...I'm just trying to help; you can make $3k if you get giant fake boobs!"

    Quit mucking up completely unrelated threads with off-topic shit. The OP a) is wanting suggestions for clothing/makeup, NOT plastic surgery, and b) is asking about what will have appeal for the greatest percentage of customers. Clearly your fetish isn't a mass-appeal thing and you have nothing useful to add. So shut up.

    And they wonder why some of us want non-industry males banned.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Wholeman View Post
    Your issues are also evident.
    My issues??? hahhahahahahahahaaa Go read the eating disorders thread and THEn tell me what my issues are, troll. They aren't my boobs.

    Look, I doubt this girl want to look like Melonie, much less Chelsea... and I have no idea why you'd bring up women with ENORmous breasts when the OP isn't even sure if she wants plastic surgery.

    As to me 'not mentioning #2,' per your suggestions; I could give a crap less about what you tell women to WEAR when you're ALSO telling them to go under the knife 'as a business decision.' It's a decision you're stuck with that has the potential to go very wrong, is potentially dangerous, and, in the sizes YOU are suggesting, will actually alienate most of your potential customer base. accccccckkkk *snorts out smoke trails*

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    Well, let us apply your logic and analysis method to the suggestion you made.

    You gave an idea where to research, however the question was not "where do I research this information, it was for direct answers.

    As for calling other people names, I believe that you have stooped far enough in that direction.

    It is interesting that no one has actually been considerate enough to answer Electrum's question, but would rather go on a rant.

    I apologize Electrum for having offered anything that took your meaningful thread so far from what you asked.

    Please note my initial disclaimer.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Wholeman View Post
    It is interesting that no one has actually been considerate enough to answer Electrum's question, but would rather go on a rant.
    not many guys look in BB, Wholeman. They DO look in CC and in DD on the Blue side... this question has been asked a few times there, and she'd do better getting answers in threads where the question has already been discussed than here where few will see it other than those looking for boob-related discussions. So yeah, i think i DID answer her question. You want specific threads?? Fine: here ya go. Now, do NOT tell me I didn't answer OP.









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    So I have all of these "plans" for my body, as do most women. And I have an interesting taste in clothes and shoes (I think I was meant to be a stripper lol). I've heard some people here say that what the ladies think is beautiful and sexy is sometimes completely different than what the men think. So, any tips of what men really like to see on a strippers body, clothing, make-up, etc? I know that most of this is probably just personal preference, but I'm really interested in getting to the bottom of this. I want to market myself to men, not what I think men want to see. And of course different types of men might go for something different, so lets stick to the tips that make the men with the money drool! hehehe
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    Most clubs have a kind of trend that you will prob end up doing yourself. Sure each girl will wear somethng different but u can get ideas from the other girls.

    Also, wearing what is flattering on YOUR body is most important as it's your body u r promoting.

    ETA: what size are Chelsea Charms boobs?
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    Hi Electrum,

    I'll try to give an honest answer here. In another thread today I've seen a dancer complaining, with good reason, about a young guy who was trying to grope her as she was giving him a lapdance. There is a certain kind of guy who responds this way--as if there is not a person in front of him--just does anything he feels like doing. Such a guy is a pretty simple and vulgar character--doesn't give a damn about anyone, probably. While I understand the pull toward a woman--the gravity a beautiful woman has on all men--I've never understood men who cross this line, and I know there are many of them.

    But the other men, the ones I assume you want to attract, are more complicated creatures than our groper. I think that, all the world over, men now live in a kind of schizophrenic river--they want to live with respect and dignity, and they want a woman who offers that respect and dignity to them, a woman who adores them--but they simultaneously want a woman who acknowledges what society sees as the "darkness" in them--their sexual drive, the things they fantasize about. There are men who go through whole lifetimes without acknowledging what they want, sexually, knowing that if they DO say anything about their desires, the women they have built relationships with in the normal flow of their lives will ostracize them. So what is really, deeply attractive to men is a look--an unblinking suggestion with a look of the eyes that you KNOW what they need, you are there with them. It is a look of steady confidence and desire, delivered through the prism of whatever your personality is; a man will follow a woman like this, who welcomes his core.

    I think this "look" is far more important than anything physical, frankly. When a woman has that kind of confidence you begin seeing her physical attributes as incidental and unique. You don't think about breast size or makeup or legs or weight, you think about how that woman looked with genuine interest at you and THROUGH you, you think about how electrifying it is to have her close to you, to hear her breathing, to see her look over a shoulder at you, to have that overall beautiful female Otherness close to you. I don't know if I'm explaining this well. But it seems to me that THIS is was men go to clubs for--the women they consort with outside of the club can wear different makeup, clothes, change parts of their body surgically--but men are looking, deep down, for an acceptance of a "darker" part of their spirit which society refuses to accept.

    I'd be interested to see if other men and women agree with this--and perhaps "the look" only works when there is genuine sexual interest--I don't know. But I wanted to answer this as completely as I could at least from my perspective.
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    Also, wearing what is flattering on YOUR body is most important as it's your body u r promoting.
    Agreed.

    Using other strippers for ideas only goes so far, in that you need to be able to carry and sell yourself with whatever theme you choose for clothing or make-up. It's kind of sad when you see a stripper in an outfit or style that clearly doesn't work for her.
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    I think that, all the world over, men now live in a kind of schizophrenic river--they want to live with respect and dignity, and they want a woman who offers that respect and dignity to them, a woman who adores them--but they simultaneously want a woman who acknowledges what society sees as the "darkness" in them--their sexual drive, the things they fantasize about. There are men who go through whole lifetimes without acknowledging what they want, sexually, knowing that if they DO say anything about their desires, the women they have built relationships with in the normal flow of their lives will ostracize them. So what is really, deeply attractive to men is a look--an unblinking suggestion with a look of the eyes that you KNOW what they need, you are there with them. It is a look of steady confidence and desire, delivered through the prism of whatever your personality is; a man will follow a woman like this, who welcomes his core.
    I would agree in large part with this theory, since it pertains to sex industry workers more broadly, though discussion of this tends to go better down in Blue than here in Pink.
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