I have always said that extra girls don't really effect me, that they take th shitty customers away and leave the good ones for me so I don't mind. I never thought extra's girls affect my income. I have also said I never witnessed any extra's happen, really. Maybe I never paid attention.
Tonight at work I had 4 VIP's and all 4 of them tried continuously to touch my breasts and vagina and asked me to go hoem with them for free. One guy that kept grabbing my crotch and saying "oops! my hand slipped!" I said dude, if you were on a fuckign date and touched her, she would press charges on you. It's fucking assult. What makes you think it's ok to do it to me? I told you to stop. He said well, the girl last ngiht let me. Why won't you?
The problem was, I hadn't gotten paid yet. That's a whole other issue though. He was paying with his credit card and they hadn;'t come yet to get it. So if I left, I wouldnt have gotten paid and I deserved my money for putting up with him. I didnt want to walk out. I was pissed though, cause I ended up spending double the time back there waiting on my money. Then he refused to tip me, even though he got double time and upset me by trying to touch me so much.
Then I had 3 other VIP rooms and all the same shit happened. They kept touching me. One guy asked what the boundaries were and I said you can only not touch 2 places. I hought that was understood to be my breasts and crotch. Well, we start dancing and he immediatly goes for my nipples. I said dude, that's one of he places you cant touch. He said oh, I thought you meant I couldnt touch your holes. He thought thats what I meant by 2 places off limits. I didnt realize that I needed to specify that my asshole was offlimits. I thoguth that was a given. Then he refused to extend VIP unless I called him when I got off to go to his hotel.
They were a bachelor party, and the bachelor had a girl they were laying down on a couch, she was laying on to pof him ith her back against him, legs spread open, thong pulled to the side and th bachelor was fingering her. out in the open.
It happened to me over and ovr, guys trying to touch me and ask me home. I finally just walked out early crying. I have been dancing for 5 years and never had to let people touch me to make money. I have never dealt with this kind of crap before. Of course, I hve guys sometimes try, but I can always handle it, and it never happened that often, now suddenly it's every single guy. Do I have a whore magnet on my ass? Why are girls acting this way and making it so hard for clean dancers? Dont they know it's not nesessary to act that way to make money? And why do guys suddenly think all strippers are whores that will put out for a $20?
I dont wanna go back. I can deal with it to an extend, btu I cannot have every single guy try to touch me all night every night. i cant handle that. it's to much. I feel so violated. I never had someone actually touch my vagina before. Why do they think it's ok to touch a girl without asking? Just cause im a stripper? Wheres respect?
Is this the norm now? How do I deal with it to kkeep dancing and make money and be happy and sane? Just walk out of he VIP's and lose money? My boyfriend says the good guys are still out there, i just have to work harder to find them. But if that means putting up with 10 guys before that that try to violate me..it aint worth it. No money is worth it to me.
Am I a prude for not allowing any touching in VIP? I give good contact dances, but I do not allow any booby touching. Im not comfortable with that. they are allowed to touch my butt cheeks, and I do grind lightly, and my dances are damn good. ive always gone off sensual over sexual and it works well in the past. But now all they want is a grind and grab. No sensuality at all.
help. Im so upset over this.


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