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    Default Why do the bad things keep happening??

    I'm coming from a little hole in the wall where the MOST i made was $80. The mgmnt doesnt even know my real name, and the girls stole my money last Tuesday b/c i was the only one who made anything... So i have been trying to get my nerve up to go to this really nice club that has champagne rooms, & a business-man clientele. So Thursday, i auditioned, filled out a ton of paperwork and was told to start Friday.
    I came to work, and the backdoor that dancers are supposed to go in was locked, so i was trying to put my suitcase back in my car when this man approached me..for some reason he really freaked me out..i froze up and rushed into the car.. in the meantime i dropped my tip out (you have to pay up front, and i only had tip out PLUS ONE DOLLAR to my name) so i couldn't work. I went home in tears and cried all nite. My car pymnt was due yesterday, and i have never felt like such a LOSER. Why is it happening like this to me? Is it just bc i'm so nervous? NOTHING EVER SCARES ME and i am so mad at myself for letting that man scare me! Now i feel like i'm starting over again!

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    Default Re: Why do the bad things keep happening??

    Take heart. it does get better if you try.
    borrow some money from someone for your tip out, go to work, smile and hustle.
    Pay back the money at the end of the shift.
    And next time keep your money in your purse or pocket until you get inside.

    Call your car lein holder, sometimes they can rearrange when the note is due if you explain to them that you have other exspense due right then. Usually they will only do it twice for you.

    now that you have cried it out, time to get back to work and get the "loser" thoughts out of your head. you are only a loser if you quit.
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    Default Re: Why do the bad things keep happening??

    Quote Originally Posted by winterrose View Post
    ...you are only a loser if you quit.
    Word.

    All the amazing stories of people overcoming adversity come after they had been dealt some crappy cards. Anything is possible, seriously. And lucky for you, you're in an industry where the sky is the limit for money if you really put your mind to it. You may work in a down-trodden club that isn't exactly classy or whatever, but that doesn't mean you can't slip into your stillettos and walk out with all your bills paid in less than a week. Just don't give up. Whatever you do.

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    Default Re: Why do the bad things keep happening??

    Guys you're right. And maybe i already knew that i shouldnt quit..it just helps to hear it from someone else I just really hope it works out.. i have been SO depressed lately, like i don't want to get out of bed until at least 2pm. I don't work out anymore, and i'm TIRED..like EXHAUSTED all day every day.. and the past few days, i'm starting to forget little chunks of time here and there..it's really scary But i think the best advice IS " borrow some money from someone for your tip out, go to work, smile and hustle."

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    exactly! Remember that the club is filled with normal people, not monsters. you have nothing to worry about..The hardest part is always just getting up the nerve to go in. Good luck sexy! you will do great.

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    Aw babe. I know how you feel and I am sure there are plenty of us out there and here on SW that can relate.

    One of my good friends and I were talking on the phone the other day, and he said to me "Damn girl, if it wasn't for bad luck, you wouldn't have any luck at all!!" It made me laugh cause it is almost comical how true it is.
    I told him that I never am shocked by anything anymore, that everyday I wake up and ask myself "what next?" It's to the point with me now that when yet another fucked up thing happens, I can't even get mad anymore. I just kinda smile and throw my hands in the air.

    But, we just keep perservering, keep going to work, and keep making it happen. Somehow, someway. Amazing huh?

    As far as the being tired and not getting out of bed until 2 in the afternoon, I'm right there with ya. It seems I can never get enough sleep. I also have days where I don't want to get out of bed cause I think "what's the point?...not like I can go anywhere or do anything. I have no car and no money. Might as well slip back into super vampire coffin hyper sleep"

    Things will work themselves out, you just gotta keep telling yourself that.
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    Default Re: Why do the bad things keep happening??

    It WILL get better. My suggestion is pretty much what everyone else said. Take the day and spend it doing what makes you feel good, borrow the house fee, then go back in with a fresh perspective and knock 'em dead.
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