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    I usually ask "you getting any dances tonight?" or "would you like a few dances?" when trying to sell a dance, but this gets me a lot of "maybe laters"
    I hear a lot of girls here ask if the guy wants to have some "fun" but i am afraid to use this since i feel it will give guys the wrong idea (that i do extras" and make me sound slutty. Has anyone ever had a guy turn her down because they used the "wanna have some fun" phrase? I am probably wrong about this but it feels like this would repel the classier guys and give other guys the wrong idea.

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    Default Re: "let's have some fun"?

    Look at the use of "fun" in these links. And your questions are yes/no ones, which is why you're getting turned down consistently.


    http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sho...7&postcount=40
    http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sho...0&postcount=46
    http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sho...2&postcount=58
    http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sho...9&postcount=64


    Think about it... Who would say NO to having some fun??? Fun isn't defined as any one thing specifically.

    Love it!

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    Not would you!

    CMON LET'S GO HAVE FUN! BUG CHEESY GRIN AND... REPEAT.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Lysondra View Post
    Not would you!

    CMON LET'S GO HAVE FUN! BUG CHEESY GRIN AND... REPEAT.
    and nod
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    Default Re: "let's have some fun"?

    I always thought nodding looked silly. But if it works for you!

    I just do a cheeky... but OMG IT'S SO FUN! I'M SUCH A FREAKING MINX WHEN I DANCE WOOO CMON!


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    Ah... yes... Ill hop on someones lap and say "I wanna play with you!"

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    Quote Originally Posted by msonyxorb View Post
    I usually ask "you getting any dances tonight?" or "would you like a few dances?" when trying to sell a dance, but this gets me a lot of "maybe laters"
    I hear a lot of girls here ask if the guy wants to have some "fun" but i am afraid to use this since i feel it will give guys the wrong idea (that i do extras" and make me sound slutty. Has anyone ever had a guy turn her down because they used the "wanna have some fun" phrase? I am probably wrong about this but it feels like this would repel the classier guys and give other guys the wrong idea.
    I generally stick with the following:

    "Would you like a dance?"
    "You're ready for a dance now, aren't you?"

    I don't want to confuse any customer who may not understand what he's purchasing (or that he's purchasing anything at all).

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    Default Re: "let's have some fun"?

    Also start standing up like you are getting up to dance and they will be less likely to procrastinate.

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    Quote Originally Posted by BohemianSiren View Post
    I generally stick with the following:

    "Would you like a dance?"
    "You're ready for a dance now, aren't you?"

    I don't want to confuse any customer who may not understand what he's purchasing (or that he's purchasing anything at all).
    that is what i am afraid of, that they might think im an extras girl ready to give em a "good time"

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    ^^^ yet to have that happen with $20 dances. with lounges i dont do the "fun" or "play" line because they may expect more for $550 an hour.

    "Lets dance" I like because it implies that were already gonna dance... rather than asking where they have an option to say yes or no...

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    Default Re: "let's have some fun"?

    Does telling a guy what they're going to do work often? (Ex. "Let's dance") Any negative responses?

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    I never have really had a negative response to anything I say. But that's usually because it's fun and cheerful and happy. Main key. Be smiling and cheery about it. You can't say it coldly.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Lysondra View Post
    You can't say it coldly.
    For some reason I just pictured Lunchlady Doris from The Simpsons asking for a lap dance with a cigarette hanging out of her mouth.

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    Quote Originally Posted by TheTempest View Post
    For some reason I just pictured Lunchlady Doris from The Simpsons asking for a lap dance with a cigarette hanging out of her mouth.
    I'd drop a 20$ on that.

    I usually say, "Can I give you some dances now?" When I started using this line instead of, "Would you like a dance?" I noticed a higher rate of acceptance. Of course I have gotten a few guys who go, "Hur hur, sure you can give me a free dance." but not as many as I expected. I am just not comfortable telling people I am going to give them a dance and I think it shows when I try to because I don't sound convincing.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lysondra View Post
    I just do a cheeky... but OMG IT'S SO FUN! I'M SUCH A FREAKING MINX WHEN I DANCE WOOO CMON!
    I'm so going to use this line the next night I work. Thanks, Lysondra!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lysondra View Post
    I never have really had a negative response to anything I say. But that's usually because it's fun and cheerful and happy. Main key. Be smiling and cheery about it. You can't say it coldly.
    Yup. I can say ANYTHING as long as its lighthearted and said with a smile. I joke and laugh a LOT. Guys always say "You seem to really love your job!"

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    Quote Originally Posted by msonyxorb View Post
    I usually ask "you getting any dances tonight?" or "would you like a few dances?" when trying to sell a dance, but this gets me a lot of "maybe laters"
    I hear a lot of girls here ask if the guy wants to have some "fun" but i am afraid to use this since i feel it will give guys the wrong idea (that i do extras" and make me sound slutty. Has anyone ever had a guy turn her down because they used the "wanna have some fun" phrase? I am probably wrong about this but it feels like this would repel the classier guys and give other guys the wrong idea.
    I don't think anybody goes to a strip club to meet girls that play "hard to get".....
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    ^^^ Yes, its a young guy, bachelor party, group tactic. I NEVER do this with older men or anyone Im trying to sell VIP/lounges/champagnes to.

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    Quote Originally Posted by AudreyLeigh View Post
    ^^^ Yes, its a young guy, bachelor party, group tactic. I NEVER do this with older men or anyone Im trying to sell VIP/lounges/champagnes to.
    so what phrasing do you use on them?
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    Default Re: "let's have some fun"?

    a lot of the times i've used, "let's go have some fun". They said, "but I'm already having fun".

    I don't use it anymore or I use the variation of, "let's go have some real fun"

    Either way i only use the short one liners when the club's packed.

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    Quote Originally Posted by saphire123456 View Post
    so what phrasing do you use on them?
    The older men - I tend to sit and talk for about 5 minutes before saying "We should go in the back where its more intimate"

    And its not always young vs. old. Its more of a maturity level, how theyre sitting/acting, etc. Guys sitting at the bar are the easiest to get into the lounge. I play that a lot like were at a normal bar. Walk up - sit, glance over, look back at stage. Guy asks if i want a drink - start convo - sell lounge. Last time I did this the guys tab was just under $3,000 when all was said and done...

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    Quote Originally Posted by dangerousdiva View Post
    a lot of the times i've used, "let's go have some fun". They said, "but I'm already having fun".

    I don't use it anymore or I use the variation of, "let's go have some real fun"

    Either way i only use the short one liners when the club's packed.
    In the same vein, I'll say seductively, "there's nothing that exciting going on out here anyway..., let's go play in the back." This works well for me for two reasons; the idea that a strip club with loud music and naked girls isn't what I'm thinking of as "that exciting" so I must know something, and the line about "playing in back" always is appropriately titillating (we do our lap dances in the back of the club). Of course I don't say all that if they are part of a rockous group, or the club is, in fact, exciting.
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    Quote Originally Posted by AudreyLeigh View Post
    ^^^ Yes, its a young guy, bachelor party, group tactic. I NEVER do this with older men or anyone Im trying to sell VIP/lounges/champagnes to.
    good to know. that is what i figured, the older guys might be turned off by it. one girl tells me that she sells champagne rooms by asking the guys during a lapdance "are you ready for some more fun?" the guys she brings into the champagne room are OLDDD too! so wtf???! uck what can i use to sell a vip or champagne room to older men that wont backfire on me?

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    "Are you ready to go have some fun now?" is my #1 all time best line.

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