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    Ladies, have you done/would you ever do this? Known any? Men, stories?

    Where does one find a man-for-hire? You hear all kinds of stories about personal trainers/masseurs/etc, but how would you actually go about locating one?

    I'm not in the market to pay a guy for sex myself, but I've sort of become obsessed with the principle that paid sex should be safely available to women too... and I'm having a hard time digging up information about it.

    Anyone know anything?
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    It only vaguely appeals to me; even if he were a good fuck, I wouldn't be aroused because I'd feel too in-control of him, and that's not my flavor. The only advantage to me would be the relative ease of "picking him up," since I get shy when it comes to trying to find men for sex in person.

    That said, I agree that everyone should have the opportunity to pay for safe, discreet sex.


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    Damn, I think Jenny had a thread about this somewhere.

    Here it is!

    Sadly, no real-life stories. I don't have any either. Though I too have toyed with the thought.

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    Any woman who isn't severely disfigured can get a man to fuck her for free. We just don't need to pay for it. I think gigolos are there more for the companionship aspect and the sex is just a bonus (my opinion, nothing more).

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    Quote Originally Posted by Yekhefah View Post
    Any woman who isn't severely disfigured can get a man to fuck her for free. We just don't need to pay for it. I think gigolos are there more for the companionship aspect and the sex is just a bonus (my opinion, nothing more).
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    I'm betting that when this goes on for real, it's done super discreetly, probably called something other than "prostitution," and relies almost entirely on word of mouth for success...

    Say you're Mrs. Brown and Mrs. Smith down the street told you after a few margaritas that she knows the most amazing masseur who comes right to your door and does... everything. Next time your husband is out of town, what are you going to do, troll a bar for a random fuck, or call up Mrs. Smith's masseur? I know what I would do, and I'm not even married.
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    There are men on escorting sites, but I always assumed that they were for other men... The thought of paying for sex is comical to me... maybe when I'm 80.

    I WOULD pay a man to do some manual labor around the house, though. I'm planning on moving soon and I'm rallying together all the men that I can. Pizza, beer, and my everlasting gratitude is usually enough, though. Men are easy.
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    Women pay for great sex all the time--that's why they invented a viberator.

    However if a woman is looking for sex with a man

    Just find a (any) guy who you would like to have sex with (that isn't gay-taken and even then sometimes) and throw a nickel at him and tell him you wanna fuck it should work..

    I however am a lesbian and have been on the side of the deal where girls who I would sex anyways offered me perks (suga momma that wanted to take care of me becuz they could and so on/they wanted to feel like they owned me or I owed them or wanted something on thier terms ect) however I only thought of paying a woman once and only becuz I figured it would save me time, money, and hand anches in the long run--however I get NSA sex all the time for free soo there really isn't a need in my case.
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    I can see paying a man for other personal services such as body massage or for a romantic gesture type experience since men are so often slacking in those areas. But for sex ???? I just don't see it.

    Why would anyone pay for something that they could have anytime anywhere and for the most part with anyone they wanted.

    (guys reading this please note that most women want a good rub down on a regular basis just like you want to receive head on a regular basis- so stop being stingy with the massages)
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    Quote Originally Posted by Yekhefah View Post
    Any woman who isn't severely disfigured can get a man to fuck her for free. We just don't need to pay for it. I think gigolos are there more for the companionship aspect and the sex is just a bonus (my opinion, nothing more).
    I agree.

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    Quote Originally Posted by LadyLuck View Post
    I can see paying a man for other personal services such as body massage or for a romantic gesture type experience since men are so often slacking in those areas. But for sex ???? I just don't see it.

    Why would anyone pay for something that they could have anytime anywhere and for the most part with anyone they wanted.

    (guys reading this please note that most women want a good rub down on a regular basis just like you want to receive head on a regular basis- so stop being stingy with the massages)
    SO TRUE.

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    Quote Originally Posted by red red red View Post
    I'm betting that when this goes on for real, it's done super discreetly, probably called something other than "prostitution," and relies almost entirely on word of mouth for success...

    Say you're Mrs. Brown and Mrs. Smith down the street told you after a few margaritas that she knows the most amazing masseur who comes right to your door and does... everything. Next time your husband is out of town, what are you going to do, troll a bar for a random fuck, or call up Mrs. Smith's masseur? I know what I would do, and I'm not even married.
    Exactly. I think that when women pay for sex, they are most likely paying for the discretion, and the hassle-free fun. Just like men.

    It's not necessarily that they couldn't get laid by hitting a bar somewhere, it's that they know it would be a stupendously bad idea to expose themselves to all the trouble that might ensue from such an action.

    With a male escort, the woman is in control of the encounter: She can request exactly what she wants, including the use of appropriate protection. I can see where this might appeal to a certain kind of woman.

    Also: I disagree that "any" woman can get laid, "anytime," barring terrible "disfigurement."

    Once a woman begins to look over-forty (or perhaps over 45 in this Age of The Cougar ), I'm sure the offers decline precipitously, along with her fertility and reproductive value. That's just the way it is. (Of course, I wouldn't know personally, since I still get carded buying alcohol and Adderall. )

    Similarly, women who are overweight, facially unattractive, and/or just..."not sexy" can have lots of trouble getting laid. Not everybody knows how to gussy herself up, flirt seductively, and pick up guys in bars. I think there are plenty of women in the world who could just never bring themselves to do such a thing. Just as there are women in the world who could never bring themselves to strip, God love 'em.

    Let's recall that women are by nature pretty choosy when it comes to sex partners. Just because an unattractive woman could pick up some drunken, desperate loser in a bar somewhere doesn't mean she'd have any desire to actually sleep with him. I can certainly see how she might rather pay $500 for a discreet hour with Ricardo, the ripped bisexual Columbian landscaper who will go down on her the entire time. Y'know?

    As for personal stories, I may have told this one before, but I'll do it again: I did know a boy in Alaska...He was a waiter at the Great Alaskan Bush Company. Very handsome, about 25 years old. He signed on with a male escort agency, making it clear that he was interested in serving female clients only (or so he told me).

    His first client, he said, was an enormous, middle-aged Eskimo woman. He couldn't go through with it. He escaped by climbing out the bathroom window of the motel.

    Also, red, have you read the book Chicken? I'm blanking on the name of the author, even though I've met him....Oh, Sterry! Dave Sterry. The book is supposedly a memoir of his years as a male escort serving a female clientele. It's fairly disturbing. I think, as with many "memoirs" of late, he may have taken some liberties with the truth. But you might find it an interesting read.
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    You should watch the movie Sonny which is directed by Nicholas Cage, is about a attractive man-whore ; it's really amazing.

    I know a man whore in real life...two of them actually. one is gay for pay, so he does not apply, but the other guy was doing it with older ladies....
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    I have an acquaintance who is 26, hung, and very good looking.

    A 42 year old woman did not exactly PAY him for sex, but she "loaned" him money, and paid his way on trips to Vegas, gave him money for gambling, paid his bar bill, bought him clothes, gave him presents, etc., etc.

    Then he got tired of fucking her, and started hanging out with a girl his own age.

    Guess what? She is now suing him for not paying back all the money she "loaned" him during their relationship, something like $7,000.

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    Actually there is a thriving industry of male prostitutes. Much of it goes on in the Carribean as well as west Africa (Gambia is a huge one). These places are pretty much the equivalent for Western women what Indonesia and Thailand are for Western men. Most of the women though who go to these places tend to be extremely unattractive and obese. Being there makes them feel like the "hot shit".

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    Quote Originally Posted by UtahMike View Post
    I have an acquaintance who is 26, hung, and very good looking.

    A 42 year old woman did not exactly PAY him for sex, but she "loaned" him money, and paid his way on trips to Vegas, gave him money for gambling, paid his bar bill, bought him clothes, gave him presents, etc., etc.

    Then he got tired of fucking her, and started hanging out with a girl his own age.

    Guess what? She is now suing him for not paying back all the money she "loaned" him during their relationship, something like $7,000.
    What a stupid bitch. She knew damn well that those were gifts and is just trying to get back at him. I doubt she'll see the money, and I dont think she deserves it.
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    ^^ Some men who are regular customers of dancers have done the same thing when they find out they will never be their girlfriend. The case has no merit, really. It'll get thrown out in court because they were gifts.

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    Why would you want to pay for it when you can basically go find a guy anywhere and get it for free? I mean, unless you're hideously ugly, most girls can get most guys to bang them.

    Odd thread...

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    It's definitely a hypothetical.

    I was thinking about aging and how when I am sixty I would like to buy a hot young stud to come over and mess around with me. Guys can do this with relative ease and safety. What are MY options (or my mom's... or my grandma's... or whoever's)?

    It would also be so cool to not have to worry about cleaning the house first, or putting on makeup, or shaving my bikini line, because guess what? It's his job!

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    I pay for sex all the time. Emotionally.

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    Does it count if you've had men offer "favors" for pay? That's happened to me. I had guys solicite me in bars while I was hanging out in Bangkok. Always for pay. As soon as I said no, they were out. Just a lot of boy-hos.

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    Also, red, have you read the book Chicken? I'm blanking on the name of the author, even though I've met him....Oh, Sterry! Dave Sterry. The book is supposedly a memoir of his years as a male escort serving a female clientele. It's fairly disturbing. I think, as with many "memoirs" of late, he may have taken some liberties with the truth. But you might find it an interesting read.
    I totally want to look for this book. Sounds fun.
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    If a woman went to a male prostitute for sex, and he came before her or something, and she had not yet come, how would he compensate? I dont think oral would always justify in this case.




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    ^^^

    Good question. I have a feeling that if you seriously fucked for a living you would generally be able to control yourself. Plus, also, having sex with somebody you don't want to have sex with isn't all the exciting. Trust me. I've sobered up right in the middle of some awful one night stands. Blech.
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    Quote Originally Posted by pookie View Post
    If a woman went to a male prostitute for sex, and he came before her or something, and she had not yet come, how would he compensate? I dont think oral would always justify in this case.
    Most women who are paying for sex are not really just paying for the big "O" (only 30% of women orgasm during sex anyway). Most of them are paying to feel appreciated by a guy and to feel like the "belle of the ball". Many of these women are also older and being with a younger man helps them to feel "young" and "desired" again.

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