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    SO just a few days ago I was thinking about posting about how well things are going despite a few crappy things. I was going to say that nursing school is difficult but im still aiming for my goal of graduating with honors. Anything less is unacceptable. Ive come a long way since when I first started posting here, and even further from where I was when I was prego with Azaia. Im far from where I used to be but far from where I want to be.
    So Ive been having car problems. If its not one thing its another.I cant trade it for a new one because I owe 5252.14 and its only worth at best $900. All the repairs are worth more than $2000. Im stuck with a piece of shit car.Today it overheated after school on my way to my drug test. (no i dont do drugs, the school requires it) So I had to have it towed and the estimate SO FAR is $300.Im really upset. I work way too damn hard to be driving this crap.Its ugly because the ex messed it up after I had him banned from my job.Oil leak.Bent rim.No gas cover.Stinky exhaust.Bad transmission.I deserve something better and Im so mad the dealer took advanatge of me and Im mad at myself for falling for it.
    So the $500 ive been holding onto for the past week for rent is down the drain. Im WAY too exhausted at work but I have no choice.Im down here alone. Not ONE family member to help.Daycare is 100/week. Night babysitter is 20/night. Family would be free. Not a luxury i get to enjoy.All of you with family, appreciate it. And I think my babysitter is upset with me because I let her watch my baby and she got sick from here but I didnt know my baby was sick, i thought she was teething. So she wont answer her phone.
    Im just tired of everything. I wish somebody with insurance would hit my car and total it. I wish things would just go right for me ONE time. Just for one day I want to feel what its like to be happy without stress. To not be touched by perverts to pay my rent.I hate dancing and I hate my club.
    And thats another issue. My club. Can they FORCE me to be there 5 nights a week and NOT pay me shit, and fine me if im sick,late,leave a little early if i got school at 6am.my club doesnt do ANYTHING for us.I feel like a slave there. We HAVE to work a Monday or Tuesday and Fridays are scheduled days now. So we only get two nights off. I hate that place. If ur sick and miss one night, u dont get to work the rest of the week. WTF they dont pay us we pay them!! The tip out for the DJ is $25/night even on nights when we make only $5. The bar tip out is $5 and they get more tips thatn us sometimes,and a paycheck and I DONT EVEN DRINK! and I brong my own water!! This is Pensacola. Im suing them if they fire me for any reason. And Ima make them require girls to get health forms because the nasty hookers they let walk in and work carry shit,and we all cut ourselves on the same spot on the stage.and all roll around in the same sweat. Im not getting TB from them whores. And Im NOT ALLOWED to study on slow nights.Aint that something? Go get on the floor and dance for eachother?? Im sorry but if I HAVE to be there 5 nights a week until 3am,and I have to pay you and I have to be up at 6am,Im gonna study.Im burning that place down when I graduate from school.
    Ok if you read this all....you dont even have to reply. I just had to get it out and know that SOMEBODY hears me. Thanks.
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    ^^

    I hear you and totally sympathize, but if I were you I would edit where you work and the other stuff....
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    Default Re: Why me? Bad week...

    That's really bad if you're working 5 nights a week and only have $500 spare when your babysitter is only $20 for a whole night.


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    There isn't any other club you can try?
    I sure as hell would work at a place that controlling without them paying me. Makes no sense....

    When do you get a break from nursing school?

    That sounds so stressful. I don't even know what to say about the car except for that I hope it magically gets it's shit together and starts driving you around like it's supposed to

    I hope things lighten up for you soon!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lysondra View Post
    That's really bad if you're working 5 nights a week and only have $500 spare when your babysitter is only $20 for a whole night.
    You dont know what my bills look like so....
    I made plenty of money this past week and paid off some bills and paid on tuition and grocery shopped. day care a week is 100 and nightcare a week is 100 living and working in pcola,im not ballin like you may be. since ive started nursing school i find myself studying==sneaking-- at work more than i actually work. I have to I cant fall below 75%. Ive been really good at handeling finances lately...but unexpected things come up.



    I get a break from school in June. 1 week I think. Again in December..3 weeks. Cant wait!
    Is anybody else's club as controlling as mine? I honestly feel like they dont give a damn about us.The other night I was literally throwing up in the trash.I wasnt allowed to leave at midnight.There were no customers.I had school in the AM. I would not complain at all if we had SOME rights...or got a paycheck, or free food, or tipout waived when we have NO,0,NADA,ZERO customers for 3 nights in a row. In a month EACH DANCER pays to the club $840.00 working 5 nights a week...I pay them more than my rent each month! And I cant even get a free bottle of water if i forget mine???
    And no there are no other clubs around here that I can work at.
    Do I have rights? Anybody know legal stuff?

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    About my club.. last night at work a few of the girls and myself were in the locker room, on the way out. Mr. T, the club owner was there as usual on weekends he'll pop by for a few minutes. He came in the locker room at the top of his lungs " look here do you guys like your jobs?? do you like your fucking jobs??" We all didnt really answer, one girl said "not all the time" Mr. T fired her right there! He said "I cant stand you fucking bitches you bitch and complain and give MY manager a hard time if you dont like it here go to another club!!" He told the girl she has 2 minutes to dress and go. Then he turned around to me and said "that goes for you to xiomara,if you dont like it here take your fucking ass to Babes" he went off a little more and left. 2 minutes later he came back in, Leslie was dressed, but gathering her stuff. He said "hit the road right fucking now" she said im getting my things he said "fuck you get the fuck out of my club now" and he went off some more. WTF??? Because we dont just love our jobs? Because we bitch and complain about it? So fucking what.They treat us like shit!Leslie is there 5 nights week as required,always ready at 9pm,comes in on nights off sometimes. He didnt need to do that. and NO JOB,ESPECIALLY IF YOU DONT PAY!! should be talking to employees like that!!
    what rights do i have as a stripper? none????

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    ^^wow what an asshole!

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    That is horrendous! My heart goes out to you
    Could you maybe try waitressing or bar tending for a while?
    Fuck that Mr. T dude, you are no ones slave.
    I'm just so sorry life is so hard
    I hope you get a break



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