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    Hey ladies, I have a question. Is this not "cut-throat" or what????
    I was dancing on stage last night during my stage set, and a gentleman (the only guy at the tip rail & the only guy tipping me!) who was sitting at the tip rail, was tipping me several $20s at a time. Another dancer saw that he was tipping me big, so she ran and sat on his lap, completely blocking his view to me. She tried to redirect his attention towards herself. As soon as she jumped in his lap (using her body as a shield to distract his eyes from the stage, and rubbing her boobs in his face) he quit tipping me. While this was going on, 2 other dancers sat at his table/tip rail with his friends. Now part of me wanted to call her out on the stage, but I just kept my composure and continued to dance. I didn't say anything to her about it because I know for sure management doesn't care about dancer etiquette. And I figured she just made herself look very desperate along with the other 2 dancers who tried to cut throat as well. I, myself, make it a point to NEVER approach customers who are sitting around the stage/tip-rail while a dancer is on stage. My question is...... Ladies, what do you think about the situation? Should I just do the same thing to her and the other dancers? I'm thinking about posting a bulletin of dancer etiquette in the dressing room, but I doubt most of the dancers will even read or take note of the bulletin. What would you do?

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    i don't think doing it to her would be a good idea... girls get dirty you don't need her slashing you tires or just fucking up your night night after night.... I can't really give you any other advice though since i'm not a dancer yet :\

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    That was a really shitty thing to do to you. After being tipped on stage, I may approach a customer to thank him but that's all. In a way, she stole money from you. I wouldn't really do anything about it, like revenge but I wouldn't go out of my way to show her proper etiquette either. If she's with a customer you know you can make money off of, go for it. She didn't show you respect and there is no reason why you owe her any in the future.

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    I would have thanked him after my stage set, maybe he didn't want her there, by stopping by he could have invited you to join him.

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    Default Re: Dancer Etiquette

    My question is...... Ladies, what do you think about the situation? Should I just do the same thing to her and the other dancers? I'm thinking about posting a bulletin of dancer etiquette in the dressing room, but I doubt most of the dancers will even read or take note of the bulletin. What would you do?
    Well I don't think there is anything wrong with approaching customers when they are seated at the tip rail unless there is a rule stating otherwise at the club. If there is only ONE customer seated at the tip rail when a dancer is performing her set then I will wait for another customer to sit before I approach. If you posted a bulletin in the dressing room about YOUR dancer etiquette I would be that bitch who rips it down and throws in in the garbage. IMO

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    ^^Hell yeah! I try and make a point to thank everyone who tips me on stage (not possible sometimes like on weekends when I get a lot of tippers) b/c if they tip you, they like you. Some guys tip just to tip, but most of them want dances. If a guy were showering me with $20's, you bet your ass I'd go to his table in a New York minute! As for the girl stealing my thunder (in this case, yours), well, she'd just have to deal with it. (;

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    i think if he came to sit,watch and give tips to her while she was dancing maybe he doesnt want any other girl.
    If he gave her a tip doesnt mean he will do that for some other girl
    Last edited by li so; 04-24-2008 at 01:12 PM.

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    ^^^
    WTF?

    How did race get into this issue?

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    I had that happen to me last friday at work. It was really slow and I was onstage had a guy tipping me, this new girl came and sat on his lap. This is a smaller club, so all the dancers and employees get along, I've met the owner several times. It was this girl's first night, after my set I went up to the guy, didn't even look at the girl, gave him a big hug, and said thank you. At that point he told the other girl to leave and me to sit down.

    Just be supper sweet to the customer.

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    Default Re: Dancer Etiquette

    Um, rude.

    At my club anyway, it's considered a big no-no to try and hustle customers that are sitting at the tip rail. The majority of the dancers there know this and anyone who does it usually faces the wrath of the other girls, even on someone else's behalf.

    There are plenty of customers NOT at the stage to hustle, why is it so hard to work them?


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    The club I 'grew up' in had a lot of unwritten rules, one of them was to never sit in the front row unless invited by a customer, and then it was good manners to encourage the guy to tip the girl on stage. Busting in on another girl was an ass-kicking offence, especially blocking his view, fuck that, I would have had words (Well I would have wanted to, I'm pretty shy and avoid confrontation generally but I would still be hella pissed off).

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    yup thats fucked up IMO that was YOUR $$$ not hers. does any other dancers do it too? if she does it again i would have a word with her. thats NOT cool

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    seen this happen a few time, my favorite was when the dancer on the stage slinked over to the customer the other dancer sat on realllllly sexy like and shoved her off from the stage. other times fights break out either at the stage or more normally in the DR. im a dude and i know thats big no-no.
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    Yeah, I only make the "bored" expression when I'm facing away from the guy.

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    RUDE I try not to approach the rail if a girl is dancing, and if I have to, then will be brief and ask for the dance and move on. I definately would not approach if he is in the middle of tipping, seems to be very into the girl onstage, or has money in front of him. Sitting on his lap and blocking his view??? WTF?? We must face the stage and not block the stage if we sit with a custy at the tiprail.
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    I think MOST girls know this unwritten rule of not approaching a guy at the tiprail if a dancer is dancing for HIM.

    I think its plain rude. Sounds like a total bitch.

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