
Originally Posted by
Gummi
Haha, so yesterday was interesting. The main stage was closed as they were cleaning it and such, which is great that they DO that, but it meant all the girls had to dance on the little podunk side stage.
It's like, 3 feet across and maybe 14 feet long, and we had 2-4 girls on it at a time haha. Whatever, I still danced my best despite still being unrhythmic like the other girls who have done this much much longer.
NO ONE made any money yesterday day shift, literally something like 7 lapdances had been done and 7 champagnes by the end of the shift, I only got one dance, the place was dead. :p Still no big, I didn't lose money and I got to practice on the pole and work on my dancing and hustling still.
Anyway, this young guy was in with his buddy, and he was really nice, and we chatted a bit before my stage, where he came and tipped me and we chatted some more. I tried to segue him into getting a dance, and he got this sad look, where he said to me, "I'm sorry, I want this to come out right, but I don't get dances. To me, they're demeaning to women." I giggled and said "You paying me to I can be independent and take care of myself is demeaning?"
He got flustered, and I explained the dynamics of the club, how we pay to work and all that, they don't pay us, we rely on dances for paying our bills, and he was stunned. He thought we just danced on stage, got tipped, and it was all good! I apologized to him, smiled, said I'd come back if I didn't find anyone to dance for, but that I had to go and try to make some money if he wasn't going to assist me. It was polite and amiable, and I KNOW these guys exist from you girls mentioning them, but man.
I THINK I could have worked on him more and gotten some money, but I saw him just chatting with girls for the next 3 hours and never getting any dances (or even tipping anyone else), so maybe it was a lost cause anyway. :p
Oh well, live and learn haha!
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