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    So I'm curious if I'm the only one that feels this way. I dont' think it's necessary to dress up, or do your makeup to go out in public. But at least look somewhat presentable! However, everytime I see a woman (actually or a man too) looking like a total slob in public, I feel sort of like wtf. I'm talking hair up in one those super messy updos (not the sexy kind), tshirt with holes in it, ratty sweatpants (not cute track pants) and perhaps even bedroom slippers. seriously, how much longer would it take to throw on a pair of jeans and a shirt without holes in it, and brush your hair?
    Am I the only one that thinks there is something a little bit wrong with going out in public like this? Or am I just being a nitpicker? This question is for the gentlemen too.

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    i dont look cute when i go out, haha. but i dont wear stuff with holes or anything! i throw my hair up and its probably pretty messy looking, and i might not always match perfectly but if i just have to run a quick errand or something ive just gotten to the point where i dont care. i wouldnt go shopping or anything looking like that!

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    On one hand, you never know who you're going to run into so you might as well be presentable. Kinda like when your mother tells you not to sleep naked *in case of fire*. But at the same time, my lifestyle and schedule doesn't always allow for make-up and cute hair when I go to the grocery store. I try, but most of the time, it's so much easier not to worry about it.
    And I always look like crap at the gym. No exceptions.

    Of course, I'm not trying to pick up anyone either. Anyone I need to impress in my life has seen me at my worst, so I try to look good as often as possible, but life happens.

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    lol guys I don't mean like when your hair isn't done, or your makeup isn't done. I mean like, looking like a total and complete slob, not presentable at all.
    ps- of course the gym doesn't count!
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    i mean.. i would be embarrassed to go out in something that had holes or was dirty. or in my slippers!

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    ^^^^
    This is what I mean. I saw a lady in the mall awhile ago in pjs and fuzzy slippers, and I was like....seriously?

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    I go out with may hair up in a ratty ponytail and sweatpants and my BF's shirts sometimes. I always have make up on though. I think I still look like the bomb anyways, so who cares. Plenty of people look great in anything. Not claasy or anything, but they still look hot.

    I don't do my hair because I don't want to ruin it anymore than it is (real long and frizzy). Sometimes not getting all glammed up is practical, or the person really doesn't care. I wouldn't knock anyone for it.

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    I can't figure out if I look like a slob in public or not. By regular-people standards I might, but I live in Florida, where you can enter a fine-dining establishment in a bathing suit and fanny pack. I'm proud to say that I'm always at least wearing pants and carrying a purse, so I'm more stylish than most of the population. When I feel like getting dressed quickly just so I'm decent enough to leave the house, I don one of my zillion black sundresses, none of which require a bra. If it's a little chilly, I wear men's cargo shorts and a fitted hoodie. Makeup sometimes, huge sunglasses always, never any footwear but flipflops. I am so glad that flipflops gained the public respect in the early 21st century. If it wasn't for flipflops being arbitrarily considered more formal than slippers, I'd be a fashion faux pas for sure.
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    Well by your definition I'm almost a slob. I go to school every day in baggy sweats and flip flops with my hair in a bun. I hardly ever wear a bra with it too. No body bothers me and I don't bother anyone. I wear girly cut Roxy sweats from TJ Maxx but they are soo snuggly. I'd never wear something with stains but some stuff has small holes that I'll try to stitch up. I really just don't care. I get up at 4am to commute. I like to avoid makeup and hair styling as much as I can to give my face some time to breath and to avoid as much damage on my hair as possible.

    I change after school into jeans and put on nicer makeup when I feel like perking up a bit or on the weekends. I just don't feel the need to look hot when I'm sitting half awake in lecture.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Starfire View Post
    I dont' think it's necessary to dress up, or do your makeup to go out in public. But at least look somewhat presentable!
    I just needed to quote my OP. Everyone is for some reason assuming that I'm saying it's bad to go out in public without makeup on. That's isn't what I was trying to say and I clarified twice in two other posts. There's a huge difference between "comfortable" and "slob".

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    I never look like a slob, but I do often look like a preoccupied mom.

    Some days are so chaotic with kids that the last thing you're going to do is put on nice clothes, do your hair up, put make up on, all to take a quick run (by yourself) to the store. When you get a chance to have a "quiet moment" you take it at a snap.

    LOL

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    My hope is that most people do not like and are not attracted to slobby, shabbily layered and unkempt people around them in public. This is why I make sure to look slobby, wear shabby layers and do my best to look unkempt when I'm in public.

    I'm not out to impress anyone, except maybe with my unapproachableness.

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    I'm a slob.

    For one thing, why wear anything other than what makes me comfy if no one's paying for it? I mean, as I write this I'm wearing the same pair of jeans I've been wearing for almost a week and a huge hand knit wool sweater with holes in it. I haven't brushed my hair, it's just up in a clippy thing and probably looks like shit.

    Also, I grew up thinking that it was really awesome to look tough, like you're a hard worker. People in ripped up stained carhart coats with carhart overalls totally turn me on, and I tend to kind of disregard people in impractical city clothes.



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    I completely understand not having the time, energy, or desire to do too much sometimes. I totally agree that sometimes it's not practical either. Cleaning the bathroom comes to mind...

    For my own personal standards, sometimes I'm okay with at least looking like I tried. Lip gloss and sunglasses are wonderful for that. Now that it's summer, I can break out my little sundresses. I bought some great, super cute ones from Target that are so comfortable (like wearing a big t shirt or pajamas) but just make me look really together. Slap on some lip gloss with that and you are good to go in about 5 minutes.
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    ^^Actually I grew up in redneck central where it was cool to look tough too. I'm a dead shot, can work on my own car, can do some minor plumbing and wiring, so I'm not an impractical city girl, but I'm gonna look good while doing it all. I never understood why people back home think I'm all snotty because I don't wanna wear jeans and boots.

    I make sure I'm at least cute when I leave the house. Actually I make sure I'm presentable while at home as well. Today we all have a bad cold and I'm wearing capris and a cute low-cut pink top, no makeup, but my hair is nice.

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    Quote Originally Posted by BohemianSiren View Post
    Honestly, I don't want men to so much as look at me when I'm not at work. I make an effort to look as repulsive as possible.
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    I just don't feel the need to look hot when I'm sitting half awake in lecture.
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    My hope is that most people do not like and are not attracted to slobby, shabbily layered and unkempt people around them in public. This is why I make sure to look slobby, wear shabby layers and do my best to look unkempt when I'm in public.

    I'm not out to impress anyone, except maybe with my unapproachableness.Today 05:49 PM
    That's exactly how I feel, especially going to school with a bunch of yucky, hormonal, engineer boys. I don't want them sniffing any where around my pussy. And when I am in an 8:00 lecture or a 6 hour laboratory, I just don't care. I remember one day I came in with my hair all done wearing a cute outfit and getting a million and one complements. I don't want people who I don't care about looking at me for free.

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    i wish i had the balls to go out of my house looking like that to be honest.

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    I don't care about how others dress.
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    I'm a total slob. I don't wear obvious pajamas or slippers to the store, but I do wear ratty old velour sweatpants and sometimes I don't have time to brush my hair. I hate being hit on or stared at by men in public. Looking like a dirtbag helps.

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    i look kind of trashcore when i go outside, unless i am going someplace where dressing super nice is important to me. old overalls, hoodie, etc etc etc ... but i am also kind of into the whole crustie punk scene too so it sort of makes sense. but i do shower all the time so ... i guess ... i look dirtie but i actually am clean.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Starfire View Post
    So I'm curious if I'm the only one that feels this way. I dont' think it's necessary to dress up, or do your makeup to go out in public. But at least look somewhat presentable! However, everytime I see a woman (actually or a man too) looking like a total slob in public, I feel sort of like wtf. I'm talking hair up in one those super messy updos (not the sexy kind), tshirt with holes in it, ratty sweatpants (not cute track pants) and perhaps even bedroom slippers. seriously, how much longer would it take to throw on a pair of jeans and a shirt without holes in it, and brush your hair?
    Am I the only one that thinks there is something a little bit wrong with going out in public like this? Or am I just being a nitpicker? This question is for the gentlemen too.
    I hardly ever dress up myself. I'm usually dressed casually for work and recreation. I'll put on a nice shirt for a special occasion, and wear the good shoes, and the nicer jacket. I always take care of the bare basics though...look and smell presentable.

    For a girl, I'm not picky, I like the variety. I can spot a hot chick whatever she's wearing. There's just no hidin' it girls.

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    I just dont like it when people wear pajamas and slippers in public... i mean, if youre running to the corner store, fine but at the mall. C'mon people. Jeans (even cute sweats), tshirt, flip flops, ponytail. takes all of 1 minute and you at least look presentable. Thats what i look like today... no makeup, hair not really done but not total slob.

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    If I want to look like a slob, that's my business. Don't look at me then.

    5 kids, husband,2 dogs and 2 jobs. I have very little time to myself. The only time I make an attempt at looking good, is date night or when I have to entertain people.

    Sorry if this comes off bitchy but I had a toenail pulled out at the clinic today and I have to entertain my boss tonight. I work out of town and she is coming here.


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    Also, I grew up thinking that it was really awesome to look tough, like you're a hard worker. People in ripped up stained carhart coats with carhart overalls totally turn me on, and I tend to kind of disregard people in impractical city clothes.
    See, I've always thought the opposite. People dressed badly or merely dressed for dirty jobs are widely ignored or unseen on the street, simply because it's so common in so many places.

    I can spot a hot chick whatever she's wearing. There's just no hidin' it girls.
    Couldn't disagree more.

    I remember in grad school I was the leader of a group of undergrads, all girls save one. There was this one chick who always looked like she'd been sleeping on a street grate every night. So while I was constantly and shamelessly perving on two of the other girls, I pretty much ignored this homeless chick aside from her work assignments. Anyway, fast forward six weeks to the project presentation and this chick shows up in a little black dress with heels and makeup. Can I get a goddamn?
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    I usually look like a slob. I dont give a fuck. I spend so much of my time looking hot and I deserve a few days off. here's slob for you: I dont even shower on my days off! I dont shave either, so there!
    The funniest thing is when I run to the corner to get my pizza dinner each night before work. Depending on time, I go in various states of undone. Sometimes I run over there with onyl one eye done in stripper makeup, the other eye bare. Sometimes my eyes are done but hte rest of my face of bare. Sometimes my face is done but my hair is still wet from the shower. I just don't care. it's the damn pizza place and I'm hungry.

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