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    See the lounge for Rant #1
    Here's how my night went with these two sisters that just started at my club. It actually started last night. I spent most the night in CR, and everytime I'd come out of the CR for something (bathroom or drinks) they'd run over and start asking questions (is this outfit ok, did you work at (name of other club nearby). I responded: I don't think that outfit looks good on you. The one you had on earlier was much better for you. She proceeds to get mad and rant at me because it was an expensive babyphat lingerie item. Sorry, but I don't have time to listen to you right now, I need to make money. No, I didn't work at the other club. That was the beginning.
    SO, tonight I go in.
    I do a stage set and go back for a private, that lead to a CR. I get back on the floor and there's a few guys in there. I walk past the sisters that are sitting alone to see a reg of mine I hadn't seen for awhile since I was out. The one girl grabs my arm (MISTAKE NUMBER 1...I don't know you, don't touch me) and proceeds to tell me, she KNOWS how much money I made last night and that I MUST HAVE BEEN DOING THIS FOREVER, and that I LIED about working at the other club, and I HAVE to tell them all my secrets and how I do everything because they're new.
    OH HELL NO!! You do NOT tell me to do anything. I got where I am because I did my research, I watched other girls, I observed and occasionally ASKED POLITELY for advice. You do NOT demand me of my time or knowledge. Not only that, but why the fuck are you SOO interested in my money? Mind your own fucking business about my cash flow. If you and sissypoo wanna indulge each other in your money amounts go for it, lay off of me though. Oh, and I have NOTHING better to do than LIE about working at another club and how long I've been dancing. There's NO WAY a girl could make that kind of money working less than year in the industry and not at other club. OMG I WANTED TO PUNCH THEM.
    This is all what I thought though. I was somewhat patient and the first time they wanted some advice I gave the following " Don't worry about anyones money but your own, don't sit all night at a table alone(or with sis) when there are customers to be talked to, and love what you do (or be really good at pretending)...customers can tell."
    The rest of the night they followed me, even when I was taking a break to eat, it was question after question. Honestly I don't have the patience for this. I'm going to get rude with them. I think (hopefully) they got the clue when they kept asking questions, and I would just stare blankly and eat my salad. I mean the girl even HAD to know what kind of dressing I had (which was none for those of you that also need to know).
    I know we are all new once. I understand it can be difficult and hard. But there are some ground rules, don't harass me and the other dancers for all our knowledge. A lot of what we learned we learned on our own and it comes with time to begin with. Also, if you want help ask-don't DEMAND that someone has to tell you how they go about hustlng. That doesn't go over well. The night was shitty and they put me in a bad mood (I was sick to begin with and my boobs ached) so I asked to go home. As I was getting dressed there were other dancers in the back saying they were just approached in the same manner. One of these days they'll cross someone who is not patient, and I hope to God I see what goes down. Till then I'm keeping quiet and worrying about my own damn self. In a way they won...I left which increases they're chances of making money. But I physically was exhausted and so I guess both parties got ahead this time
    End of rant...I feel better now.

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    Damn. I was terrified of all of the other girls, especially the "high earners", when I first started dancing...

    Hey, maybe since they might have made some money they'll shut up? Maybe?

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    how do they possibly make money when they spend all night up your ass? blech, that would annoy me too.

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    ^^^first off, I just noticed you're in Dayton...YAY! I grew up in Bowling Green and had a lot of friends in the Dayton area.
    On another note, I hope once they start making money they'll leave us alone. If not they'll get some shit in time. I'm one of the few non-dramatic girls there, so someones going to say something...it's just a matter of time.

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    and OMG I just realized how long my post was...you READ that thing?!?!

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    ^^ Yeah... I'm bored. haha.

    I'm a no-drama dancer, too, so the young newbs kinda get all big-eyed and weird when they talk me. I only work weekends, so they usually don't bother me very often. I make it a point to avoid conversation with other dancers on the floor. Sounds like that's what you do too, but they chased you down. How odd. Does the house-mom know what's up?

    BTDubs, your siggy quote is killing me.

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    We don't have a house mom. And management doesn't really care at this point. One's either flirting with a dancer, the other is usually drunk or off his ass on xanax (which is the better of the two) and the third is just clueless cause he's hoping he can get some sex tonight. Overall management is good, but it's been a bit lame lately.
    Threadjack (can one jack their own thread?) what does BTDubs mean? The whole abbreveation thing gets me every time.

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    BTDubs= BTW=By The Way. My friends and I made a game of abbreviating every word we possibly could. It got to the point where no one else knew what the hell we were saying.

    Oh man... I've been spoiled by my club!

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    I'm coming back home twice this summer. I may be heading through Dayton. If so, PM me what club you work at and maybe E and I can stop by and throw some cash your way (not making any promises though...both trips are for wedding plans which = -funds) but we will if we can!

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    Quote Originally Posted by ajbaer View Post
    and OMG I just realized how long my post was...you READ that thing?!?!
    It wasn't that long!
    I dunno.. but I would have a hard time working at the same place as my sister. I couldn't imagine having to go to work seeing her then going home and still seeing her. Girl has some balls though grabbing at ya like that. Some girls can be crazy, wouldn't catch me pulling something like that.
    ...Not saying your crazy. Just saying it is a bad idea in general to grab at people

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    It's one thing to ask for advice (I do it when I can see that someone might have a moment), but it's another to hound, grab, demand, and touch someone over and over, especially if it's apparent they're focused elsewhere.
    "Don't piss off a motivated stripper."


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    ^^that's why my pm was soo short to you CS...because I had those girls hounding me all night. Usually I love giving tips, and I'll tip some more in PM when I feel up to it. I just couldn't do a ton tonight.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ajbaer View Post
    ^^that's why my pm was soo short to you CS...because I had those girls hounding me all night. Usually I love giving tips, and I'll tip some more in PM when I feel up to it. I just couldn't do a ton tonight.

    Never worry about that, honestly. I didn't expect such a prompt response at all lol! I was really happy to hear what you shared, and whenever you're up for a chat, that's great, but there's no rush. You have to take care of you first.

    I find the sisters' blatant intrusiveness about *your* money on a given night really tacky. I also still have questions about what's "normal" on a given night, but their approach was insulting and harassment.
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    I went in today and the one girl that was especially nosy quit. Something about so and so didn't approve. Whatev...so happy she's not around. Her sister is still working there, and she's MUCH nicer, esp. since sis isn't around. I could see myself helping her out.

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    whoa whoa whoa. who the hell grabs someone, someone they don't know and demands something out of them. ppl are wack.

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    i love ti when the new girls brag "i cant believe this guy gave me 100 dollars im rich" haha. and they spout off about how much they make like its more then everyone

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    Ugh! What does this club you supposedly used to work at have to do with ANYTHING anyway?!?

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    I'm way too scared of the "real" dancers when I go audition anywhere. I don't start any conversations, but am just really nice if spoken to first. I can't imagine acting this way. Yuck. I'd be pissed that I couldn't enjoy my dinner. I'm protective of my meal time !

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    I find most of the newbs annoying. These mistakenly see you as a friend and are now going to try to run up on you asking all these dumb ass questions. Blow them off and give them basic answers and that should stop. I hate the newbs that are always asking for shit. Shut up and MYOB and come prepared newbs. I was speaking with a fellow dancer once about my boobs, and newbie girl I've never met overhears and says "Oh my gosh your tits are fake," then grabs them with both hands without even asking first, then states "Gee they're hard, why are they soooooo hard," GRRRRRRR.
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    DAmn. We were all newbie strippers too at one point. They just don't know the way things are done yet. It'll click in time and then they'll be fine. I offer to help new girls when I can because I would have wanted someone to help me when I first started.
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    I've helped lots of new girls, and tend to enjoy it. However, I don't HAVE to, nor do I OWE it to anyone. Don't grab me, don't tell me what I have to do, and don't tell me when you have to shit (yeah, the blonde did that too on the second night). It's all pretty relative though, as she quit. As far as I know her sister (who is pretty nice and I may help out) is still working there.
    I'm by no means AGAINST helping new people out..I am against being told what to do unless you are management.

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    Word. To their mother. Who should have taught them better manners.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sarah Andi View Post
    Word. To their mother. Who should have taught them better manners.
    Hahahaahah!!!

    i dont even know how you put up with that I would have snapped. Yes we were all new. Yes many girls helped me, as I helped many as well. That doesn't mean that its okay to let people stalk you at work!!
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    Holy cow. You got some patience, woman. I mean, in order to help out new girls, and you don't even know how long they'll even be there. I have never told any new dancer my money making strategies, they can go figure it out themselves like everyone else did. I would've lost my temper if somebody acted that annoyingly infatuated with me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ajbaer View Post
    I've helped lots of new girls, and tend to enjoy it. However, I don't HAVE to, nor do I OWE it to anyone. Don't grab me, don't tell me what I have to do, and don't tell me when you have to shit (yeah, the blonde did that too on the second night). It's all pretty relative though, as she quit. As far as I know her sister (who is pretty nice and I may help out) is still working there.
    I'm by no means AGAINST helping new people out..I am against being told what to do unless you are management.
    My comment wasn't directed at you. I agree that what those two girls did goes above and beyond the usual new stripper stuff. I was replying to the chica above me.
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