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Here's how my night went with these two sisters that just started at my club. It actually started last night. I spent most the night in CR, and everytime I'd come out of the CR for something (bathroom or drinks) they'd run over and start asking questions (is this outfit ok, did you work at (name of other club nearby). I responded: I don't think that outfit looks good on you. The one you had on earlier was much better for you. She proceeds to get mad and rant at me because it was an expensive babyphat lingerie item. Sorry, but I don't have time to listen to you right now, I need to make money. No, I didn't work at the other club. That was the beginning.
SO, tonight I go in.
I do a stage set and go back for a private, that lead to a CR. I get back on the floor and there's a few guys in there. I walk past the sisters that are sitting alone to see a reg of mine I hadn't seen for awhile since I was out. The one girl grabs my arm (MISTAKE NUMBER 1...I don't know you, don't touch me) and proceeds to tell me, she KNOWS how much money I made last night and that I MUST HAVE BEEN DOING THIS FOREVER, and that I LIED about working at the other club, and I HAVE to tell them all my secrets and how I do everything because they're new.
OH HELL NO!! You do NOT tell me to do anything. I got where I am because I did my research, I watched other girls, I observed and occasionally ASKED POLITELY for advice. You do NOT demand me of my time or knowledge. Not only that, but why the fuck are you SOO interested in my money? Mind your own fucking business about my cash flow. If you and sissypoo wanna indulge each other in your money amounts go for it, lay off of me though. Oh, and I have NOTHING better to do than LIE about working at another club and how long I've been dancing. There's NO WAY a girl could make that kind of money working less than year in the industry and not at other club. OMG I WANTED TO PUNCH THEM.
This is all what I thought though. I was somewhat patient and the first time they wanted some advice I gave the following " Don't worry about anyones money but your own, don't sit all night at a table alone(or with sis) when there are customers to be talked to, and love what you do (or be really good at pretending)...customers can tell."
The rest of the night they followed me, even when I was taking a break to eat, it was question after question. Honestly I don't have the patience for this. I'm going to get rude with them. I think (hopefully) they got the clue when they kept asking questions, and I would just stare blankly and eat my salad. I mean the girl even HAD to know what kind of dressing I had (which was none for those of you that also need to know).
I know we are all new once. I understand it can be difficult and hard. But there are some ground rules, don't harass me and the other dancers for all our knowledge. A lot of what we learned we learned on our own and it comes with time to begin with. Also, if you want help ask-don't DEMAND that someone has to tell you how they go about hustlng. That doesn't go over well. The night was shitty and they put me in a bad mood (I was sick to begin with and my boobs ached) so I asked to go home. As I was getting dressed there were other dancers in the back saying they were just approached in the same manner. One of these days they'll cross someone who is not patient, and I hope to God I see what goes down. Till then I'm keeping quiet and worrying about my own damn self. In a way they won...I left which increases they're chances of making money. But I physically was exhausted and so I guess both parties got ahead this time
End of rant...I feel better now.


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