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    ok, this may be a little long, but hear me out. i used to work as a stripper from the time i was 18 until about 25. I joined the military for about a year and hated it. i ended marrying my ex-husband who took care of me until i was about 29. He went back to drinking and drugs and stopped paying the rent so I had to. There were no strip clubs where I lived in monterey, so i tried an escort service. it was ok, because i did some bachelor parties and outcall where i didn't have to do much but dance and the occasional extra.

    i moved to phoenix, because i couldn't live with my ex anymore. he became too abusive. i wanted to get out of the cold san francisco weather, so to phoenix i went. i tried to escort down here, but it's been a nightmare. it's been really dangerous and the guys expect full-on intercourse everytime and for ridiculously cheap prices. i am not that kind of girl and i don't want to do that. when i was working for an agency, i had a driver/bodyguard, so i could get out of the calls with doing as little as possible. but, i've been fired by them for not going out to a call at 3:30am in the fucking morning. i've tried working as an escort independently, but it's too dangerous. now, i'm getting the reputation as a rip off, because i refuse to have sex with these jerks for 300 a pop or even less.

    i just want to keep my dignity and not have to have sex with men for money. i've thought about going back to stripping again, but i'm 37. i'm really pretty and look young for my age which has been a real source of tension between me and the other escorts. most of them down here aren't as pretty as the strippers. the women are very jealous and hate my guts and have done everything from day one to stop 'clients' from calling me. i've literally had to try to mace guys to get out of their hotel rooms with my money, because they expected sex and i was just going to dance or do a massage (something legal).

    i just don't know if i can pull off dancing at my age and i'm very worried. i also feel like i'm out of options. i don't wish to escort and deal with these perverts anymore. i'm almost in tears as i write this, because i feel like the whole world has abandoned me.

    even when i was dancing, there was some comaraderie among other dancers. now, i'm all alone and feel out of options. i'm sorry that i'm going on and on, but don't know what to do. maybe i should have posted this in the newbie thread, but i have danced before so i'm not new.

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    It doesn't hurt to try and audition. If you don't make the cut, research around. Who knows..maybe something will pan out. At least you know you tried. We have some very attractive females dancing at my club that are that age and older. Age doesn't mean anything, it depends on your abilities, style, and how much you can make the house. If you don't cut it, which you have to have the confidence that you will, find another source of income. I dont have any ideas atm, as I'm falling asleep but I'm sure you'll come up with something.

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    You should do some dancing at night (at least to see if you can: just find a more mature, less college-y club to do it in), and then get a day job?

    Do you have any family you could ask for help?

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    why don't you get another job? you can't dance forever. you could waitress or bar tend and still make decent money.

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    Definitely try dancing. Age is a number, and it brings with the kind of experience that makes a dancer more interesting for the customer. I'm on the older end for my club (at 25), and the other older girls and I do better than the 18-22 set because we've got life experience that makes custies want to buy long dances and VIP time. Add your life experiences to your dance experience and your hotness, and you'll bank.

    Never compromise yourself, babe!

    Be safe. Be well.

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    Try dancing. 37 isn't that old, no matter how much the younger girls think it is! haha. I'm 34 and no one ever guesses it. If you can handle the escorting world, then you will do fine in the strip club. But, don't tell them you were an escort. That's something you need to keep to yourself.

    Good luck!

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    Thanks for all your support. I'm feeling a little better now. They have a bunch of clubs in Phoenix. I just don't know which one is the right one, but i'm going to research it. I like entertaining, and I think it's better for me to be around other people. I know that i can't totally trust a lot of women in the biz, but at least, i have people to talk to.

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    I worked with a dancer this week who is 39. She rocks.

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