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    lastnight, and this actually is the third time, i had a dancer practically throw herself at me. it was a tad on the amusing side, she was hanging all over me and telling me how she wanted to take me back to her place for a "special tip" honestly i thought she was plastered, but some of the other dancers said shes been talking about it. from what i hear now the clubs shes been at before she had a problem with sleeping with the staff. mabey im just jaded and think that an attractive woman wouldn't want me, im not exactly what i would classify(heterosexually) as good looking and im usually a bit on the abrasive and curt side when im at work. i still think women should come with manuals
    Quote Originally Posted by Andygirl View Post
    Yeah, I only make the "bored" expression when I'm facing away from the guy.

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    It's never a good idea to sleep with a co-worker IMO.
    At one club I worked at staff would get fired if they slept with any of the dancers. We had one girl that would sleep with a new bouncer, get mad at him and tell the owner, out the door he went. When we finally got a decent floor guy the other girls warned him and told her to keep her hands off!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Susan-Va View Post
    It's never a good idea to sleep with a co-worker IMO.
    At one club I worked at staff would get fired if they slept with any of the dancers. We had one girl that would sleep with a new bouncer, get mad at him and tell the owner, out the door he went. When we finally got a decent floor guy the other girls warned him and told her to keep her hands off!
    Why wouldn't the dancer be fired as well??

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    Quote Originally Posted by NewMoon View Post
    Why wouldn't the dancer be fired as well??
    Dancers make the owner $$, bouncers cost him $$, that's his mentality.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Susan-Va View Post
    It's never a good idea to sleep with a co-worker IMO.
    At one club I worked at staff would get fired if they slept with any of the dancers. We had one girl that would sleep with a new bouncer, get mad at him and tell the owner, out the door he went. When we finally got a decent floor guy the other girls warned him and told her to keep her hands off!

    trust me i know this. i learned it the hard way at a "normal" job, i was hooking up with a co-worker and she ended up becoming my supervisor. when i said we shouldn't hook up anymore she flipped and had me fired making up stories of insubordination and upsetting customers.

    Quote Originally Posted by NewMoon View Post
    Why wouldn't the dancer be fired as well??
    thats how we ended up with her

    Quote Originally Posted by Susan-Va View Post
    Dancers make the owner $$, bouncers cost him $$, that's his mentality.
    normally......... lol. i always shake down douchebags to tip the girls and the club before tossing them i stopped a guy from getting tossed in a paddy wagon once to pretty much empty his wallet
    Quote Originally Posted by Andygirl View Post
    Yeah, I only make the "bored" expression when I'm facing away from the guy.

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    Be carefull with dancers who throw themselves at you in the club. In my experience (especially if she has a rep for sleeping with the staff), she's probably just wants an "in" to make more money.
    I've seen it quite a few times, and seen a few good bouncers/djs lose their jobs over it. And yes, the management usually sides with the girl.
    It may seem easy and fun, but obviously SO not worth it.

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    We're warned when we're hired, but of course it still happens.

    My favorite was the newb who went up to a bouncer and asked him if he wanted to *buy a dance* so she could "show you my pussy". :barf:

    He laughed in her face.

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    Quote Originally Posted by BabyGirlKylie View Post
    Be carefull with dancers who throw themselves at you in the club. In my experience (especially if she has a rep for sleeping with the staff), she's probably just wants an "in" to make more money.
    I've seen it quite a few times, and seen a few good bouncers/djs lose their jobs over it. And yes, the management usually sides with the girl.
    It may seem easy and fun, but obviously SO not worth it.

    Exxxaaactly. Or she's a crazy with no boundaries.

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    From the dancer's point of view:
    I'm normally not into dating co-workers, but at my old club there was this bouncer...
    We kept it secret becuase we were scared of getting in trouble.
    But apparently he kept it a secret because he was also fucking another dancer and a waitress.
    Shame on me.
    New rule, never ever ever fuck the co-workers.






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    Meeting people at work is pretty common. But at a strip club? BAD IDEA. I would never do it. Even if I were single. Could you just imagine how fun work would be after the relationship goes south? Doing stage after a bad relationship with a DJ? And if you fucked a manager? Don't ever want to go there. Nope.

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    I've done it. We fucked around a lot. It was just for sex, we both knew that and we were 'mature' about it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by virgoamm View Post
    Meeting people at work is pretty common. But at a strip club? BAD IDEA. I would never do it. Even if I were single. Could you just imagine how fun work would be after the relationship goes south? Doing stage after a bad relationship with a DJ? And if you fucked a manager? Don't ever want to go there. Nope.
    I've been working with my man for almost two years. We hooked up about 9 months ago now... we still work together time to time. Hes the manager/dj at one of the clubs I do shows at in Winnipeg. We have yet to have a problem *shrug*

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    I'm not saying that it can't work out, Cally! Just like most of us say dating customers is a bad idea-I'm living proof that it's not always true..

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    Quote Originally Posted by CollegeCutie21 View Post
    From the dancer's point of view:
    I'm normally not into dating co-workers, but at my old club there was this bouncer...
    We kept it secret becuase we were scared of getting in trouble.
    But apparently he kept it a secret because he was also fucking another dancer and a waitress.
    Shame on me.
    New rule, never ever ever fuck the co-workers.
    i......... um........ i plead the fifth. im not saying ive never done it, but just not like this. it only happened with 2 dancers and a waitress over the span of 4 years and like said above it was about sex and nothing else but maturely broken off when either they or i found someone to have a real relationship with. im still friends with both dancers, the waitress moved to another state and we lost touch. i went to one of the dancers weddings a year ago, which was a little awkward when we danced at the reception lol
    Quote Originally Posted by Andygirl View Post
    Yeah, I only make the "bored" expression when I'm facing away from the guy.

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