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    Angry I just had to stand back and watch...

    I can't believe it... I felt useless and helpless...

    I just had to stand back and watch this guy beat the living shit out of my friend... like beat him to a pulp...

    I can't get the image of him sitting there blood pouring from his face while the EMTs were attending to him.

    I don't know how much I can post as the cops took a statement from me and my friend is in the hospital.

    All I can say though is the guys who did this were caught about 10min after the cops showed up and my friend is in the hospital but hes awake and talking(the best he can with his face all beat in).

    Im in shock... I can't stop crying and shaking. I love this guy, he helped me through some hard times.

    I hate the fact I couldn't do anything but stand there and watch.

    My man wants me to go home today... he doesn't want me to stay here anymore(I can't blame him)... I don't even know if I could finish my last night here... god... I just don't know what to do...

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    God damn. That is a HARD situation to be in. I absolutely hate feeling helpless, especially in fight. I must say, you probably did the right thing not stepping in (well, at least for your well-being). I've made mistakes in these kinds of situations, and have paid dearly for it. Anyways, try to calm down hun. I know it's easier said than done.
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    You poor thing, I'm so sorry this happened. I can't even imagine what a horrible thing that must have been to go through, watching your friend get attacked in such a violent way.
    Try and think of the positives. Your friend is in hospital and recovering, it sounds as though he escaped any serious head injuries or such like which is a real blessing, and the guys that did it have been caught and hopefully will pay the price for what they did.

    I think you should go home as your bf says. You sound like you've been really shaken up and need people around you for love and support.
    My thought are with you and your friend, I hope he makes a fast recovery. xx



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    OMG Cally. I am so sorry you had to see that. You poor thing.

    Is your friend going to be ok?

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    Where the hell are you??


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    Thanks guys...

    Im in Toronto Scarlett... was booked at Filmores for the shooting of Dancers Gone Wild... this guy is so sweet... I just can't believe some random asshats went after him like that.

    He should hopefully be okay... hes shaken up and when I left the hospital the cops were still with him.

    There was nothing no one could do... the other guy who was with us tried to help him but he got held back by the attackers friend.

    I really want to be home with my man right now... I just want to curl up in his arms and make the images in my mind go away.

    The other part of me wants to stick out the last night of this booking. I just don't think I can handle being in the club now though..

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    OMG Cally, that's terrible. I'm sending "get better vibes" to you and your friend. I couldn't stay..I'd go home too.
    ETA: I thought you were coming DC this week? Or was that a different month?

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    We won't be doing DC now... we had a lot of unexpected shit come up... our whole vacation has been scrapped

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    Really sorry to hear. Maybe next time you come our backyard will be finished complete with hot tub
    I hope you can get everything straightened out in your head. Might not hurt to talk to a counselor. Even though you weren't the one physically hurt you can struggle with PTSD. I did, and it's not pretty.

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    Thanks hon...

    Boy is paying to get my flight changed... this shit is insane... I don't even know how to feel... im numb and in shock... I just want him to be okay..

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    If he's talking and awake there's probably a great chance everything will physically be ok. I hope when you get home to your man you'll feel better. Comfort can soothe a lot of emotions. I wish you the best.

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    OMG that is so horrible. My heart goes out to you. I hope your friend is alright. I don't know if this is any comfort, but the face bleeds like crazy (compared to the rest of the body) so I hope your friend is a lot less hurt than it seemed.
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    Jesus Jota Christo! I cannot imagine how you must feel. Help your friend all you can. I suspect, I hope, it will make you feel better. Push the police to bring these guys to court and jail. Take the time to testify and all that.

    Take care of yourself too. You might have feelings of being violated, or of not having done the right thing, these are typical of crime victims. Don't fall into that trap.

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    Oh no...was it somebody I know? If it was, tell them I'm sending healing vibes.
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    Wow, what a tough and horrible situation to be in but you did the right thing. Help him fight this in court.

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    What a crummy way for your toronto gig to end. Hugs Cally.

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    Man, that really is an awful situation to be in. As long as your there for him now, which is obviously sounds like you have been, he will understand that there was absolutely nothing you could do. Try not to feel bad about it. If he got beaten that bad imagine what they could have done to you...

    I hope your friend gets better fast

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    I'm sorry you had to witness that
    I absolutely hate violence like that, i don't even like watching it on tv.
    I hope you can find a way to clear your mind and focus on something positive.



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    I hate fights... they are the worst to watch.

    WHY did they beat him?

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    agreed why did all this happen?

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    Kitty you do know him... i'll pm you.

    It was all because my buddy tossed them out of the club at the end of the night. The bar was closing so it was the 'get the fuck out' time. The guys didn't want to leave so when he tossed them they got pissed and apparently followed us down the street after.

    Stupid isn't it?

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    Can I ask why you had to just stand there ? I mean was it fear or someone was physically holding you back ?? I am just curious and I am sorry for your friend . Guys and their egos , oh no I had to leave the bar at closing time , poor me .....
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    I am so sorry cally. I have been in the same situation.. you feel so helpless. ALl I could do was the call the poilce. I felt awful for a while after the incident.

    Did your friend suffer any other serious injury's?


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    Honey, that's awful.
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    I'm sorry honey, how terrible

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